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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Mariah on August 02, 2016, 07:23:35 PM

Title: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: Mariah on August 02, 2016, 07:23:35 PM
I'm not going to go into all the details to protect my security and safety, but. I was approached by someone before a couple times and today they crossed the bounds of my personal space in away that even after I told them Please stop, I don't like that and they continued touching me inappropriately. Anyone else have something like this occur?
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: Lady Sarah on August 02, 2016, 07:49:43 PM
I once had a guy (that happens to be a convicted sex offender) try to put his hands on me. I don't want to go into details, but he learned a valuable lesson.
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: KarynMcD on August 03, 2016, 12:05:52 PM
That's pretty much the definition of sexual assault.
http://www.wrcnrv.org/helpingYou/sa_whatIs.shtml

Whether or not you want to pursue the matter with the police is up to you.
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: Mariah on August 03, 2016, 12:53:25 PM
Thank you for the link and you are right. I was definitely nieve coming into it. 


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Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: KathyLauren on August 03, 2016, 02:21:35 PM
Yes, it has happened to me, way back when I was a teenager.  In hindsight, I realize that it was sexual assault, and that I should have done something about it at the time.  We tend to be too "nice" for our own good.  I should have broken the guy's fingers.
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: Jacqueline on August 03, 2016, 02:24:44 PM
Yes. When I was in college(for theatre of course). I experienced a person at a party, who I was informed later, was known as "George the Groper". Kind of eye opeing.

Sincerely,

Joanna
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: KarynMcD on August 03, 2016, 03:49:13 PM
Oh but it's ok, boys will be boys.
or
It's ok, he was drunk. No harm done.
or
Look at how you were dressed. You were asking for it.


It's time to break the cycle! It's never ok and it's never your fault!

GRRRRRR!
Sorry, this boys will be boys crap always gets me angry.
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: big kim on August 03, 2016, 03:50:27 PM
I broke his nose
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: Michelle G on August 03, 2016, 03:57:23 PM
Yes, when I was 12 and of course no one would believe me....still haunts me
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: Mariah on August 03, 2016, 11:14:34 PM
It sickens me that others of us have had things happen to us to, but it is also reassuring that I'm not the only one. Thank you for everyone who has shared so far. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Have you ever had something like this occur & they don't listen to stop it or No *Trigger Warning*
Post by: Eevee on August 03, 2016, 11:57:44 PM
I can only think of one time that this actually happened to me. It was another trans woman who was my friend for a while. I'd made it clear several times that I wasn't interested in her, but she kept getting physically inappropriate anyway. I had to completely cut her off because she wouldn't listen even when I wasn't single anymore.

Other than that, other people have verbally harassed me all the time. That can be about as bad sometimes.