Well I run into the sir thing again and last week while at work a guy said it and it was on one of my tougher days. It just hurt badly. It was so bad that I had to go alone on break outside and just settle down. I thought I had made my new boss upset. I went into see her yesterday and she was fine and said if I feel like it again, that's she's fine with me going out and just calming down. I told her while not saying Im a girl, I told her how it bothers me extremely bad and all.
I went into how Ive been dealing with this part of many things for a VERY long time. Again never saying Im a girl but just letting her know how there are things I deal with that. She's very nonjudgmental and so nice.
I have thought about getting intouch with my old boss who is a massive supporter of gay and trans rights and telling her the truth and seeing how she can help me. She knew about the sir thing and Im thinking it's time she know the truth and knowing how she is, I face zero rejection.
Im also seeing my therapist again this monday and so that's a good thing to as it's been almost 2 months since. I have soo much to talk about.
Im just so happy my new boss is so understanding and that makes me feel not so afraid to be me.
Good you're keeping your job.