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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: karenk1959 on April 29, 2017, 12:09:16 PM

Title: Major Progress!
Post by: karenk1959 on April 29, 2017, 12:09:16 PM
Great day!
I just came out as a TG. I want to be a woman. I am just starting to deal with it. I am taking it slow and just started to wear panties under my pants. My wife asked why I was dressing with the closet door closed. I told her that I knew she didn't like visuals and I was wearing panties. Joking around, she went to my underwear draw and put on a pair of my male underwear(it is also where I keep my lace panties). Then she said that they didn't fit too well and she put on a pair of my lace panties. After she took those off, I just said, "Okay you want to see?" and I pulled down my pants and took off my shirt to expose my nude lace panties. My wife said that I needed to put on a better color so she could really see and I put on a pair of baby blue panties. She looked at me and told me to turn around. She also saw my almost completely shaved body. Anyway, she said that it wasn't as bad as she thought. I told her it is good that I don't have to be secretive about it anymore since that made me feel shame. I then proceeded to vacuum the house in just my panties and it felt great!
Title: Re: Major Progress!
Post by: Mikka55 on April 29, 2017, 12:24:11 PM
Good for you,  happy to hear that. 

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Title: Re: Major Progress!
Post by: JeanetteLW on April 29, 2017, 12:27:16 PM
 Freedom comes one step at a time. Congratulations!

Hugs,
   Laurie
Title: Re: Major Progress!
Post by: Mikaela on April 29, 2017, 01:20:03 PM
Enjoy the journey! And your wife is awesome!


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Title: Re: Major Progress!
Post by: Christine1 on April 30, 2017, 02:43:30 PM
Congrats Karen! It's so cool ur wife seems so good with it.  8)
Title: Re: Major Progress!
Post by: kat69 on May 01, 2017, 06:14:48 PM
Congratulations, on coming out to her.  I too have a wife who is supportive....but you still need to continually confirm with her her level of comfort.  Remember it's your journey...but if you want to have companions, you'll need to consider their feelings as well.