Hey guys its me, does anyone feel like the hardest family member to come out to is there Dad? I haven't told my family yet but I been thinking of ways on how I should do it. Out of my family my Mom would be by far the easiest to tell seeing how I believe she knows what's going on with me, my Sister would be next seeing how growing up we where very close but for last 5 years not so much. Buy telling my Dad, just thinking about it makes me want to jump out of my skin!!! I wouldn't be able to look him in the eye ever again! It also doesn't help that were never close to begin with. But I feel if I where to come out an transition I honestly don't think I could ever talk to him again. I just couldn't handle the disappointment. I can see it now I can see the look of discuss in his eyes as he see's me for who I am for the first time...=/ anyone feel the same
If you think your mother will understand, you should discuss this problem with her. She may chose to tell your father for you or be with you to help when you tell him. The advantage of getting supporters early is that they will help you deal with the more difficult people you may have to face.