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Title: Hello
Post by: Elena1270 on August 07, 2016, 10:54:34 AM

Hi, Elena here and I am beginning my journey to becoming who I really am. I am a 45 yo MtF. I have been cross dressing for ages and while dressed I always wanted to BE a woman and never wanted to take my female clothes off. Of course once the clothes were off I would overcompensate in male mode. This year, something just clicked. I realized that I was transgendered and that I have been fighting this my entire life. I now plan to transition, albeit very slowly as I am primary caregiver to my mother who suffers from dementia. I dont want to do anything that would affect her in a negative way. I am also concerned that my father and my friends will disown me once I come out. I really do want to just transition and be done with it. I know I will never be an attractive woman but that doesnt matter. I want to eventually be as passable as a woman as I can. I eventually want to do electrolysis and facial feminization surgery so I will at least be passable at some point. Not sure if it will ever go for the "bottom" surgery but I will keep it in mind. I hope I havent bored you all with my life's story

Title: Re: Hello
Post by: tgirlamg on August 07, 2016, 01:56:36 PM

Hi Elena!

Yes when the lightbulb goes on and the realization of what we manage to hide from ourselves becomes clear, it is quite the game changer!!! I wish you the best exploring the road ahead and where you need to take things to live the life that is right for you!!!

Take Care,

Ashley :)

Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Heather14 on August 07, 2016, 02:07:27 PM

Hi Elena,

Welcome, enjoy your changes. This is a great site with lots of support.

Hugs,
Heather

Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Elena1270 on August 07, 2016, 02:21:13 PM

Thank you! I appreciate it.

Title: Re: Hello
Post by: V M on August 07, 2016, 06:50:14 PM

Hi Elena :icon_wave:

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Hugs

V M

Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Elena1270 on August 07, 2016, 07:15:19 PM

Thank you!

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