As most of you know, libido tends to become an issue on T.
I´ve been on a quest to deal with this. Considering my bottom dysphoria, I´ve only been looking for options that involve some type of penetration done by me. However sadly I do not have much package length.
I´ve tried a fleslight in combination with a packer, but that only works once in a blue moon.
I´ve recently tried a thing called "womanizer" which combines suction with vibration on your D. Sounded good, did not work for me (it was advertised as a ->-bleeped-<- simulator, but it did not feel that way... at all).
Not sure about the buckoff option (the one that Buck Angel made). As I said, not much length.
I´ve considered a doll (yes... a man gets lonely sometimes) but the good ones costs ton of money. The idea being that the shape of a female body turns me on.
Stuck between my libido and a hard place...pun not intended. I´ve been wondering about the Bono by Transthetics but that one also costs quite a lot, and I want to know for sure if it will be functional, I suppose Alex does not accept any returns.
Are there any horny guys out there who found a solution ??? ;D
I don't know if it will help or not, but Chase Ross does a lot of toy reviews on his channel. (Youtube username uppercaseCHASE). Included is a review on the very one you asked specifically about (the Bono) which he loves if I recall correctly. I personally am very much in the closet still and money is a factor so I haven't tried any.
I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem!
Alas, as much as I love and adore my partner, he's sometimes at work when I get morning wood. Plus, an orgasm helps me sleep when my insomnia otherwise makes getting more than 5 hours of sleep impossible.
I too am looking for a toy for us men that don't have a lot of length. I'd love to try the BuckOff, maybe I should go to Chase's toy channel too. He's already my favorite youtuber, after all.
Oh, if you decide to buy a toy using the links in his description, he gets paid and can keep making toy videos for us men! [emoji6]
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Quote from: Ryuichi13 on September 04, 2017, 06:46:12 PM
I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem!
Alas, as much as I love and adore my partner, he's sometimes at work when I get morning wood. Plus, an orgasm helps me sleep when my insomnia otherwise makes getting more than 5 hours of sleep impossible.
I too am looking for a toy for us men that don't have a lot of length. I'd love to try the BuckOff, maybe I should go to Chase's toy channel too. He's already my favorite youtuber, after all.
Oh, if you decide to buy a toy using the links in his description, he gets paid and can keep making toy videos for us men! [emoji6]
Ryuichi
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I have tried them all. I have come to the conclusion that as my junk is growing it changes the technique or tool required to get off. The buck off is too big for me now...I like the womanizer...I have the Bono but want to try it with someone else...various vibes work. Again I think that sensation changes as it grows so if a toy doesn't work now then test it again in a month.
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Quote from: cmonahan on September 05, 2017, 09:37:17 AM
I have tried them all. I have come to the conclusion that as my junk is growing it changes the technique or tool required to get off. The buck off is too big for me now...I like the womanizer...I have the Bono but want to try it with someone else...various vibes work. Again I think that sensation changes as it grows so if a toy doesn't work now then test it again in a month.
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Honestly, I think I might have reached my limit. They say that you only get about 1-2 inches on average, and after 9 months on T I'm already at 2 so....?
Vibes no longer seem to do it for me, but friction now seems to work. That's why I hope the BuckOff and similar items will work. The Blue Valentine has the right idea, but I think I need something more nubby instead of ridges. I know the BV has a green version with nubs, I think I'm going to try that. I also feel the need to penetrate, hopefully it'll help fufill that need as well.
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Quote from: Ryuichi13 on September 05, 2017, 10:22:14 AM
Honestly, I think I might have reached my limit. They say that you only get about 1-2 inches on average, and after 9 months on T I'm already at 2 so....?
Vibes no longer seem to do it for me, but friction now seems to work. That's why I hope the BuckOff and similar items will work. The Blue Valentine has the right idea, but I think I need something more nubby instead of ridges. I know the BV has a green version with nubs, I think I'm going to try that. I also feel the need to penetrate, hopefully it'll help fufill that need as well.
Ryuichi
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Blue Valentines have been discontinued.
Quote from: Alexthecat on September 05, 2017, 09:27:43 PM
Blue Valentines have been discontinued.
Oh, that's what I thought. Too bad, they were pretty decent.
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Just for those of you who want someone else to do the search for you -- Chase's complete playlist of his reviews and stuff... As a side note, A lot of trans videos, especially ones like these are marked as 'adult' so you'll have to sign in as age verification
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7SgbxvTR7N6y2x6g0YZOGRl88XKepxnx
AND his review of the Bono specifically:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZgHIrJDM-GU&index=16&t=208s&list=PL7SgbxvTR7N6y2x6g0YZOGRl88XKepxnx --> Solo/Unboxing
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukeUj3uDAOU&index=5&list=PL7SgbxvTR7N6y2x6g0YZOGRl88XKepxnx --> Partners
Yeah, some jackass started flagging his reviews a few months back. He seems to think it was someone trying to get him kicked off youtube. I don't know if its still going on, but his information is so good that I hope its stopped!
I need to go watch the second half of the bono review, thanks for reminding me!
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I've heard that the bono is COMPLETELY worth the money. Haven't been fortunate enough to try one though.
As far as the buck off, I'd recommend trying to find the bro sleeve (aka the good head helping head). At my local sex shop it was only $7 (as opposed to I think $30 for the buck off) and it's just as pleasing to me. If you're too small for that one it was only $7. But I'm pretty small after being on T and like them both. The bro sleeve is great for my size whether I'm ready to go or need a little coaxing, but the buck off doesn't work for me until I'm rock solid.
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Thanks for the Chase tip, I have watched his videos and his review. I was already familiar with him :)
If I were rich, I could just purchase everything he recommends (like him, have you seen his stack of dicks, it´s incredible). But shipping fees to Europe are pretty steep and the import costs are ridiculous. So I have to be extremely picky.
I wish they made those things on this side of the world too, so far I haven´t found anything in the region. The bro sleeve sounds like a good tip.
Quote from: November Fox on September 10, 2017, 06:47:06 PM
Thanks for the Chase tip, I have watched his videos and his review. I was already familiar with him :)
If I were rich, I could just purchase everything he recommends (like him, have you seen his stack of dicks, it´s incredible). But shipping fees to Europe are pretty steep and the import costs are ridiculous. So I have to be extremely picky.
I wish they made those things on this side of the world too, so far I haven´t found anything in the region. The bro sleeve sounds like a good tip.
Sure thing! I feel like Chase tends to be the like 'Go to' FTM resource hahahaha. But hey, that's why he does it, is to be helpful to the rest of us.
'If I were rich' -- if I had a nickel for every time I said that, I *WOULD* be rich. But yes. His wall of dicks is AMAZING... Lucky duck... I mean, he gets sent them to review, sure, but stillll I wanna have a wall of them too!
Oh, Europe. I feel for you man. Yeah most of them are US made (Or Canadian. I think a couple are Canadian?) Though other stuff I have seen made in like England (though sadly don't remember what LOL). Having worked in a law office and shipped a ton of stuff internationally, I know the fees oh so well. It costs an arm and a leg to ship a shoebox with a feather in it! (Okay I might not have tried that EXACT experiment, but hey... point still stands because unless shipping flat rate, size, weight AND parcel shape affect the price)