So I wasn't sure whether to put this in the " Coming Out " section since I technically did come out to my parents already. They know about it. But the thing is I've never even told them my name, nor have they even seen me dressed up or with makeup or anything. Aaaand I still live with them so it gets kinda awkward. But I've set up a group appointment with my gender therapist which I'm thinking about finally going to as Maddie but wooooow I feel anxious. I'm not sure how to feel really.
I feel like maybe actually seeing me like that will sort of make them realize this is real.
It is always hard to take that first step. But when you do you may feel scared, anxious and nervous but I promise you you won't regret it.. And the more you do do it the less of concern it will become. And you just start to feel that this is your everyday look... You will be fine... Take care and good luck at your session.. Xxx
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It's a difficult but important step to take. Please let us know how the group appointment goes.
I am just came out in February and have been taking baby steps and each time I do something more to get closer to the woman I am I get nervous and then just do it and feel amazing after. I started small wearing a jog bra under my male shirts and now I wear them all the time and when I am not at work I wear geeky women's t-shirts where the straps and outline are completely visible and it feels right even when I am not wearing a jacket. I still have to switch thoughts sometimes from "what are people going to think" to "I feel like me and I am happy" and it helps calm me down. I started small and went up from there with my expression of me I would recommend doing what I am and taking baby steps but at your own pace. Your therapist will be able to help you as well mine has. huggs
I came out to my wife in late January, I was the hardest think that I ever had to tell her. First she was hurt and confused but she is slowly coming around to the idea. One of the many millions reasons why I love her.
I have been what seem like taking baby steps. I have been sitting when I peeing, wearing women's undergarment, usually every day. I work on applying make up everyday. When I go out I try to wear women's clothing and foot ware as mush as I can.
I know that these are the first steps but they still need to be taken.