Ok, so this guy has been wanting to meet me for aaaages, but I've generally steered clear of guys lately due to various bad experiences.
So today, he asks me out again... and I said yes :o He's coming round tonight with some milk and strepsils for me, and we're going to chat and watch Top Gear etc etc and we'll see what he's like and go from there >_<
omg... this is either going to be great fun or really weird... either way, should be interesting >_<
wish me luck!
p.s. he's not at all bad looking to be honest... :o
Posted on: November 18, 2007, 06:08:35 PM
oh my god >_< fun!
And actually REALLY good looking and a genuinely nice guy too...
But wish he was one who committed :P never mind eh he's coming to see me again hopefully next Sunday, will be all tattooed up by then >_<
Glad you had fun! Just be careful and move at a pace you are comfortable with. Advise I myself need to take into account better :-\
Quote from: JJ on November 18, 2007, 09:37:14 PM
Ok, so this guy has been wanting to meet me for aaaages, but I've generally steered clear of guys lately due to various bad experiences.
So today, he asks me out again... and I said yes :o He's coming round tonight with some milk and strepsils for me, and we're going to chat and watch Top Gear etc etc and we'll see what he's like and go from there >_<
omg... this is either going to be great fun or really weird... either way, should be interesting >_<
wish me luck!
p.s. he's not at all bad looking to be honest... :o
Posted on: November 18, 2007, 06:08:35 PM
oh my god >_< fun!
And actually REALLY good looking and a genuinely nice guy too...
But wish he was one who committed :P never mind eh he's coming to see me again hopefully next Sunday, will be all tattooed up by then >_<
that is cool! i have very little experience with straight guys, but i like really how they touch me.
Quote from: Kat on November 18, 2007, 09:47:52 PM
Glad you had fun! Just be careful and move at a pace you are comfortable with. Advise I myself need to take into account better :-\
Oh I was completely comfortable, though it went a lot further than I initially intended... but it all felt so right... very bizarre, only met someone I was so comfortable with the once before.
But oh my, that was pretty intense stuff, its been a long while since someone has made me tingle so much for so long... I'm kinda still tingling now, like 2 hours after it was over...
And was a great long hug when he left >_<
Bah, why are the perfect guys so afraid of commitment eh girls? lol, such a shame, he's like my ideal guy in pretty much every aspect.
Oooh, congrats and I hope you have fun on your date. :)
My brain is going to be so dirtified for ages now... I'm still in the moment >_< graaah!!
Sorry to be crude, but I've not had so many orgasms in a very long time and it certainly leaves one with a craving!
Anyone found a guy that will commit yet?
Posted on: November 19, 2007, 09:34:35 AM
Side note: I know its not possible... but I could swear my boobs look a cup size bigger today... :o
I held off dating for the first two years of transition then I couldn't take it any longer. I had quite a few (more than I care to admit) pre-op dates and a couple of Long Term boyfriends and girlfriends (Bi-grrrrl) They were fun and I had some pretty hot sex but I have kind of an icky feeling when I think back at being with guys pre-op. Girls were different as girls are not genitally focused like guys are. I mean with girls it is mostly "foreplay" anyway.
Congrats!
QuoteAnyone found a guy that will commit yet?
I thought I had someone who might have been someone to do so. However, he confessed on our second night that he was still involved with someone. I laughed then, cried on the way home, and now I kind of switch between not caring and really hating him. Blah. And my few friends wonder why I have a hard time trusting anyone.
Not committing to anyone yet. I just got out of a year-long relationship with my girlfriend. I've been with two guys since my transition, as well. Although, I'm back to liking girls at the moment -- but now guys are starting to look attractive again... I go back and forth sometimes. Certain things attract me to girls, while certain things attract me to guys.
At the moment I'm trying to not get in a relationship. Although I'm a bit of a flirt even when I don't mean to, so I've been breaking a few hearts recently.