This is something i'm wondering if anyone else here struggles with. The thing is, I do know that I want to be with a guy eventually, it is something that I often think of. I am still pre op, and the only thing I have had done surgically is a bilateral orchiectomy. Most things like the thought of sex with a guy right now just kind of shuts me off, like it's something I am really not ready for yet. Just the thought of intimacy with another person is already difficult for me.
So I just don't know, I often see guys out in public places that I feel attracted to, but relationships with people in general is something that is very difficult for me. There's this wall that just seems to go up.
Quote from: CosmicJoke on November 12, 2017, 12:22:54 PM
This is something i'm wondering if anyone else here struggles with. The thing is, I do know that I want to be with a guy eventually, it is something that I often think of. I am still pre op, and the only thing I have had done surgically is a bilateral orchiectomy. Most things like the thought of sex with a guy right now just kind of shuts me off, like it's something I am really not ready for yet. Just the thought of intimacy with another person is already difficult for me.
So I just don't know, I often see guys out in public places that I feel attracted to, but relationships with people in general is something that is very difficult for me. There's this wall that just seems to go up.
Those guys attracted to me usually wanted to treat me like a she-male or ->-bleeped-<-'s, so I just shut them out because that not the reason I am transition.
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Quote from: luanneph on November 12, 2017, 12:31:53 PM
Those guys attracted to me usually wanted to treat me like a she-male or ->-bleeped-<-'s, so I just shut them out because that not the reason I am transition.
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I agree. There have been guys on the internet that I have talked to and it seemed like the only thing they really wanted was sex even when I wasn't really in the mood. They still expected me to be putting out.
I feel like when you meet these types of guys, it really narrows your parameters in terms of who you would really want to date or be in a relationship with.
I think it has to do with the guy and whether he's misogynistic (typically). At a group dinner one of my male friends was asking the waiter something and the number 69 was mentioned. The waiter noted the sexual innuendo while glaring at me.
That was only a bit better than the same night having my butt grapped by one of my "friends" (who's also obviously actively pursing another friend of ours).
He was also saying inappropriate and disrespectful things and i know we were at a wine tasting drinking but that's not an excuse to act that way. It's sad some insecure guys can't handle rejection and try to embarrass and demean us girls.
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