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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: ghostbees on January 14, 2017, 03:12:33 AM

Title: Stalker
Post by: ghostbees on January 14, 2017, 03:12:33 AM
Ok so it seems despite my best efforts one of my stalkers has found this blog and has being sending inflammatory messages about me online and possibly on this site.
What do I even do??
I'm so close to killing myself and the company isn't letting me leave (they're also stalking everything including bank details,the residents are in on it too)


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Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: Cindy on January 14, 2017, 03:17:52 AM
I can change your name to an anonymous one.

But it is our responsibility to protect yourself.

I see no on site evidence that you are being stalked here.
Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: ghostbees on January 14, 2017, 03:21:08 AM
Quote from: Cindy on January 14, 2017, 03:17:52 AM
I can change your name to an anonymous one.

But it is our responsibility to protect yourself.

I see no on site evidence that you are being stalked here.
Ok yeah a name change would be great!
Hm ok so she was lying about posting on here then...


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Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: AnonyMs on January 14, 2017, 04:06:47 AM
There's only a few trans sites and some people have a very identifiable way or writing. I often recognise people across multiple sites. You might want to look at what makes it so easy to find you and change it.
Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: ghostbees on January 14, 2017, 09:16:17 AM
Quote from: AnonyMs on January 14, 2017, 04:06:47 AM
There's only a few trans sites and some people have a very identifiable way or writing. I often recognise people across multiple sites. You might want to look at what makes it so easy to find you and change it.
Mm I think they might know that I post here and the other stalkers use my passwords to get in


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Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: AnonyMs on January 14, 2017, 09:40:58 AM
How can someone use your passwords? Don't you use different ones for each site and keep them secret?
Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: ghostbees on January 14, 2017, 09:56:26 AM
Quote from: AnonyMs on January 14, 2017, 09:40:58 AM
How can someone use your passwords? Don't you use different ones for each site and keep them secret?
Um they probably use a hacking device or smth
They try to figure them out...


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Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: AnonyMs on January 14, 2017, 10:04:47 AM
i don't think any normal person could hack this site, or your iPhone. You'd have to be using a password they could guess and it's easy to prevent that.
Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: KathyLauren on January 14, 2017, 10:29:23 AM
If you are worried that someone is using your password, change it right away.  Don't use any word that is in the dictionary, in any language.  Combine several words together and alter their spelling.  Add numbers and punctuation marks.  Change it every month or two.

With an un-guessable password and with the "https" security used by this site (which prevents hacking devices from working), no one else can use your account.
Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: ghostbees on January 14, 2017, 11:18:12 AM
Quote from: KathyLauren on January 14, 2017, 10:29:23 AM
If you are worried that someone is using your password, change it right away.  Don't use any word that is in the dictionary, in any language.  Combine several words together and alter their spelling.  Add numbers and punctuation marks.  Change it every month or two.

With an un-guessable password and with the "https" security used by this site (which prevents hacking devices from working), no one else can use your account.
Alright thank you from for all your advice


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Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: Dena on January 14, 2017, 03:21:40 PM
One other bit of advice. Don't leave your computer logged in when it's not in your control. My home system is logged in all the time because it's behind a lock and key that only I have access to but my laptop and cell phone are logged in only when I am using them with the site. They are always in my control but should they be stolen, I don't want others to have access to the site through them.

It also doesn't hurt to clean out the browsing history when you are done so your browsing history isn't reviewed.
Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: MistressStevie on January 14, 2017, 06:32:49 PM
Quote from: Dena on January 14, 2017, 03:21:40 PMIt also doesn't hurt to clean out the browsing history when you are done so your browsing history isn't reviewed.

The above is an important and basic step in keeping some degree of anonymity on the net.  You can also NoScript or similar packages in Firefox which will challenge most script tracking.  Most browsers will allow you to clear cookies and history on logout if you do not want to remember to clear.  Also check you location settings for one additional step.   

I tend to install a couple browsers and configure them for different levels depending upon where my internet travels take me. 
Title: Re: Stalker
Post by: Cecilia on January 14, 2017, 07:43:30 PM
If they are only sending online messages I would also recommend blocking them, they are likely acting like they have access to things that they don't have access to. Also like others said changing your passwords should keep them out of accounts if they do have the password. Overall though keep calm and find comfort that they are only online, maybe take a little break from the website they are harassing you through most.