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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: RedheadWhovian on August 31, 2016, 10:59:53 PM

Title: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: RedheadWhovian on August 31, 2016, 10:59:53 PM
Hi everyone! I am Katie (9 months HRT/25/MtF). And I am nearing the day I can come out. It's not officially accepted by one of my parents, but after September 17th, which is my brother's wedding, I am free to come out to the world. I am 25, and after the 18th onward I am going to be telling my mom's side of the family, and one last friend. Both are bound to judge me harshly, but whatever.

Anyway, I am super scared. 1. Because my voice is not even close to adequate, and I need lessons, and 2. I am worried I won't pass out there (I definitely won't without great makeup at least) What does everyone think?

http://diknbeans.deviantart.com/art/A-Much-Better-Comparison-628886459
http://diknbeans.deviantart.com/art/Glasses-and-Teeth-629067766
http://diknbeans.deviantart.com/art/Body-Changes-631010698
http://diknbeans.deviantart.com/art/Do-I-Pass-I-Want-to-be-Safe-out-There-629067487

Thanks for helping. ^_^
Title: Re: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: sid104 on September 01, 2016, 02:23:38 AM
You look so pretty and passable with makeup.dont worry much
Title: Re: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: SadieBlake on September 01, 2016, 03:00:19 AM
Look pretty as well as passable, I'm glad for you!
Title: Re: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: RedheadWhovian on September 01, 2016, 04:31:56 PM
Quote from: sid104 on September 01, 2016, 02:23:38 AM
You look so pretty and passable with makeup.dont worry much

Awwww thank you so much! ^_^ Yeah, I only pass with makeup, and well-done makeup

Quote from: SadieBlake on September 01, 2016, 03:00:19 AM
Look pretty as well as passable, I'm glad for you!

Well thank you so much!! ^_^ I don't know if I see it, but thank you!
Title: Re: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: islandgirl on September 01, 2016, 11:45:28 PM
I think you look wonderful. Truly believe in who you are and this will come through in your actions and how your are seen. I know that this is easier said than done, but in anything we do, this is at the core. One does not have to be overt in ones behaviour to come across as confident. I see many people who quietly go about their business in a way that shows that they are happy and believe in themselves.  All the Best in taking this next big step along your path.
Title: Re: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: LauraE on September 03, 2016, 08:36:30 PM
If after being on HRT i looked half as good as you, i wouldn't be so scared of coming out. You're ready.

Laura
Title: Re: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: Sinclair on September 03, 2016, 09:24:03 PM
Wow! You look fab!! I would be super confident, no worries at all in terms of appearance.  ;D
Title: Re: I can Come out Starting September 18th...
Post by: RobinG78 on September 19, 2016, 06:22:38 PM
OMG, are you sure your not a natural women??...WOW....Beautiful.....Look out world hot stuff coming.....