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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Sebby Michelango on August 19, 2016, 08:25:12 AM

Title: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Sebby Michelango on August 19, 2016, 08:25:12 AM
Today I'm very relieved. I started in a new school yesterday (It's a high school) and today I came out of the closet as a trans guy. Everybody were supporting, used right pronouns and names. Some even told I was brave. I've never experienced that before, since I've not coming out earlier. It's about 3 years since I realized I was trans, soon 4. I'm very happy because of my decision and would start social transition in school now. It's ca 15 pupils in my class and two of us are trans guys.
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: KathyLauren on August 19, 2016, 03:39:58 PM
Congratulations, Sebby!  That's a huge step forward.
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: autumn08 on August 20, 2016, 08:14:53 AM
Congratulations, Sebby!
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: WarGrowlmon1990 on August 21, 2016, 08:38:00 PM
Congrats Sebby. It's awesome how everyone's accepting and there's another trans guy in your class.  ;D
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Sebby Michelango on August 22, 2016, 11:24:56 AM
Thanks everybody.
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Rachel_Christina on August 22, 2016, 12:02:09 PM
Its pretty cool to see a little slice of the life of mister X, Sebby, lol
I always notice you on the forum but know nothing about you, I imagine a dark haired kinda strong Italian guy, thats how your image has built up in my head. Lol
Have you ever posted a picture here? I'm real curious Sebby,
Congratulations on your coming out at high school, it must be such a relief, and that everyone was so nice and you have trans person ther with you too, Lucky!
Gratz again! Hugs, Christine.
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Jacqueline on August 22, 2016, 02:53:55 PM
Sebby,

Congratulations. That is great. Enjoy living your life for you and not others.

With warmth,

Joanna
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: objectionyourhonour on August 22, 2016, 07:08:31 PM
Ooh congrats! Awesome that everyone has been so accepting and it must be nice to have another trans person in your class. There's one other trans guy in my school and we're like best friends even though I'm 17 and he's 13, shared experiences just bring you together. Hope you have a great time at the new school!
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: AnxietyDisord3r on August 23, 2016, 04:35:40 AM
Quote from: Sebby Michelango on August 19, 2016, 08:25:12 AM
Today I'm very relieved. I started in a new school yesterday (It's a high school) and today I came out of the closet as a trans guy. Everybody were supporting, used right pronouns and names. Some even told I was brave. I've never experienced that before, since I've not coming out earlier. It's about 3 years since I realized I was trans, soon 4. I'm very happy because of my decision and would start social transition in school now. It's ca 15 pupils in my class and two of us are trans guys.

Great news, Seb. I'm happy for you.

I have found people are mostly supportive these days. There has been a lot of consciousness raising on TV and internet compared to when I came out as gay in the late 1990s and had to educate people on a daily basis.
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Sebby Michelango on August 23, 2016, 11:12:38 AM
Quote from: ChristineRachel on August 22, 2016, 12:02:09 PM
Its pretty cool to see a little slice of the life of mister X, Sebby, lol
I always notice you on the forum but know nothing about you, I imagine a dark haired kinda strong Italian guy, thats how your image has built up in my head. Lol
Have you ever posted a picture here? I'm real curious Sebby,
Congratulations on your coming out at high school, it must be such a relief, and that everyone was so nice and you have trans person ther with you too, Lucky!
Gratz again! Hugs, Christine.

^_^ It's true I'm dark haired. I do have black hair and brown eyes. But I'm Norwegian and have Norwegian parents, but adopted from China. I do have a DeviantArt, where I post things I do at my spare time. http://sebbynilsen.deviantart.com/
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Rachel_Christina on August 23, 2016, 11:28:07 AM
Oh now that is crazy, I was kind of close? Ah nope not atal, oh deviant art, that is crazy, its funny how you drew all men, I would only ever draw women, do you feel like you are drawing people who you want to be or look like? Il link you mine its been years though since I have drawn so I will try see if I can find it, pay no attention to my male name though :S and try not to out me on social media links if ther is any lol I will have a look now, hold on :3
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Rachel_Christina on August 23, 2016, 11:32:10 AM
Ok I found it, sams pasword as always, don't judge, plus old guy pic as my profile pic too :S creepy.
http://ghostoutsidetheshell.deviantart.com
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Sebby Michelango on August 23, 2016, 11:33:35 AM
Quote from: ChristineRachel on August 23, 2016, 11:28:07 AM
Oh now that is crazy, I was kind of close? Ah nope not atal, oh deviant art, that is crazy, its funny how you drew all men, I would only ever draw women, do you feel like you are drawing who you want to be or look? Il link you mine its been years though so I will try see if I can find it, pay no attention to my male name though :S and try not out on social media links if ther is any lol I will have a look now, hold on :3

Sometimes I draws how I wished I looked alike, but other times not. Some of my drawings is of men, because they are a lot easier to draw compared to women and due my sexuality. E.g. Aidan Turner drawings. I doesn't out people. I doesn't want to be outed by others and treats people how I wants them to treat me in this community. :)
Title: Re: Finally coming out of the closet. Would start social transition in school!
Post by: Rachel_Christina on August 23, 2016, 11:36:12 AM
I edited my post lol, bad typos, lol sometimes I go too fast typing lol, its cool your from Norway though, I'm from Switzerland