Thank you all for this wonderful community.
I was born male, but have always felt I was "mixed" with the feminine. As a kid I wished I had boobs. Then puberty came, and with it came small boobs. Since then I have had this feminine "spirit" traveling with me, parallel and hidden.
I am at a point in my life that I am considering letting that take better shape.
I am married, with 4 kids (wife has 3, I have 1). She has always known and accepted my crossdressing, but this would take a different shape. I have mentioned wanting to grow bigger breasts, and her concern is that the kids would have issues if I presented more female. It is an ongoing discussion.
Hi, Noel! Welcome to the site.
It's great to read that you are communicating with your spouse over these issues. Just being able to share your feelings with someone else can be a great relief, and I think it is key to combining a marriage with the transgender experience.
We have some other members in similar situations, some for many decades, and they might be able to share more with you.
I hope you feel welcome here.
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