Hello, my name is Jynx and I am trying to find my place on the spectrum currently.
I have known I didn't "want" to be a girl since I can remember, but I always pushed away these feelings because I didn't understand. Recently I decided to stop suppressing these feelings and I looked up genders. At first I believed I was androgyne, but now I'm not sure. As of late I have been teetering between FTM and and versandrogyne.
But long story short, I'm really confused and overwhelmed, and I hope to learn more about myself and others through this site.
:)
Welcome to Susan's Place. It's not uncommon for people joining the site to be unsure what they want. A gender therapist would help you in this process but for now, I have a couple of links that might prove useful. The first is our WIKI (https://www.susans.org/wiki/Transgender) where you will learn more about the transgender family. The second is "the transition channel" (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfO3B57E6NpIn-KsVjvmLLw) where a gender therapist will help you explore your feeling. Feel free to ask any questions you might have and we will do our best to answer them.
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Welcome to the forums. You are not alone. There are plenty of people here that can give advice, lend you an ear and what not. Stay strong and just be yourself.
Welcome!
I've dealt with all that confusion myself and know how it is, so just hit me up if you have any questions or want to talk.
Before I started seeing my therapist I thought I was just gender fluid in denial, because while there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gender fluid, it's far too much of an emotional label for me, and I also prefer some stability, as well as I cannot stand the thought of being both, personally, back and forth, as that is pretty much what I've done most of my life and it's very tedious.
Hope you get all of the support and resources you need here! :D
Welcome Jynx! I hope you'll be able to find out about yourself soon, this is definitely a great place to get your bearings
Hi Jynx!!! :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's Place :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
See what I did there? Yeah... LOL
Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that we offer to all new members to help them along
Please be sure to review:
Things that you should read
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
- Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
- News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
- Photo, avatars, and signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
Hugs
V M
V M beat me to it, but hi Jynx! ;D Welcome to Susan's! I'm genderfluid with a feminine presentation. On boy days Buttercup has to suck it up and put on the girl clothes! :laugh: See you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn