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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: stephaniec on April 12, 2016, 12:36:38 AM

Title: you ever get that little rush when the gender your attracted to stares
Post by: stephaniec on April 12, 2016, 12:36:38 AM
I've been noticing lately that I'm catching glimpses out of the corner of my eye of cute guys looking at me when I seem not to be noticing them. I quite a rush. I'm in a college town with a lot of guys running around and lately I've been catching a few looking. (
Title: Re: you ever get that little rush when the gender your attracted to stares
Post by: Hikari on April 12, 2016, 06:25:45 AM
Lol for me I always think "why is she looking at me oh no, I bet I have a stain on my shirt or something" then I inspect myself for some reason to warrant staring lol. I almost never think someone is looking at me in a romantic way and when someone is they basically have to tell me directly or I won't know.
Title: Re: you ever get that little rush when the gender your attracted to stares
Post by: stephaniec on April 12, 2016, 06:59:50 AM
It's definitely confusing
Title: Re: you ever get that little rush when the gender your attracted to stares
Post by: Emjay on April 12, 2016, 07:23:59 AM
Quote from: Hikari on April 12, 2016, 06:25:45 AM
Lol for me I always think "why is she looking at me oh no, I bet I have a stain on my shirt or something" then I inspect myself for some reason to warrant staring lol. I almost never think someone is looking at me in a romantic way and when someone is they basically have to tell me directly or I won't know.

Kind of related/unrelated:   A few weeks ago my wife and I were walking out of a store and two guys come up to us and ask where a local restaurant is.....  It was literally across the street, couldn't miss it if you tried, so I look at the guy like "seriously?!"  and my wife tells him to look across the street....  He asks a few more questions about the place then leaves.   When we got to the car I mentioned something about those guys being pretty unobservant and she tells me that no, they were hitting on us....... 

My response:   "Huh.........." 

I guess I'm the unobservant one............and apparently I have a lot to learn!    ::)
Title: Re: you ever get that little rush when the gender your attracted to stares
Post by: SofiN on April 12, 2016, 07:53:46 AM
I don't think I'm quite far enough in transition for this to be a thing yet.

Have seen some occasional looks but can't tell if they are interested or "is that a boy or girl" looks.

Sounds like you gals are having quite the experiences though. :D I can't wait until I get that ... well maybe I can xD
Title: Re: you ever get that little rush when the gender your attracted to stares
Post by: kittenpower on April 12, 2016, 07:57:57 AM
I guess it's all about perspective, but I realize that just because someone is looking at me; it doesn't mean they are attracted to me.