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Title: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 08:34:44 AM
Hi. I'm a heterosexual cis male (someone said I may be slightly non binary. All tough I have never related with most blocky blokes, I don't think that's the case.)

Anyway I guess I'm an admirer in the fact I am attracted to both cis and trans lady's equally. Really in terms of my attraction, I see no difference. Anyway this site has helped me learn a lot about the trans community, and has helped me learn about myself. I really hope a cis guy like me could be accepted in this group. I want to learn more. Be a better person. So hi and thankyou.( I have anxiety so I am really a little scared and nervous as a first time poster. )

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: SailorMars1994 on August 02, 2017, 08:37:09 AM
Welcome! it is nice to have allies in our lives :)
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 09:04:49 AM
Quote from: SailorMars1994 on August 02, 2017, 08:37:09 AM
Welcome! it is nice to have allies in our lives :)
Thank you (I'm relieved) . sailor moon is awesome btw

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: SailorMars1994 on August 02, 2017, 09:07:29 AM
Quote from: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 09:04:49 AM
Thank you (I'm relieved) . sailor moon is awesome btw

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She most certianly is :)
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 09:09:37 AM
Are there dating groups,/ chats around the susans place section? Not what I was exclusively looking for, just curious if there's a section where its encouraged , promoted.

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Devlyn on August 02, 2017, 09:37:47 AM
Hi Cismalli, welcome to Susan's Place! Hold on tight, I'm moving this to the Introductions area. Wheeeee!

To be clear, there is NO dating area on the forums, however there is a  Dating & Personals  (https://www.susans.org/links/Links_Directory/Dating_&_Personals/) area in the Links Directory. See you around the site.

Hugs, Devlyn

Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 09:47:57 AM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on August 02, 2017, 09:37:47 AM
Hi Cismalli, welcome to Susan's Place! Hold on tight, I'm moving this to the Introductions area. Wheeeee!

To be clear, there is NO dating area on the forums, however there is a  Dating & Personals  (https://www.susans.org/links/Links_Directory/Dating_&_Personals/) area in the Links Directory. See you around the site.

Hugs, Devlyn
Ah thanks for clearing that up (sorry had to ask, excuse my newbie ness) and sorry if I posted I the wrong section. And most of all, thank you for accepting me :)

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Kendra on August 02, 2017, 09:53:58 AM
Hello Cismalli!

Always great to see people become more accepting and understanding as the world is becoming a better place.  If you find a transgender Significant Other in the future (through other sites), Susan's has a SO section to support those who are in an existing transgender partnership. 

We always provide the following information to new members, I will add it here for you.  This helps Susan's run more smoothly and can save you time navigating.

A Cautionary Note:
This is a public forum so please remember when posting that The Internet Never Forgets, and the various web crawlers and archival sites out there may retain information that you post.

We cannot ensure that any information you share on the site will be protected from public view and/or copying or reproduction. This warning is also listed in the Terms of Service listed below.

If you give out personal information on Susan's you are responsible for any consequence.


I also want to share some links with you. They include helpful information and the rules that govern the site.  It is important for your enjoyment of the site to take a moment to go through them


Things that you should read




Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)


Welcome Cismalli, best wishes.  ;)

Kendra
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 09:58:09 AM
Quote from: Kendra on August 02, 2017, 09:53:58 AM
Hello Cismalli!

Always great to see people become more accepting and understanding as the world is becoming a better place.  If you find a transgender Significant Other in the future (through other sites), Susan's has a SO section to support those who are in an existing transgender partnership. 

We always provide the following information to new members, I will add it here for you.  This helps Susan's run more smoothly and can save you time navigating.

A Cautionary Note:
This is a public forum so please remember when posting that The Internet Never Forgets, and the various web crawlers and archival sites out there may retain information that you post.

We cannot ensure that any information you share on the site will be protected from public view and/or copying or reproduction. This warning is also listed in the Terms of Service listed below.

If you give out personal information on Susan's you are responsible for any consequence.


I also want to share some links with you. They include helpful information and the rules that govern the site.  It is important for your enjoyment of the site to take a moment to go through them


Things that you should read




Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)


Welcome Cismalli, best wishes.   ;)

Kendra
I'll make sure to read .Thank you very much. (The bit about the internet never forgets was a bit confronting :p. Some "big brother" "1984" vibes there :p)

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: KageNiko on August 02, 2017, 02:50:35 PM
Hello Cismalli, welcome to the forums!  I talk to cis men and women all the time about myself, in the real world, and I've become quite comfortable with it.  So, why not here as well?! Haha! <3

Anyway, feel free to ask me any questions in any threads you see me in.
~Love Ashley
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Janes Groove on August 02, 2017, 03:08:29 PM
Welcome to the site Cismalli.  ALL gender identities are welcome here.
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: eyesk8rboi on August 02, 2017, 05:00:16 PM
Quote from: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 08:34:44 AM
Hi. I'm a heterosexual cis male (someone said I may be slightly non binary. All tough I have never related with most blocky blokes, I don't think that's the case.)

Anyway I guess I'm an admirer in the fact I am attracted to both cis and trans lady's equally. Really in terms of my attraction, I see no difference. Anyway this site has helped me learn a lot about the trans community, and has helped me learn about myself. I really hope a cis guy like me could be accepted in this group. I want to learn more. Be a better person. So hi and thankyou.( I have anxiety so I am really a little scared and nervous as a first time poster. )

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Welcome dude! Being an ally is always great and I've honestly been curious to see more cis / het people on the site.
Hope you enjoy your stay. We're all a very accepting, loving bunch so you'll be part of the family in no time!
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Julia1996 on August 02, 2017, 07:26:33 PM
Hi. Welcome to the site. I'm Julia.
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: V M on August 02, 2017, 08:16:24 PM
Hi Cismalli  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 10:49:46 PM
Quote from: KageNiko on August 02, 2017, 02:50:35 PM
Hello Cismalli, welcome to the forums!  I talk to cis men and women all the time about myself, in the real world, and I've become quite comfortable with it.  So, why not here as well?! Haha! <3

Anyway, feel free to ask me any questions in any threads you see me in.
~Love Ashley
Thanks :) look forward to it :)

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 10:50:06 PM
Quote from: Janes Groove on August 02, 2017, 03:08:29 PM
Welcome to the site Cismalli.  ALL gender identities are welcome here.
Thanks :)

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 10:51:11 PM
Quote from: transguymac on August 02, 2017, 05:00:16 PM

Welcome dude! Being an ally is always great and I've honestly been curious to see more cis / het people on the site.
Hope you enjoy your stay. We're all a very accepting, loving bunch so you'll be part of the family in no time!
Thanks amigo . a great resource this website is, I had to join.

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 10:52:39 PM
Quote from: Julia1996 on August 02, 2017, 07:26:33 PM
Hi. Welcome to the site. I'm Julia.
Thank you Julia. Debating weather to use my name on here. Can call me B for now amigo

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 10:53:32 PM
Quote from: V M on August 02, 2017, 08:16:24 PM
Hi Cismalli  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
What's this fun you speak of [emoji14] isn't that forbidden here (jokes). Pleasure to meet you

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Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: V M on August 02, 2017, 11:51:21 PM
LOL...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-SaoaXfz6E
Title: Re: Cis dude . (wants to be a better allie.) Just saying hi for now.
Post by: Cismalli on August 02, 2017, 11:52:13 PM
Quote from: V M on August 02, 2017, 11:51:21 PM
LOL...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-SaoaXfz6E
I love that song! I actually own the album believe or not

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