I'm just reaching out for someone that can give me some advice.
I have now come to terms with the fact I'm definitely gender fluid, I'm not out but have the full support of my partner.
I ordered my first ever binder and it arrived today. I couldn't wait to try it on. I'd prepared myself for dissapoinment and that it might not give the perfect flat chest I'd had imagined in my head for so long.
But it was perfect, exactly what I wanted and gave me a very flat chest. But then I had another reaction I really didn't expect, I became quite sexually aroused.
Please tell me someone has had the same feeling as me and I'm not the only one as I'm now feeling so confused.
Thanks in advance for your help
it probably means that you found a fetish. have fun ;)
Welcome to Susan's Place. I don't really know because I am not really sexual but I have a guess. You may be accepting your body and it's reducing the inhibitions you felt as the result of dysphoria. Some of the FTMs have remarked that resolving one issue cause something else to become an issue. That may or may not be the case for you. Enjoy it and I hope this is the solution to your issues.
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