So this is something that I've been curious about, especially because of dilation. Do you bleed you're first time having sex with another(like a natal woman)?(I saw a video of a trans woman bled during her first sex) but I don't understand because wouldn't you bleed after dilating the first time? Also, would you be able to lie about it(if you're a virgin or not)? Would he be able to tell?
Bleeding after first sexual intercourse is a myth. Not all cis women will experience it. And usually the bleeding happen when the hymen (you can google this word) was torn. For us, we don't have any hymen so it she was bleeding in the video, it could either be fake or she have some granulation that cause it.
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Blood while dilating in the early stages is pretty common. For the first few months wearing a feminine pad is a requirement if you don't wish to soil your underwear. After proper healing has took place, there shouldn't be any bleeding unless the play is rougher than it should be.
Quote from: Dena on February 20, 2016, 09:31:51 AM
Blood while dilating in the early stages is pretty common. For the first few months wearing a feminine pad is a requirement if you don't wish to soil your underwear. After proper healing has took place, there shouldn't be any bleeding unless the play is rougher than it should be.
This, exactly.
I remember watching a popular trans youtuber say she tried sex at 6 months , if I remember correctly and had a fair bit of bleeding and a bad time of it. So she was going to wait till 12 month before trying again. Might have been her
Quote from: Serenation on February 27, 2016, 10:08:04 AM
I remember watching a popular trans youtuber say she tried sex at 6 months , if I remember correctly and had a fair bit of bleeding and a bad time of it. So she was going to wait till 12 month before trying again. Might have been her
I had SRS ~2 months ago. I bought myself a toy for Valentines day and yeah... it made me bleed a small amount so I stopped. I think it was related to the girth and that my healing is still going on. Anyways waited a couple weeks and tried again and now it doesn't bleed from that toy.
Quote from: Serenation on February 27, 2016, 10:08:04 AM
I remember watching a popular trans youtuber say she tried sex at 6 months , if I remember correctly and had a fair bit of bleeding and a bad time of it. So she was going to wait till 12 month before trying again. Might have been her
It was at 4.5-5 months ... she said so in the vid ...
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Hello everyone, I bleed a little after engaging in sexual intercourse for the first time, I was pretty sore as well.
This occurred 5 months after SRS. No bleeding since but soreness varies with intensity of partner and or activity.
Pleasure ans sensation from sexual intercourse has progressively improved with each experience. :P
IMO, well worth pain and price of admission.
Thank you,
Anne
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Quote from: OCAnne on February 28, 2016, 06:58:18 AM
I bleed a little after engaging in sexual intercourse for the first time, I was pretty sore as well.
This occurred 5 months after SRS. No bleeding since but soreness varies with intensity of partner and or activity.
I had the same experience, I had intercourse 1st time 14 months after my surgery with a boyfriend at the time, I had a small amount of bleeding and soreness, nervousness and the new experience took time to adjust being a woman, soreness depended on how gentle the guy was, it got better over time.
No bleeding for my first time. I waited 5&1/2 years!
Quote from: big kim on February 29, 2016, 02:23:18 AM
No bleeding for my first time. I waited 5&1/2 years!
Just more proof that some people are ready before others. Take it easy, OP.
Quote from: DiamondBladee on February 29, 2016, 07:38:10 AM
Just more proof that some people are ready before others. Take it easy, OP.
That's so true, some are ready earlier than others, it's a real important moment ''that first time'' it's important for the guy to be understanding, gentle and patient, here's an old thread from a few years ago where I posted my experience and others, some girls bleed, some don't https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,96749.msg708139.html#msg708139
The whole "popping cherry" idea with the hymen for cisfemales is a MYTH. Look up "You can't pop your cherry Hymen 101" by lacigreen on youtube.
Also hymens aren't generally created during SRS as it would be nearly impossible to provide the proper blood supply to a membrane of tissue covering the new vaginal opening (not to mention, where would you source the material anyway?). Otherwise, you can bleed from dilating, sex, and vibrators. The neovagina is a bit of a surgical site for quite some time after all. I myself luckily haven't dealt with a lot of bleeding from the vagina, but it's happened a few times from vibrators and dilating.
To answer in a word: No.
But as others have stated, you do get your first (and only) period for a few months after the surgery :P
Even if you had a 'haiman' to 'break', dilating would surely do it before having sex haha