Hey all! so today im going to make a different post from many others i have in the past. Namley because i have some news. I have decided to say i am offically re-starting my transition to woman full time!!!!! The past three weeks have been the best in a long long time and thats because i havent given ''him'' a chance to live. I went from girl to andro and know where i wana be and am! i am greatful on this Christmas that i have Susans and all the amazing people here who have helped me on the hardest and most amazing journey in my life. I am greatful for my family and personal friends and just being a live. What are you thankful for ?
I'm back. That and I have a son soon getting married and a couple new grandkids to look forward to.
Then I'm grateful for knowing you're making a step to being true to yourself; I can only be the when everyone can be whole.
In my own life I've been able to do some fun work this week and just now I'm getting to hang out with my daughters amidst cooking and right now taking in a film.
Awseome to hear for you both1 what film is it about :)?
I'm thankful that 100% of the people I'm out to (about 70 or 80) are all "cool" with it. No one has rejected or worse what I'm doing. The closest is my 85yo parents not believing I'm trans. That's okay. They get a pass, they're old and don't understand [big] change.
I'm also thankful that my mental state is really good and that I'm mentally progressing towards full-time.
I'm alive to see my family on Christmas Day. There was a good chance I would not be earlier this year!
Quote from: SailorMars1994 on December 24, 2016, 03:09:25 PM
Awseome to hear for you both1 what film is it about :)?
Monty Python and the holy grail :-) just saw naughty zoot
I am thankful to all my sisters and brothers on Susan's.
I am so glad all of you are here.
I would like to say, peace and LOVE to all of you!
Donna
I woke up, I am alive, after that it is all gravy.....I can remember a time when this was not guaranteed ;)
I'm thankful for all the opportunities I've had and been able to take. This year has been kind in many ways.
- I'm thankful to have a supportive wife.
- I'm thankful that I have finally accepted myself
- I'm thankful to have a roof over my head, food in my belly, transportation and all of that good stuff
- I'm thankful for this forum, and the members that grace it
- I'm thankful for this rum ;)
I have a lot to be thankful for, in the grand scheme of things, it could be a lot worst and I never forget that.
I'm thankful I'm living in southern Thailand and can drive my motorbike to the beach to celebrate Christmas..which is TODAY (Thai time).
I cover myself in layers of clothing for swimming for several reasons..
1. to avoid sand burn when waves throw me up on the beach
2. to avoid jelly fish stings
3. to avoid offending people since half the population here is Muslim, the other half is Buddhist. Both religions are very conservative
I am so happy to see all this positivity from you lovely people :) <3... and your in Thailand Raell? nice, i always assume everyone here is Canadian or American or more or less xD
I'm an American, living in southern Thailand, LOL!
But I was born in the West Indies of American parents, commuted back and forth for awhile, then moved to the US to attend university, and have also taught at a college in Mexico in 2001, taught in Thailand since 2010.
Awesome thread!!
I am thankful for the friends of my bestie, who accept me as I am and don't regard me as a guy in a dress. It embarrases me to admit that they seem to be more open than I am. I mean, they accept me as one more girl in the group, however I can't help thinking that they know the truth about me... and I feel I'm the one keeping some distance between me and them.
Quote from: SailorMars1994 on December 24, 2016, 08:05:00 PM
I am so happy to see all this positivity from you lovely people :) <3... and your in Thailand Raell? nice, i always assume everyone here is Canadian or American or more or less xD
Never forget the Aussies!!!
Hugs Honey, nice thread.
I am thankful for my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law, the most amazing and accepting folks I have met in my journey outside of my son and older daughter.
They had me over for Christmas Eve dinner, and surprised me with some presents, a 'message' necklace with a medallion reading she believed she could so she did, a lovely scarf, and a turtleneck top. Somebody has been watching my presentation and taking notes...
I'm thankful for my son, who was here overnight and spent much of the day with me. I'm thankful for my distant daughter, 3000 miles away, who has been in touch and wishing me well. I'm thankful for their thoughtful gifts, of course.
I'm thankful that I chose life. It has turned out to be better than I could have imagined earlier this year.
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I'm very thankful for two of my great friends, one that I've known for 32 years and the other - his partner - who I've known since 1999. They knew that, apart from my mother, that my family is not particularly accepting of me since my transition and that my sister would be having the family Xmas lunch at her place without inviting me (three years in a row now). So they invited me to spend the day with them and their family instead. And I have to say it was a great day. I was accepted and included and after lunch the women and girls - from age 80+ to 8 sat around and chatted and played a board game. It feels sad to say it, but it's actually been one of the best Xmas days I've had in many years, even from before I was persona non grata at my sister's.
Michelle and Ms Grace, you almost made me cry!
That's so sweet, and encouraging to know such people can exist in families!
I am thankful, above all, for my lovely, understanding wife, who has been solidly behind me from the moment I first came out to her. I am thankful for food on the table and a roof over my head. Not everyone has those.
And I am thankful for my friends, in real life and here on Susan's, who have stood by me. The year ahead will probably be the most "interesting" year of my life. Having friends for support is priceless.
I am so happy that you all have lots of good going on in your lives :)! Xmas is atleast one season that ones problems should be on the back burner. Its amazing to that family who is open, involved and caring. Regardless if one is trans, cis or non binary it is always important to be heard and loved! It is also nice to see that for some people here, friends pick up where family legs behind. Good friends make a world of difference! Merry Christmas <3 xoxox
Merry Christmas to everyone here!
Today I am thankful for my understanding wife. This isn't easy for her either.
My kids are healthy and happy playing.
My close family is accepting of me, my mom, brothers, mother in law.
I am thankful for all of my sisters and brothers here at Susan's Place. The support from all of you is amazing.
I am thankful I finally see hope at the end of this road! That is the best for me personally.
My wife colored my ever increasing grey hair yesterday to a nice brown red color. I pieced both of my ears. Just fun stuff from the last few days.
Awesome sauce sweetie <3
I am thankful for and grateful to the wonderful people of the forum. I am thankful for the friendship and selfless willingness to help others in need that characterizes this site. Them members of this forum helped me through soome dark days, helped me gain the courage to confront my problems and helped me muster the strength to find my way. I want to thank each of you who offered your time, understanding, empathy and advice. I am forever in your debt.
I am thankful for the opportunity to make several friends through this site that I would have never had the chance to meet otherwise.
I am thankful for the expertise of a wonderfully insightful therapist without whom I would have fallen into a grave situation by now. With his help, I'm now functioning normally and happy.
I am thankful for loving wife, family and friends; exceptional colleagues in my work and the opportunity to do rewarding work.
I am thankful for my adult children who are living productive, creative lives.
I am thankful for my grandson, may he know an even better world.
I have a lot to be thankful for, so I try to keep that in mind each day.
Living a six minute motorbike drive from the beach, in southern Thailand, is a big plus, so that's what I did for Christmas!
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