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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Mikka55 on March 11, 2017, 02:00:16 AM

Title: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 11, 2017, 02:00:16 AM
So I know I have been on this forum for a while and never really posted a profile picture.  Well I finally did a profile picture, let me know what you folks think.  Also tomorrow will be my first time coming out in public and I will be doing that make up and wearing that outfit.  I am super excited.  Hope it goes well.   TBH I never felt happier being mu female self.

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: LizK on March 11, 2017, 02:37:26 AM
Mikka you look fabulous and enjoy your time out tomorrow...you will be fine...love the jacket

Liz
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Cindy on March 11, 2017, 05:27:35 AM
You look lovely honey. Have a wonderful day and be proud of yourself.

Cindy
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Artesia on March 11, 2017, 07:07:16 AM
How does one put up a profile picture?  I'm comfortable enough here to do it here, but not anywhere else, not yet.  To me I till look like a guy in a skirt. >:(
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 11, 2017, 08:53:32 AM
Thank You everyone for the support. xoxo

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Dena on March 11, 2017, 10:41:50 AM
Quote from: Artesia on March 11, 2017, 07:07:16 AM
How does one put up a profile picture?  I'm comfortable enough here to do it here, but not anywhere else, not yet.  To me I till look like a guy in a skirt. >:(
Click on profile at the top left of the screen then on modify profile just under it. There you will find a menu of most the goodies needed to modify your account.
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: jentay1367 on March 11, 2017, 10:48:20 AM
You're a cutie! Go have some fun. ;)
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: JeanetteLW on March 11, 2017, 12:13:14 PM
Hi Mikka,

  From what I can see you look fine and you should do just fine coming out. Good luck.

   Jeanette
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 11, 2017, 11:59:58 PM
Concert went very well.  My friend and I had dinner before going to the concert. I had a few looks,  but no awkward looks.  But I was very happy coming out.  Something I have never experienced before.  It made me a happy person. In a way it made me very confident.

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: LizK on March 12, 2017, 12:03:52 AM
Great stuff...the thinking about it is sometimes far scarier than the doing!!

Congrats

Liz
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: JeanetteLW on March 12, 2017, 12:06:23 AM
Congrats Mikka I'm glad it went well for you.

Jeanette
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 12, 2017, 12:13:41 AM
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170312/cf53172f005b692dad641a51f217455e.jpg)

This was my full look today.

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: JeanetteLW on March 12, 2017, 12:33:56 AM
omg You're a little cutie aren't you?

  Hugs,
    Jeanette
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 12, 2017, 12:34:50 AM
Quote from: JeanetteLW on March 12, 2017, 12:33:56 AM
omg You're a little cutie aren't you?

  Hugs,
    Jeanette
Haha thanks Jeanette.

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 25, 2017, 02:59:56 PM
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So.... I did this look today in public with my parents.  So far they didn't say anything. This was a test to see how my parents would react and me being in public.

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: theqnoumenon on March 25, 2017, 04:20:12 PM
I hope it went well, Mikka. Step by step things will work :)
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 25, 2017, 04:29:13 PM
Quote from: Mikka55 on March 25, 2017, 02:59:56 PM
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170325/f309d68f2107756fe5d99e95abb8d31e.jpg)
So.... I did this look today in public with my parents.  So far they didn't say anything. This was a test to see how my parents would react and me being in public.

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Update: Actually my mom thought the jeans were cool looking and asked when I bought them. I told her I got them a few weeks ago,  and said oh by the way they are women's jeans.  Then she said oh it looks tight, are you comfy,  I said yeah its ok.  Then I said well women's clothing fit better then then male clothing.  And I just smiled.

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: AlyssaJ on March 25, 2017, 06:57:31 PM
Crazy cute, I hope you had a great time.  Seems like often we build up far more anxiety in our own minds about how we look and how we'll be perceived than is necessary or appropriate.  You look great!!
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: NotSure81 on March 25, 2017, 11:17:55 PM
Wow, what a cutie indeed. :)

Still waiting for the day I can take that step and go out with some friends (I don't have any where I live) at some point. Keep on rocking!
Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 25, 2017, 11:19:27 PM
Quote from: AlexisLee on March 25, 2017, 11:17:55 PM
Wow, what a cutie indeed. :)

Still waiting for the day I can take that step and go out with some friends (I don't have any where I live) at some point. Keep on rocking!
Thank You  Alexis *Hugs*

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Title: Re: My female look & Coming out
Post by: Mikka55 on March 25, 2017, 11:23:04 PM
Quote from: lisawb on March 25, 2017, 06:57:31 PM
Crazy cute, I hope you had a great time.  Seems like often we build up far more anxiety in our own minds about how we look and how we'll be perceived than is necessary or appropriate.  You look great!!
Thanks yes in deed,  I felt myself my female self when I did that outfit.  I didn't have much dysphoria when I cam out like that,  because at the time I felt like a female,  I know it may not look much female,  but I felt it.  It made me a lot acceptable. 

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