'This woman said she didn't know what she was until she found S&M'
http://www.independent.ie/opinion/analysis/this-woman-said-she-didnt-know-what-she-was-until-she-found-sm-1234599.html
12/2/2007
"Anna believes that the people who get the most out of the internet are the ones who use it without letting it replace other aspects of their lives like a love life, a sex life, an interest or a hobby. People who use it as a means to an end. Like meeting somebody via the internet for a date."