Does anyone crossdress during the night ? I mean wearing a nightdress or a short nightdress. I'm not ready to go crossdressed on the streets but I might get such a present from my wife for my birthday. And is it accepted by your partner easily ?
What do you wear ? Is it a pyjama or a dress or just shorts or ...
Kaeren
I went through a stage where I exclusively wore women's pyjamas. If you are going to do pyjamas, women's are the best.
I asked female underwear for my birthday from my wife. At least a birthday present which I will use once. Normally I don't even look at my birthday presents because I never know what I could possibly need.
The choice is now still a night dress ( I would take a short one ) or a "body" ( for during the day ). I'm not sure I'm using the correct word here. The body I would choose because it keeps up panties. But the night dress I would enjoy also.
I tried my wife's nightdress on a few days ago. It excited me very much and it made her laugh.
OK - I am weird - I wear a night dress all the time.
Alice
Quote from: Alice on November 27, 2007, 05:33:50 PM
OK - I am weird - I wear a night dress all the time.
Alice
So am I and so do I... but only at night! :D
LLL&R
Maebh
Quote from: Maebh on November 27, 2007, 07:02:50 PM
Quote from: Alice on November 27, 2007, 05:33:50 PM
OK - I am weird - I wear a night dress all the time.
Alice
So am I and so do I... but only at night! :D
LLL&R
Maebh
LOL - I guess I need to qualify my statement now. I wear my night dress every night.
Alice
Quote from: Kaeren on November 27, 2007, 01:26:08 PM
Does anyone crossdress during the night ?
During the day I wear clothes and during the night I don't. I suppose that is a form of cross dressing isn't it? ;)
I don't even have any night wear.
Cindi
I wear a nightgown every night, If fact last Christmas my wife got us matching ones !
Jamie L.
I usually wear just a thong panty and a casual but rather largre sweater. Enough ventilation prevents some skin diseases. Thong panty is also what I usually wear at work. Good for ventilation.
Barbie~~
My son of 4 once told me my feet nails were a bit dirty. He didn't understand it was white paint. I think he understood now but he does not give remarks anymore. He says that sometimes it is allowed when you are at home.
This morning I brought him to school and he just keeps repaiting to everybody, "this is my papa". Also when we go swim and he gets lessons. Again, to everybody. In other words he's proud about me, and that's nice for me.
Karen,
Kids of crossdressers react to their parent exactly the same way of adults around them. If adults accept it, then kids accept it. If some adults criticize it, then kids do.
Kids are a thorny issue. I try to constrain whenever I visit the school of my kids, but still children there ask me whether I am a man or woman, or why I have long hairs like women, and etc. Children are very outspoken.
Sometimes, my first son says he hates my wearing women's dress, but usually this is when he was upset on me about other issues, such as not allowing him to play some games. He just tried to trade my weakness he think. I worry most about possible teasing from his classmates. Fortunately, no such thing has ever happened, because he enjoys attending the school.
Also there is a playground next to my home. Initially, kids there were curious of me, asking many questions. Nowadays, no more question like other parents here. They become familar to me like people at my workplace.
Essentially, there is no difference between kids and adults.
Barbie~~
Barbie,
I went shopping this afternoon with my wife. My sleeping dress might be a bigger problem than I thought. My chest is a bit too big I think.
But I saw extra cool boots. Size 42. And others of 41,5 which were also ok. One of them were even inbetween male and female. I was ready to buy them but then my wife said the really female ones with high heels were better. But in the end she disagreed about bying them. Instead she bought boots for herself. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ....
Anyhow, I got new shoes also for my birthday. The sleeping dress might be for Valentine. But anyhow she might be more pushy in this than me. She told me she'll buy boots for me also.
Important thing is the minds are changed. In my opinion I have a green light now to buy whatever I like myself.
Kaeren
today I bought myself some purple DMs and some black industrial DMs, then customised them, by putting dark purple and black stripy laces in the black ones and light purple and white ones in the purple DMs....it has made me very happy.
Sorry for not knowing but what is a DM ?
I have worn nightgowns on three occasions when the wife wasn't home. Those were the three best nights of sleep I've ever had. Haven't done it since but I do wear panties to bed on occasion. My dream is for her to buy a dress for me.
Gennee
:)
a doctor martin boot
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFP3iMemx4w
I wear tricot nylon waltz length night gown every nite except when we are visiting. After surgery I wear a full length nylon gown. It makes it easier to slide in and out of bed.
Jaimee
In warmer weather I like a shortie nightie, or just a teddy top. When it's cooler I love a full length nightie, and it's always a silky one. Flannel just doesn't do it for me.
I wear a Vanity Fair waltz gown most nights (with VF panties) because of the comfort. I even feel a little odd when i need to wear men's PJs because I've become so used to the touch of satin tickling my thighs. I've tried flannel and fleece, but nothing beats Vanity Fair. Look nice on me, too.
Luckily I have a half-dozen at present, because they seem to have disappeared from the usual stores (Kohl's, Target) and I need to find their new home. Any suggestions?
Brenda
Absolutely. Sometimes a chemise or gown but usually panties and cute top.
Quote from: Pica Pica on November 28, 2007, 06:24:10 PM
a doctor martin boot
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFP3iMemx4w
You sound like the former governor of Louisana -- Cong. Huey Long (sp?)..... He wore boots to bed for traction. :angel:
Daisy
Well I don't wear them to bed, but I would
Sex in bed with boots can be .... interesting. >:D
hence the expression "knocking boots" :D
Quote from: jamie lee on November 27, 2007, 08:23:35 PM
I wear a nightgown every night, If fact last Christmas my wife got us matching ones !
Jamie L.
That is so cool!
Normally, I don't wear anything to bed. But when I do, it's usually a long sleepshirt. My wife has some real nice ones.
I have been doing the nightgowns for quite some time. It's the only thing I can wear right seeing that I look pregnant right now. I'm dieting now so hopefuly I will be able to dress in street clothes and go out again.
About a week ago I tried on a pair of my wife's pink silk shorts. As my son "slept in", I just laid there with him, and enjoying how feminine I felt. It's odd, too, because I feel much more comfortable speaking in a higher octave voice, and sometimes I feel like I am his mom when mom is at work. (grin)
I wear a nylon tricot waltz length nightgown every night. My wife wears the same. Feels good to the over 60 crowd too
Jaimee
I love when I get the opportunity to wear night gowns to bed. My wife doesn't want me to in case the kids were to come into our room at night, but the times they are away are the best sleep I get.
I don't normally wear anything when I sleep but sometimes when it gets colder I'll wear silk pajama pants.
I love gowns and PJs. Anything from silk and satin to flannel. Depends on the weather. My GF likes it too.
This reminds me I need new PJs for the summer time. It's getting too hot for the pair I got right now </3
But to answer your question, yes I do. But nothing special. Just a women's button up
I'm glad I saw someone else say PJs because personally I love those plaid flannel pajama pants. In the winter or on particularly cold nights I wear a t-shirt and PJ pants. In the summer I'll switch to athletic shorts because they're comfy too.
PJs for the cold, Shorts for the warm, nice extra soft cotton T.
For me it's just a nylon nightie all year until it's really cold. Then it's the Loooong T-shirt cotton nighties
Jaimee
I wear ladies pajamas a lot of the time. My wife has bought me some and I've bought some myself. I also wear chemises sometimes, but my wife is not really crazy about me wearing those to bed. Many times I wear a bra under my pajamas also.
I am looking for a nightie to wear to bed. Does anyone know where I could order a sheer chiffon negligee or something similar? One that would fit someone with a larger stomach and tall body frame. Thanks for any help that is given.
To buy a nice nighty if you can get to a large ladies dept or store They can easily bouth on the net by surfing and posted to your addr or work in plain wraping.
Quote from: BlondeVeronica on August 31, 2008, 07:29:01 PM
I am looking for a nightie to wear to bed. Does anyone know where I could order a sheer chiffon negligee or something similar? One that would fit someone with a larger stomach and tall body frame. Thanks for any help that is given.
I would simply go to a bigger shop and buy it. Many times you can try it before you buy it there.
Who will stop you anyhow ? Put it between some other clothes and go try it. Once you know more or less your size you could simply buy it like that without trying before.
I changed practically all my underwear like that. I don't really care what they think when I pay for it. I could buy it for a girlfriend or wife also, or not ?
Quote from: Kaeren on September 03, 2008, 10:20:36 AM
I would simply go to a bigger shop and buy it. Many times you can try it before you buy it there. Who will stop you anyhow ?
Some places would call security if a man tried to try on women's clothes. So far, I've only tried things on at Target, where there's only one group of fitting rooms. Other places have dedicted men's & women's rooms. These places can be a bit trickier.
Quote from: Shades O'Grey on September 03, 2008, 10:56:29 AM
Quote from: Kaeren on September 03, 2008, 10:20:36 AM
I would simply go to a bigger shop and buy it. Many times you can try it before you buy it there. Who will stop you anyhow ?
Some places would call security if a man tried to try on women's clothes. So far, I've only tried things on at Target, where there's only one group of fitting rooms. Other places have dedicted men's & women's rooms. These places can be a bit trickier.
There's really no trick to it. If you're a man, you go to the men's changing room. If you're a woman, you go the women's. They can't stop you for going in the proper dressing room. If you're worried about security not letting you in, bring some men's clothing with you for cover. I've tried on many things way and no one has ever said a thing.
Quote from: NatalieW on September 03, 2008, 02:58:43 PM
There's really no trick to it. If you're a man, you go to the men's changing room. If you're a woman, you go the women's. They can't stop you for going in the proper dressing room. If you're worried about security not letting you in, bring some men's clothing with you for cover. I've tried on many things way and no one has ever said a thing.
That's a clever trick indeed.
Quote from: NatalieW on September 03, 2008, 02:58:43 PM
There's really no trick to it. If you're a man, you go to the men's changing room. If you're a woman, you go the women's. They can't stop you for going in the proper dressing room. If you're worried about security not letting you in, bring some men's clothing with you for cover. I've tried on many things way and no one has ever said a thing.
Exactly. And many shops where I go there is no difference anymore between then men and women area to try things. They also don't give you a ticket that tells you you took 5 pieces with you.
Well. Easy topic for me. I started out stealth dressing for bed, and that included wearing panties and a men's T-shirt to bed in hopes my wife would not notice. That has evolved, to where I now wear cozy flannel full length nightgowns on chilly nights or flannel PJ's, and in warmer weather either light cotton floral pj's or cami and short sets with lots of lace. And I always wear panties under my nighties. I have slept so much better since I switched to 100% full time women's sleepwear. My wife has now resumed sleeping with me. She wouldn't for a while, because she thought it was "too confusing" to share a bed with me in my cute, cozy women's sleepwear. Now, as long as I don't try to initiate any sexual play, she's OK with my PJ's and nighties. :)
If I'm in shopping mode I just bring a tape measure. I know exactly what fits and what doesn't after years of Ebay shopping for women's clothes that more or less look like Men's XS clothes. I can also hold my outstretched hand against a shirt and figure out whether it is going to float on me or not. When I bought my first dress I just held it up found it was the perfect length. Just above the knee.
I wear panties 24/7 and started wearing a knee length slip to bed, my wife was not too happy the first time but since this really hot weather she has not mentioned it.
Jean x
Been wearing nightdresses for years. I also have a pair of pink PJs for those really cold nights.
My Mom wore mens pajamas for as long as I can remember. Used to drive my old man nuts...
I wear satin pajamas from Victoria's Secret or Pajama Gram over panties every night. To me, they are the best thing to wear when you sleep on satin sheets. And they feel wonderful right after I've shaved my legs.