Hi everyone. I've been reading your posts for a long while and finally decided to jump in and join the discussion. I'm 55 yo and have been struggling with GD since my mid-teens.
About 6 months ago I sought help from a therapist and she's helped me accept that I have gender dysphoria and while I now recongnise myself as transgender I will continue to present as a male (for a lot of the same reasons as some of you).
I'm excited about connecting with you guys as it has been a long tough road alone.
Mandy
Hi Mandy, welcome to Susan's! Glad you decided to join and become a member. I am MTF about the same age, Seattle area. My first gender therapist meeting was three months ago - shortly after that meeting I arranged to get onto HRT.
I hope you can find answers here as I have in the various forums. I've been able to make better decisions by learning about other members' real-world experiences. Coming out blocked me for while - I found the Coming Out forum to be quite a help.
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Mandy, see you around!
Kendra