The days getting closer...the part I'm not looking forward to at all in my journey 27 preop and I have a wife and two kids ages 7 and 5....and unfortunately divorce papers are being written up I've battled so hard the last 4 yrs trying to stick around for my kids only I realize I have this beautiful family and am incapable of enjoying them because I'm miserable in a male body....I know I'm not the only one whose had to make a decision like this...anyone with some experience please share
🌸 JJ
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Hi JJ, I can't tell you what to do, but my need to transition has resulted in divorce and separation from my two kids 5 and 3. It's been tough on the kids especially the elder one, and my Ex has really struggled.
My only hope is that time will help soften their pain, and bring some understanding. The biggest problem is finding any professional support for our partners and children. X
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JJ,
All of us have paid a price. My wife, a grandchild, much of my family are no longer in my life. But what was the choice?? There was not one in truth. To stay as I was would have been to live in a grey death. Walking this path to living is not easy, nor is it cheap. But it is worth whatever the cost for me. Today I live honestly and openly. Perhaps one day I will post a picture of the tired and terribly sad old man whose body I once inhabited.
But even more remarkable than the physical change, is the living and spiritual transformation into someone who knows how to love, how to delight and be delighted, to serve and receive service.
Breathe deeply and open your heart and your spirit to finally living each and every day. No matter what comes along, you are not alone and there are footsteps of those who have passed this way to guide you.
Peace,
Julie
Sorry to hear this and we each make our choices. Think if you didnt then on your deathbed you will live a life unfufilled. You can still have a great relationshio with your children and hopefully your ex as a friend. I have 4 children from 33 yrs old to 5 years old. I hve been divorced 3 times. Yet I have a winderful relationship with my exes and especially my children.
Today I live the life I dreamed of, I am happy and at peace.