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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Legal Matters => Topic started by: KathyLauren on March 30, 2017, 07:06:36 PM

Title: Some folks like to make things complicated!
Post by: KathyLauren on March 30, 2017, 07:06:36 PM
I am a member of a members-only co-op.  I was in the local store recently as Kathy.  They checked my member number on the computer and asked if I was [boy name].  I admitted that I was, but decided I had better update their records as soon as possible.

I went online to do so.  You can only change your address and phone number online, not your name.  So I emailed and asked them to change it.  Now they are telling me that [boy name] has to resign his membership and transfer his shares to Kathy, who needs to apply for a new membership.  Aargh!

I suspect they are assuming that I am [boy name]'s spouse, widow, or some other relative, trying to get her hands on his membership.  I replied, filling them in on the true situation.  Hopefully that will simplify the process.

On the other hand, I had forgotten that there are shares involved.  So they might need to see a legal name change document.  That is at least a month in the future.

No real point to this post other than to vent about excessive bureaucracy.  Aaaaaargh!!  There, that feels better.
Title: Re: Some folks like to make things complicated!
Post by: Devlyn on March 30, 2017, 07:31:49 PM
Yeah, I'm still paying my electric bill under my old name because their name change procedure was ridiculous. Ironically, it's going to be easier to do what you were told; cancel the old account and start a new one!  :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Some folks like to make things complicated!
Post by: KathyLauren on March 31, 2017, 05:10:35 PM
Well, happy ending.  After I clarified that Kathy and [boy name] are the same person and that this is just a change of name (well, and some other stuff that is not relevent to the store  :D ), I got a very nice letter back informing me that my name had been changed, and wishing me well on my journey.  :)

That is my first offical name change.  What better day than TDoV?  :)
Title: Re: Some folks like to make things complicated!
Post by: Devlyn on March 31, 2017, 05:18:43 PM
Double win!  ;D

Hugs, Devlyn