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Title: Hello Again
Post by: chrissydr on May 10, 2016, 06:00:40 AM
Hello again,

I say hello again as I was on this forum before but kinda had a bit of a rough year. To keep it short and sweet, I will jsut keep it to the simple things.

I am in the middle of a seperation from my now ex-wife. After living in a amrriage where she was ok with me transitioning, she has decided that she can't live with it after all and needs to become a single woman again. Added to that we have 2 girls, which we are working on splitting our time with which can be difficult within itself.

I guess she is not alone on that as I am too becoming a single woman and am just trying to find a way to cope with it.Which to be honest, has not been well. I have lurked every now and then and have done what I can to try and find some solace in the words that I have read, but I am just finding it rather difficult.

I am working 40 hours a week and mixed with college and the girls don't have much time for things and I am just feeling alone and miserable. I just need someone to talk to. I wish I could find someone to actually cuddle with at night, but I don't think its going to happen, so I am left alone and depressed and only my rabbit to hold...wish I had a dog, but time does not allow me such comforts either.

Thanks for letting me rant and I will try and actually do some posting to try and get a bit involved with stuff.
Chris
Title: Re: Hello Again
Post by: Laura_7 on May 10, 2016, 06:26:20 AM
Hello  :)

I'd say just contact a few people ... its likely they also like to talk to someone.

You could have a look here:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,135219.0.html

http://www.scottishtrans.org/support/support-groups-in-scotland/

http://www.transgenderscotland.org/


and you might contact a few people from this thread:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,155561.300.html



hugs

Title: Re: Hello Again
Post by: V M on May 10, 2016, 08:25:58 AM
Hi Chris  :icon_wave:

Welcome back to Susan's  :)  Glad to have you here again, join on in the fun

Here's a few quick links to the site rules and policies to help you along so you'll know what's up

Please be sure to review:

Things that you should read




Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)

Hugs

V M
Title: Re: Hello Again
Post by: DogSpirit on May 11, 2016, 11:22:41 AM
We're glad to see you back, Chris. Sorry to hear that it's been such a difficult year for you. It's so hard to find and develop relationships when you have no time. It's good that you're carving out a bit of time for yourself-- you so need it, I'm sure!

All the best,
-- Sue
Title: Re: Hello Again
Post by: Rachel on May 11, 2016, 08:05:25 PM
Hi Chris,

Welcome back to Susan's.

Group may help and it does not require a lot of time.
Title: Re: Hello Again
Post by: Devlyn on May 15, 2016, 01:58:04 PM
Hi Chris, welcome back! I think we could all use a few more hours in the day! See you around the site!

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Hello Again
Post by: chrissydr on May 15, 2016, 04:18:40 PM
Thanks everyone.

Good to be back here a bit more, time is still of the essence, but I am starting to feel better. A few friends of mine have been getting worried and are doing what they can, but its a long road.

Chris