Sorry for keep asking for advice :( as many of you know I had srs with Philip Thomas over 2 weeks ago. It is stated in his documents to try and orgasm with a vibrator after 3 months, but in an unprofessional opinion do you think it would be the worst thing in the world if I tried now? Going to ring his receptionist tomorrow though.
Too early. Everything is still healing up, 3 months yes probably, 2 weeks.. way too early. Also orgasm is something that needs to be re-learn and doesn't comes just like that. You need to put time and effort into learning the new plumbing and what makes her tick.
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I have fully anticipated that I have to put time and energy in and was not expecting it to happen like that. Thank you so much for the reply about timing though xx
The sutures may not start coming out for about four weeks and the nerves will take 1-2 years to mostly connect. Even 3 months is a bit early but at 3 months, your not likely to damage anything. On this your are best to follow the doctors recommendations because you need to heal before you start playing around down there.
I had my SRS with Dr Meltzer, so this might not be applicable. I don't know if Dr Thomas employs a similar two-stage procedure, where the clitoral hood and inner labia are constructed in a secondary labiaplasty procedure. If you've still got sutures and whatnot in that area, it's best to wait until those have dissolved and the swelling has gone down.
That said, I started trying to have orgasms shortly after the 2-week mark. Not, however, from vibrators or vaginal stimulation; rather, I focused on areas around my clit (not my clit itself, which was too sensitive) coupled with my favorite erotic materials. It took nearly a week to have an orgasm, mostly because everything was just too numb, and in this respect I think I started too soon and I frustrated myself a bit. The first few orgasms were also incredibly weak and not exactly satisfying, other than the fact I actually had them and found that immensely reassuring.
But I do think tending to this sooner than later probably helps to get the nerves from becoming too dormant; as always, check with your physician first, he might have different requirements or fewer concerns if you're focusing only on your clitoral areas.