Hello,I am Melissa and I am gender fluid seeing myself both as male and female.There are days I dress as female and days I dress as male.Story is as a young boy,I did not see myself as fully male.Thought I was born the wrong gender at first and realized I was happy as a boy.This was at the age of 10 and something changed my life later on figuring out myself.It was finally on Halloween I dressed as a girl and something came out of me,realized I am female as well.Mom saw it out of me and did tell her I am a boy and girl.After that,mom accepted it right away and loves me to this day.Dad,he was harsh on me about it all the time.I remember my mom standing up for me one.Told him love me for who I am or get out.He decided to leave for good.My mom and I are close knowing she loves and accepts I am this way.Relationships,it has been an issue at first and did end up in divorce once and one break up.Now,I married to a great wife Rachael that loves and accepts me for who I am
I feel you Melissa, I am almost the same as you, Quick change.
My memories after my non accepting dad left have been great.Remember my mom taking me out clothes shopping in the girl's section and getting my ears pierced.I have always felt safe around my mom knowing she is supportive and knows she has my brother that is fully masculine.My brother fully accepts and loves me being gender fluid.The gender pronouns,they use she/her and he/his around me which I am cool about with no problems at all.
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Hey sis/bro :)!!! Welcome to the club of the trans* spectrum. Tho I have not managed to like my ''male'' life and appears I need to keep transitioning towards full female, i think it is very cool to meet those on the non-binary spectrum :)
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