Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: tomfyhr on May 27, 2017, 03:36:20 AM

Title: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: tomfyhr on May 27, 2017, 03:36:20 AM
I am wondering whether it is possible to go into a female dress room or locker room and be nude, while being tucked, so noone will notice a difference between a real vagina and a tucked penis. Is that possible? Will anyone notice if go into the dress room with a tucked penis and being nude?


Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Cimara on May 27, 2017, 05:49:17 AM
Nude? I really don't see any way you could be tucked and be nude and not be detected. Tucked boyparts do not look like a vagina. You would never fool anyone .  Worse, if you were outed while nude in a female bathroom or dressing room you would be labeled as a perv and arrested straight away. I do not advise trying it. Ever.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: tomfyhr on May 27, 2017, 07:52:00 AM
These images of tucked penises looks similar a real vagina visually at the front. Are you certain that a tucked penis like these on the images, would not fool anyone?

<Images removed. This is a family oriented help site.>

Forum Admin
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Sydney_NYC on May 29, 2017, 09:20:57 PM
I've done it down to panties (tucked) in the women's locker room, but I would not even think about it without panties.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: mac1 on September 05, 2017, 08:45:18 PM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on May 29, 2017, 09:20:57 PM
I've done it down to panties (tucked) in the women's locker room, but I would not even think about it without panties.
Great you were able to accomplish that.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Kylo on September 05, 2017, 09:01:38 PM
If in a locker room with some self contained cubicles, maybe. An open one? Wouldn't risk it.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: BlueJaye on September 05, 2017, 11:27:22 PM
Finding still images of realistic tucks isn't hard, but try to walk around and bend over getting dressed without anyone noticing. I doubt you could pull it off. I would just avoid locker rooms altogether and dress somewhere else (at home would be my choice). Wearing sweaty clothes on the drive home might seem gross, but it's not as bad as jail.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Laurie on September 06, 2017, 02:58:57 AM
Hey, tomfyhr , I see that you are new here. So please let me say, Welcome To Susan's Place! Come on in and take a good look around.  Perhaps I can even get you to hop on over to the Introductions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,8.0.html) Thread and create a post to tell us a little bit more about yourself so we can get to know you a little better and greet you properly.

  Also I'll add some links and information below that can help you get more out of our site.

Laurie
Global Moderator


QuoteA Cautionary Note:
This is a public forum so please remember when posting that The Internet Never Forgets, and the various web crawlers and archival sites out there may retain information that you post.

We cannot ensure that any information you share on the site will be protected from public view and/or copying or reproduction. This warning is also listed in the Terms of Service listed below.

If you give out personal information on Susan's you are responsible for any consequence.


I also want to share some links with you. They include helpful information and the rules that govern the site.  It is important for your enjoyment of the site to take a moment to go through them


Things that you should read




Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Julia1996 on September 06, 2017, 05:33:21 AM
Trying to be naked pre SRS in a women's locker room? Wow. I would never have the balls to do that. (Yeah I know, ha ha). I didn't know you could be tucked naked without someone being able to tell. How could you even do that? Why would you want to try? If you got outed I can't even like imagine the cluster ## that would turn into. I'll have to ask my dad because I don't know for sure but I wonder if you could even like be arrested if anyone in there found out. Even if you didn't get arrested I can't even imagine the total embarrassment!  I would never put myself in that kind of scenario. Which makes me wonder about something else. I know in locker rooms guys check out each others equipment. Do women do that too?
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: BlueJaye on September 06, 2017, 08:59:32 AM
I know women compare their bodies. They might not be comparing vaginas, but just looking at another woman's curves and features it would be hard not to notice something that doesn't look quite right (male genitalia). Women definitely notice each other's bodies, so I would not take the chance.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: AnwenEira on September 06, 2017, 10:41:27 AM
Pre-srs, I see this as a legal minefield, even if you had a gender recognition certificate, as some states in my country have.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: StacyRenee on November 04, 2017, 11:36:53 AM
I'm about to enter this difficult situation soon. Where I work, everyone entering the plant to work needs to change in the locker room. I'm presenting female at work now and using the men's locker room and restroom. It's awkward, but since I work in a refrigerated warehouse, I'm wearing insulated underwear when I arrive at work (women's brand Cuddle-dudz).

There's talk about moving me to a different part of the warehouse that isn't refrigerated. There's no way I'd feel comfortable stripping down to bra and panties in the men's locker room. I've told HR that I'm fine staying in the men's facilities until all my documents reflect female (waiting on my birth certificate).

Both my photo ID and BC can be changed without a surgical requirement. My driver's license already shows female. I could insist on using the women's facilities, but I'm trying to avoid making too many waves. I'm in the most conservative county in a liberal state, so I'm just waiting for someone to complain.

Once I do start using the women's locker room, I highly doubt I would need, much less want, to go completely nude.

Sent from my SM-G930V using Tapatalk

Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Stevie on November 04, 2017, 12:21:07 PM

I don't have to tuck but I still would not do it,  I had too many bad experiences in locker rooms growing up.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: flytrap on November 04, 2017, 12:22:02 PM
It's one thing to look like that in a still picture and another in a locker room trying to slip into your panties.

I change and shower in the girl's locker room all the time. I don't mind other girls in the common area seeing my boobs but I would DIE if anyone ever saw my boy parts! Most women are pretty casual about take off their sports bra and alot more private when it comes to their genitals. It's rare to see anyone take off their panties and if they do it's a real quick drop and switch sitting on the bench facing their locker. You really only have to strip to your panties to get into your workout clothes or bathing suit anyway. Every girl's locker room I have ever been in has private showers so I just dry my private parts, slip on clean panties and wrap my towel around my chest before going back to the common area.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: kayla1618 on November 04, 2017, 03:17:25 PM
Quote from: Stevie on November 04, 2017, 12:21:07 PM
I don't have to tuck but I still would not do it,  I had too many bad experiences in locker rooms growing up.

Haha yup ^
A few traumatic experiences in childhood, was enough that I don't even bother with them, unless I know they have seperate stalls. 

I think even if I had bottom surgery, I would still probably go in the stall at this point. 
Thats how deep my issues run as far as locker rooms go.

Number 1 on the list, of most hated things lol






 
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Angela Drakken on November 04, 2017, 05:23:06 PM
I frankly don't waste my time as the only locker room I use is at work and tucking for over 10-12 hours a day is more hassle than its worth. (To be honest, I hate tucking in general for reasons..) I never go beyond my sports bra and boy boxers, and I fly under the radar entirely as just a very tomboyish girl. (Which I am, to be completely honest.)

Whenever they come up with a foolproof (and comfortable) way to keep my deformity hidden at all times, even from myself, I'd love to hear it. Until then, I'll just hold my breath for the knife so to speak.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: mac1 on November 14, 2017, 07:55:17 PM
If I could manage to get my unwanted parts removed I think that I could feel comfortable using the women's locker room, showers and restroom.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Allie24 on November 14, 2017, 08:10:42 PM
My opinion? Under no circumstances should you even attempt because doing so would be extremely dangerous.

Though I'm seriously curious as to why you would want to? I've never in my life been naked in a locker room. Trans issues aside, I think it's weird to want to be naked in front of strangers... of all the things I feel like I'm missing out on, being openly nude in a locker room is not one of them. I would be changing in a stall regardless.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: mac1 on November 15, 2017, 08:03:30 PM
Quote from: Allie24 on November 14, 2017, 08:10:42 PM
My opinion? Under no circumstances should you even attempt because doing so would be extremely dangerous.

Though I'm seriously curious as to why you would want to? I've never in my life been naked in a locker room. Trans issues aside, I think it's weird to want to be naked in front of strangers... of all the things I feel like I'm missing out on, being openly nude in a locker room is not one of them. I would be changing in a stall regardless.

Didn't have a choice regarding being nude in the locker room and showers in junior and senior high phys ed and in military basic training.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Deborah on November 15, 2017, 09:20:25 PM
When I was a kid my whole family went to a nudist beach in California a couple of times.  Nudity is natural and not shameful.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: Phoenix1742 on November 17, 2017, 08:34:38 AM
Please remember, pictures do not reflect real life. It's easy to stage a picture so that everything looks good, but it rarely stands up to movement.  I've had times where my tuck has un-tucked, and what is otherwise merely uncomfortable would become disaster in a locker room.

Although, I have taped and tucked before, under black lace panties (for a boudoir photo shoot) and had a friend amazed at the lack of "baggage". I doubt it would pass while nude, but worked fine under undies. That said, taping brings it's own issues (like not being able to go to the bathroom) and I wouldn't want to do it for an extended time frame.

Sent from my VS988 using Tapatalk

Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: mac1 on December 14, 2017, 09:21:24 PM
Quote from: Allie24 on November 14, 2017, 08:10:42 PM
...............................................................

...........................................I've never in my life been naked in a locker room. Trans issues aside, I think it's weird to want to be naked in front of strangers... of all the things I feel like I'm missing out on, being openly nude in a locker room is not one of them. I would be changing in a stall regardless.
I never said that I would want to be naked in front of strangers in a locker room.  I definitely prefer to change in a private stall.  However, without those disgusting things, if questioned I could counter the challenge by offering them the opportunity to feel my crotch.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: jessica95 on December 17, 2017, 01:57:41 PM
Quote from: tomfyhr on May 27, 2017, 03:36:20 AM
I am wondering whether it is possible to go into a female dress room or locker room and be nude, while being tucked, so noone will notice a difference between a real vagina and a tucked penis. Is that possible? Will anyone notice if go into the dress room with a tucked penis and being nude?
I have never done so, hmmm. Most people advice you not for trying. As someone else said, you dont need to be naked in a locker room, as long as you dress and look like a woman and dont show your genitials, it would be okay?
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: rainecloude on December 18, 2017, 12:01:30 AM
Just on a side note I have never heard of these "everyone is nude together" change rooms. I would avoid that at all costs pre-srs. It can't be a common issue you have to run into hopefully?

Much love. <3
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: mm on December 18, 2017, 07:04:29 AM
I agree, have only known for both male and female to only change clothes in locker rooms, most want to do it as privately as possible.
Title: Re: Tucking - female dressroom/locker room (question)
Post by: TonyaW on December 19, 2017, 07:34:14 AM
Quote from: rainecloude on December 18, 2017, 12:01:30 AM
Just on a side note I have never heard of these "everyone is nude together" change rooms. I would avoid that at all costs pre-srs. It can't be a common issue you have to run into hopefully?

Much love. <3
Not really the changing areas where you might get the all naked together but the showers possibly.  Though the changing areas are usually wide open and people can be in various states of undress at any time.

Most gyms seem to have gone to shower stalls of some sort now.  I do remember the YMCA that I used to go to having the high school like communal showers with no privacy. 

With a shower stall and big enough towels I suppose it would be possible to keep covered up enough, but is not something I intend to try. 

An observation I've made also is that men seem more likely to shower at the gym than women.  Unscientificly basing that on the number of  men vs women that I see arrive in street clothes with a gym bag as opposed to coming in their exercise clothes with just a coat or so.

Sent from my SM-G930V using Tapatalk