To start off I have always been bisexual from my very early years and I accept that. The thing is I'm going through puberty and I finally totally get the term boy crazy as if I was a teen.I Dr. I've never seen before was asking me about my hospital visit. I can't stop thinking about him he was my age or a little younger and I can't help it I'm going crazy.Then on the street yesterday I saw this well dressed man my age who was somehow associated with the university I live near and I can't stop thinking about him. Men are driving me crazy. Has anyone else experienced a new level , not a change in sexual attraction , but just an intensity.
This new feeling that makes you "stupid" and pretty arroused when you meet handsome guys that appeared all of a sudden? Well, yes in my case i had it too.
I was attracted to men before but now it's a whole new story.
Not really, if anything it has lessened for me.
I have always been attracted to guys. Now, some I am so attracted to it is incredible. I am very attracted to my PA. He is awesome, physically fit, cute, 6'4", smart and smells phenomenal. I was getting meds Thursday and walking from my therapist's to the pharmacy. I saw my PA walking on the other side of the street. We waved and he had the most amazing smile.
Mine has gone down too.
Sapere Aude
Quote from: Rachel Lynn on May 21, 2016, 07:58:12 PM
I have always been attracted to guys. Now, some I am so attracted to it is incredible. I am very attracted to my PA. He is awesome, physically fit, cute, 6'4", smart and smells phenomenal. I was getting meds Thursday and walking from my therapist's to the pharmacy. I saw my PA walking on the other side of the street. We waved and he had the most amazing smile.
yea
My non existent sex drive is still non existent. I was attracted to men before and I still am. I can't say anything has changed on that front due to HRT. Hugs
Mariah
I am def going boy crazy. I can't explain it other than that. I just can't function around certain guys as they come to where I work. ANd the worst thing is that one of them is the store manager of my store. Everytime he comes to see me to do something, I just basically end up falling apart like some stupid hormonal teenager.
Quote from: stephaniec on May 20, 2016, 09:43:34 AM
To start off I have always been bisexual from my very early years and I accept that. The thing is I'm going through puberty and I finally totally get the term boy crazy as if I was a teen.I Dr. I've never seen before was asking me about my hospital visit. I can't stop thinking about him he was my age or a little younger and I can't help it I'm going crazy.Then on the street yesterday I saw this well dressed man my age who was somehow associated with the university I live near and I can't stop thinking about him. Men are driving me crazy. Has anyone else experienced a new level , not a change in sexual attraction , but just an intensity.
Oh god, not you too !
I have never really liked males, after 6 months on HRT, OMG I scared myself as I saw this unbelievably gorgeous man on TV , couldn't stop looking at him, and to say,"Take me to bed " is really putting it politely.
This has seriously thrown me.
Anna
I also was never into guys before HRT.. then some where along the line during HRT I became interested in guys. I was living as a lesbian.
It all started when I did a favor for a friend of a friend.. Shame he needed a date to a party, so I was volunteered. He kinda just swept me away. The night was a success and started having these feelings I had never had before for a man. We ended up dating for about 9 months.
It was strange the first time he kissed me or the first time we made out. It was strange, but I wanted to do it more. The first time he put his arms around me, I felt so safe. We even slept with each other toward the end of the 9 months.
After that relationship, I dated a woman again, but I found myself wanting a man. fast forward a bit... Now I am engaged to a wonderful man.
Yah I've noticed that. I'm working on getting over a pretty huge crush right now. But I've been getting a lot of girl crushes. I can't say that I've really crushed on people much since high school. I don't seem to really get any crushes on guys though. I had wondered if being on HRT would change that a bit for me since I've heard of that happening, but I feel more attracted to women than I've ever been.
Pre-HRT I was man enough ??? to say "So & So is a good looking guy". I had fantasies of being a woman with a man but the reality of it was not as good. But these days there are times I can see a guy and ..... Like WTF? :o
I'm kind of into doctors and college professors at the moment
Into masculine men very much, and it hits me like all of a sudden, surprises me. It's more mental than caused by hormones I think like letting myself go and being true to myself.
its all too scary for me to even start to consider too hard...history tells me that once I have the new "equipment" i will want to take it for a test run...if you get my drift. This of course could be a real issue as I am married and my wife has only one thing that is a deal breaker for her...me with another man. The only fantasy's I ever have are me(as a woman) with a man
Sigh
Liz
I'm about 2 1/3 years into HRT, before I began my transition I was 100% into women, my sex drive was insatiable. Now on HRT I still have a sex drive but it is very much muted. I have noticed men becoming somewhat more appealing to me but visually I still love women. I suppose at some point I will identify as bisexual but for now I consider myself a lesbian.
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I don't know if you all know this, but I just figured out that there are men EVERYWHERE. I don't know where they came from, but they're at the gas station, grocery store, etc etc.
Seriously though, the first time I got looked at from toes to head, in that order, I immediately became aware of the omnipresence of guys, in an uncomfortable way. And then a few months later I became aware of the presence of a certain type of guy. My lips and skin flush and the room suddenly becomes entirely too warm if I'm near them for more than 5 seconds.
yea
Hi AnnaR & Noelene;
I know what you mean. In fact last night on Australian Television (SBS Channel) there was this program called Adam looking for Eve produced by Danish Television. Basically its a series where in the first episode a Blond danish girl gets dropped off at an idyllic Greek island where she swims ashore from a raft , but the point is she is completely naked, she is then joined by this really hunky well built guy called Christian - also completely naked. They then have 24 hours on the island to get to know each other ( filmed actually by a completely naked film crew) all the conversation are spoken in Danish with sub titles. The following day the film crew introduce another guy into the mix - Carsten also rowing ashore after being dropped off at the island toj uden pau (or without clothes). These are two seriously good looking guys.
Basically the girl (32) likes the body of Christian, but his personality is not very outgoing and friendly. They end up not making out. when Carsten arrives on the island the couple get on really well, but she is not really turned on by his body - Too skinny she says. She likes to be dominated by her men. She then has to choose between them. In fact choosing Carsten because of his personality and they end up seeing each other dressed and get to spend the time together for another 24 hours in a normal hotel setting.
I can see what she means by Christian's body., mind you she has just the body in a woman that I have always liked.
I would rate myself now probably as bisexual rather than lesbian, especially if it was having a relationship with someone like Christian, despite his personality.
Next week its switched story, one guy with two girls all (uden toj pa!)
Judith
PS I believe nearly 4 years of HRT has had a effect on me.