Whenever I get close to orgasm or I don't "ejaculate" if I do, I get the worst period- like cramps ever that last up to 5 minutes. Is this even normal? Ive been taking T close to 5 months now and just started experiencing this maybe a month or two ago. Thanks in advance for your input.
This has happened to me. Damn that cramping is INTENSE too...............
I've experienced that long before I even thought of taking T. It's probably caused because during sexual arousal the uterus changes position slightly, and in order to do it, it uses several muscles inside of and outside of itself.
Personally I'd say the FTM equivalent of "blue balls" is the irritating ache sensation much closer to the outside genitalia and in the V that you can get just by thinking about something but not acting on it at all. Probably caused by the blood vessels dilating in the area.
For me just the thought of all those damnable female organs moving around wanting to fulfil their female functions generally just turns me off. I don't have much dysphoria regards what's "not there" on the outside but those inside bits can forget ever fulfilling anything.
Go to the tumblr called ftmsextalk (it's run by Skylar/gendercube and Chase Ross/uppercaseCHASE and it's great) and put "cramps" in the search window to see a lot of guys talking about this very same issue.
I'm going to try putting the url here for your convenience, dunno if I'll get moderated for that:
http://ftmsextalk.tumblr.com/search/cramps
Quote from: AnxietyDisord3r on September 30, 2016, 07:29:48 AM
Go to the tumblr called ftmsextalk (it's run by Skylar/gendercube and Chase Ross/uppercaseCHASE and it's great) and put "cramps" in the search window to see a lot of guys talking about this very same issue.
I'm going to try putting the url here for your convenience, dunno if I'll get moderated for that:
http://ftmsextalk.tumblr.com/search/cramps
You've been here long enough to know what links are good to post :) Carry on, good sir.
I had this for a really long time, and on occasion I still do but it's far less than it used to be and is only 30 seconds - 1 minute of dull pain now when it does. in the past it could be anywhere from 5 - 20 min and it was so intense and hurt immensely, i'd roll around twisting my back hoping it would help
I used to get this slightly. I think it went away. I never have orgasms since I have a dirty habit with cough medicine...so idk