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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Amy Chislett on October 06, 2016, 12:21:29 PM

Poll
Question: What is your birth order?
Option 1: Only child
Option 2: 1st born of small family
Option 3: 1st born of large family
Option 4: 2nd born of small family
Option 5: 2nd born of large family
Option 6: 3rd born
Option 7: 4th born
Option 8: More than 4th born
Title: Birth order
Post by: Amy Chislett on October 06, 2016, 12:21:29 PM
So I am reading a biology book where birth order is a considerable idea throughout the theme. And it got me thinking, whether there is any link between the order in the sibling pack and transgender issues broadly. The question is gender neutral.
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Post by: xchrisx on October 06, 2016, 01:32:50 PM
First born of small family ( 2 younger brothers, 7 and 9 years younger than me)
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Post by: KathyLauren on October 06, 2016, 01:51:15 PM
Middle of three.  Two brothers and me, AMAB.
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Post by: Devlyn on October 06, 2016, 01:57:08 PM
4th of 5. We were the little Irish family that couldn't.  :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: BeverlyAnn on October 06, 2016, 02:08:22 PM
Oldest of three, I had two younger brothers.  I once read the oldest child was the most likely to be trans but have never seen anything else to corroborate that. 
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Post by: DawnOday on October 06, 2016, 03:24:26 PM
Middle kid with a sister 5 years older than myself and a brother 3 years younger and another brother stillborn 3 years after that. The time between my birth and my sisters leads me to believe there was a miscarriage in between and was the reason for DES to be prescribed while I was in utero. WWW.desaction.org
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Post by: lily paige on October 06, 2016, 04:08:20 PM
Youngest of 4

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Post by: kelly_aus on October 06, 2016, 05:38:27 PM
I'm not sure the "Birth Order" really plays a part.. What might, however, play a part is that the environment the mother lives in at the time of each pregnancy plays a part.. What chemicals is she exposed to? How is her diet? Stress levels? These are all things that I'd see as having an effect rather than simple birth order.
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Post by: stephaniec on October 06, 2016, 06:27:49 PM
the oldest a brother and gay

nest a sister, psychopath

me  late blooming trans

next sister  PHD in Psychology
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Post by: tgirlamg on October 06, 2016, 06:35:01 PM
Only Child...
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Post by: arice on October 06, 2016, 06:38:53 PM
Only child but I had a twin who died in utero. FTM not MTF. Didn't see the area I was posting in.

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Post by: Kevinwg on October 06, 2016, 06:45:09 PM
Im the middle 2 other brothers and i am the smallest.
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Post by: Michelle_P on October 06, 2016, 07:17:38 PM
Oldest of 5, all assigned male at birth.  One showed signs of DES exposure as I did, and was treated surgically about age 1.
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Post by: HappyMoni on October 06, 2016, 09:39:46 PM
Youngest of five. Boy, girl, boy, girl, b...girl.
Monica
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Post by: SophiaBleu on October 06, 2016, 10:32:44 PM
Oldest of three. Three girls!
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Post by: Lilliana on October 07, 2016, 12:00:55 AM
I was Jason born of a two child family, the last to appear.

How does this apply to the Wachouskies?
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Post by: Xirafel on October 07, 2016, 12:20:16 AM
An only child.
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Post by: LizK on October 07, 2016, 12:25:57 AM
3rd of 3 children, all assigned males at birth...I was supposed to be the girl (if my parents plans had worked out) that meant 3 children under 3 for my 19 year old mother who went on to try again for a cis girl with my but ending up with my youngest brother 7 years later. My Parents never treated me any differently, the whole "you were supposed to be a girl" was more of a taunt from my brothers than the reality of the situation. I think my  mother once said that yes she had planned to have a girl but was happy enough to get 4 essentially healthy children...

Liz
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Post by: Elis on October 07, 2016, 03:56:37 AM
One sibling, a brother who's two years older. I was reading an article which said it's possible that the testosterone left over from creating a male baby could then create an ftm child next time. But seeing as how we're two years apart I'm guessing that's unlikely what happened and instead my mum simply had naturally high T levels.
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Post by: Xirafel on October 07, 2016, 04:02:13 AM
Quote from: Elis on October 07, 2016, 03:56:37 AM
One sibling, a brother who's two years older. I was reading an article which said it's possible that the testosterone left over from creating a male baby could then create an ftm child next time. But seeing as how we're two years apart I'm guessing that's unlikely what happened and instead my mum simply had naturally high T levels.
I was always under the assumption that the womb insulates the foetus from the mother's bloodstream preventing diseases from messing with it's development, with the nutrients going through the umbilical cord. I didn't think hormones would be able to go through to mess with it.
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Post by: amydane on October 07, 2016, 06:48:26 AM
4 of 5 all sisters.

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Post by: noleen111 on October 07, 2016, 09:55:54 AM
I am an only child.

However, I do have step siblings. 2 sisters and a brother. Brother and one sister is older than me, the other sister is a year younger than me. The younger sister and I are really close.

My step siblings have no idea I was born a boy.. My mother only remarried after I was full time and had been on HRT for a few years all ready.
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Post by: Denni on October 07, 2016, 11:14:56 AM
Oldest of six, three sisters and then my two brothers. My mom had a miscarriage before becoming pregnant with me so the possibility of being a DES baby is real. She passed away from breast cancer years ago so no opportunity to ask her and verify she took the drug. She was a wonderful woman and I know she would have taken every precaution so that it would not occur again. Does not change anything for me, I am transgender and am living my life with that knowledge, and I have no problem accepting that. Peace, Love, and Hugs
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Post by: Mariah on October 07, 2016, 06:52:32 PM
I'm the oldest of three. I have a younger sister and brother. Hugs
Mariah
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Post by: Tanya62 on October 08, 2016, 01:13:49 AM
girl, girl, ME, boy, girl, boy
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Post by: JoanneB on October 08, 2016, 07:56:50 AM
A few years back I stumbled across "The Birth Order Book" http://www.drleman.com/store/the-birth-order-book.html (http://www.drleman.com/store/the-birth-order-book.html) while my wife was looking elsewhere in the local library. I popped it open to me and I was sold on the first sentence. Reading further there are plenty of generalities and the devil is always in the details. Details that also offered insights to other aspects of my behavior.

And speaking of details..... I think better insight into the spread can be had had by having "Last Born" rather then a number. I was shocked over the disparity with third borns (me) and wondered how many are really "The Baby of the Family", also me.

Within my support group, of the regular members I know well, there is no trend. First, middle, and last. Offhand, I tend to think more first and middle
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Post by: sigsi on October 09, 2016, 01:10:53 AM
1st born of small family
I'm the oldest of three. My sister is a few years younger than me while my brother is about 14 years younger.
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Post by: Lucie on October 09, 2016, 07:44:33 AM
Two older half-brothers (same mother) and two younger sisters.