Hello everybody. I'm a ftm 25-year-old. I always knew about my gender identity, but didn't accept it until I was 24. I'm out to only my friends and mother (who didn't took it well). I hope we can be friends, see you!
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Hi Barry :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's Place :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
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V M
Hi Barry! I saw your thread about coming out, and just wanted to drop in here and say hi. I don't have any personal experience to draw from yet to offer you advice on your mother, so won't presume to, but I will say that there are many here who have spoken about very similar issues. Hopefully you will find the same compassion and guidance I have from this forum. :)
Greetings from one Bari to another. It might take time with parents. If she sees how much happier you are perhaps she will come around.
BTW, it is very disconcerting to see my boy name in print here. Then I think, that's not me, that's somebody else, Yay!
Bari Jo
Thanks everybody for your welcome! I already love this place and think y'all are amazing
Hello Barry, welcome!
I am MtF, started questioning my gender identity in the 1970s and waited a loooong time before doing what I needed to do. I wish I had figured things out earlier. If a resource like this had been available back then I would have experienced many things sooner. Transition has worked really well for me so far.
Great to see you here!
Kendra
Thanks for your welcome Kendra! It's good to know that everything is well for you now