I did reveal something finally to my family last night,always felt more feminine all my life as female.They did take it well and glad I am seeing a therapist about it.My wife has been great about it and she is glad I am out about it.Therapist I am seeing says I am having a gender ID issue.I still have plans to crossdress fulltime and not transition.My wife was concerned as well and says she wants to stay with me with her support.Has gone with me to my therapy sessions and has said she still loves me.So far my wife has not struggled with this at all and knows this is me.