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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: Xirafel on November 02, 2016, 01:17:46 AM

Title: Ouch
Post by: Xirafel on November 02, 2016, 01:17:46 AM
Ow, maybe I shouldn't have done that. I tried squeezing the stupid nasty thing between the legs to hide it because it was obvious and annoying, but all that did was make it leak x.x
And it's sore now. I should just throw it in a barbecue fire, uh I mean... Any advice?
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: AnonyMs on November 02, 2016, 01:52:48 AM
Best not barbecue it, you might need it one day.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: V M on November 02, 2016, 03:53:10 AM
Sounds like you were attempting to tuck? It just takes time and practice to train the annoying dangler to stay put

You'll need some snug fitting pantys and to develop a technique that works for you

I tend to prefer bikini pantys

Hugs
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: Xirafel on November 03, 2016, 02:58:02 AM
Hm, duct tape doesn't cost too much money. Maybe, I could tape it shut and tape it in place.
With any luck, it'll hold it even if it grows or does any of the other things it likes doing to try to catch my attention.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: MelanieH74 on November 06, 2016, 05:44:37 AM
Shape wear panties are awesome, just tuck and go. Everything stays in place and is more comfy than any other method I have tried ex. taping, home made gaff etc
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: KathyLauren on November 06, 2016, 06:26:10 AM
Quote from: MelanieH74 on November 06, 2016, 05:44:37 AM
Shape wear panties are awesome, just tuck and go. Everything stays in place and is more comfy than any other method I have tried ex. taping, home made gaff etc
I agree.  I can't get comfortable with other methods of tucking.  Since I prefer wearing flowy skirts, it doesn't matter most of the time.  But for when I wear pants, a pair of firm control briefs does the job perfectly and comfortably.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: kaitylynn on November 06, 2016, 07:18:30 AM
I rarely tuck anything away anymore, but did for a long while and have used several techniques.  Two pair of tight panties or a bikini bottom.  A gaff.  Tape.  Taping really did work best for me.  Like, it was simply NOT there and did not feel like it would reappear.  The gaff was the second most effective and was a lot more comfortable in the end.  Eventually, I figured out that almost no one around me would be aware that there was anything there, even if things hung low.  No one pays that much attention!

I have friends that are production level drag performers.  They have shown me 'how to make it disappear'...it takes a little practice, but it should not be painful.  They use tape, but I elect not to as I am not moving around like they are. 

The mention of shapewear is a great one!  It can be your friend, or your enemy when just stepping out of the shower ;)  I count a gaff as shapewear, BTW.  It is specific and definitely shapes out a particular area.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: Amy Chislett on November 06, 2016, 08:35:05 AM
Quote from: kaitylynn on November 06, 2016, 07:18:30 AM
I have friends that are production level drag performers.  They have shown me 'how to make it disappear'...it takes a little practice, but it should not be painful.  They use tape, but I elect not to as I am not moving around like they are. 

Sounds like an interesting lesson.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: Sophia Sage on November 06, 2016, 11:25:53 AM
The nice thing about taping it all is that it's then hidden from your own view, which can lessen dysphoria.  First, keep everything shaved -- you don't want hair getting in the way keeping the tape from adhering properly, and of course it's not pleasant to rip out hair.  There's skin-colored foam tape available if you don't want everything to look too strange.

Push the testes into their inguinal canals, pull the member down as flat as you can, pull the empty scrotal skin around and over it on either side, and tape securely.  Make sure to leave a hole to pee through. 

I'm sure there are other techniques as well.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: Donna on November 06, 2016, 05:30:25 PM
Push the two goofy large bean shaped things up into their natural place, pull the silly single longer thing down and under your crack, and keep it in place with shapeware panties, sometimes two or three layers, depending on the occasion. This is how I tuck.
I do not tuck at work or when I am with my wife, otherwise - -
I am tucked when I go surfing.
I am tucked when I ride my motorcycle.
I am tucked anytime I have private time.
I am tucked when I go out for a run.
I am tucked when I go shopping for clothes.
I am tucked right now as I type this.
OK, some times I am tucked at work, but not always.
I don't think of my junk as "my boys", I think of my junk as junk.
Maybe someday surgery will get rid of my junk.
I will stop tucking when I have surgery.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: biannne on November 14, 2016, 05:25:51 PM
I am very lucky in that respect as I am very small and even without tucking there is not telltale signs.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: Lily Rose on November 25, 2016, 11:11:41 AM
Quote from: V M on November 02, 2016, 03:53:10 AM
train the annoying dangler to stay put

Quote from: Donna on November 06, 2016, 05:30:25 PM
Push the two goofy large bean shaped things up into their natural place,

LMAO you two ladies sure have a way with words. i to of course have a bit of experience with this from back in the day. however in the forums there is a link to a young lady that mixes club music i guess by trans women for trans women. she has one title i love "#TEAMNEVERTUCK".
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: DawnOday on November 25, 2016, 11:32:53 AM
I am lucky as my size 14 feet don't really complete the myth, and mine has little (literally) to hide. I would just as soon be off with it but have too many health problems to contemplate surgery. I have hairs on my leg that are longer. >:-) A good pair of spanks and I'm all set.
Title: Re: Ouch
Post by: Lily Rose on November 25, 2016, 11:39:52 AM
Quote from: DawnOday on November 25, 2016, 11:32:53 AM
I have hairs on my leg that are longer.

  if i am ever fortunate enough to start hrt this is one of the effects i hope for. not sure if i would ever really want to go for full removal and i do not think i will ever tuck again.