Hi
I am male...29 yrs...slim and fair.
I enjoy cross dressing
I brought some lingerie stuff.I wear it ...it just turns me on.
but I don't feel hard there....but keep on changing the lingerie and watch myself in mirror....I have removed my pub hair....
I look great in that stuff.
I have also taken selfies...When I am in this activity ....I am completely in different mood.
I am straight....but still I love it
a feeling of relief - as if I had been tense or anxious and now I could relax - this could just be the feeling
a sense of naturalness - as if being cross-dressed
a feeling of sensuality ............
a feeling of being attractive - this is perhaps the strongest feeling of them all
is it normal?
Hi LALAMLADY, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm 29, too.... and I have been for the last 25 years running! :laugh:
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Hi Lalamlady,
Be assured......this is absolutely normal. Welcome☺️.
LALAMLADY,
Hello there!
The biggest thing I can tell you for sure, is that for many crossdressers the reason for putting on lingerie and or womens clothing tends to change over time. For me, I started at about age 13 some 42 years ago, and there was initially an intense sexual component to my crossdressing. Over time, I started to examine WHY I crossdressed and one of the reasons (I have almost exclusively UNDERDRESSED) is that it has a forbidden element (or did at that time) AND it was a constant "thrill" if you will, to know I had a secret. . I was wearing girls or later womens underclothing. .
As time progressed, I noticed that when I wore lingerie, I was much calmer. Wearing bra, panties, womens shoes whatever made me feel less stressed.
Today, there is little sexual component but lots of stress relief. I think many of the followers here would agree with that pronouncement.
Yes, I agree. Lots of stress relief.........like right now☺️
I have never found men, including myself in male mode, to be the least bit attractive. Most men I meet strike me as dull. The vast majority of my friends are women.
The main reason I cross dress is that I want to be pretty too! I like to feel attractive and for me, that is the bottom line. I like myself so much better in my feminine form that, after 45 years of just dressing up, I am working on finding a way to get on HRT.
Normal? We are absolutely as normal as anyone else in this world... but there is no normal. If you enjoy dressing, then great... dress and be you. Life is short you might as well live it happily doing the things you love as long as you aren't harming others. Feel pretty, sexy... go for it. Find someone who can accept and encourage you.. and accept no less than acceptance. Yes you are right, and you have a right to be happy. Sure most guys don't dress up in frilly things... their loss. :)