Do you have a part of your body that you particularly like? Some feminine/masculine feature? Many trans people hate their bodies but there must be something you really like about yourself! Fingernails? Hair? Feet? Legs? Arms? Back, stomach, neck?? Lips, eyes, or eyebrows maybe? Something you feel good about looking at? Or do you have many? Or the whole-shebang, ;D?! More the better!
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I like my face & hair as vain as I am, :D. But my fave masculine feature must be my fairly masculine arms. I notice the more I work out the more my body masculinizes and I'm starting to love my shoulder-pecs-arms-line!
I like my hair, stomach, and my face :)
I'm gonna start working out to get nicer legs and a bigger butt so hopefully in a few months I can say that I like those as well.
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I love my eyes. I have heterochromia which is awesome(blue with a brown quarter in one), but even without that the blue base is just a really good color and very intricate patterning.
In terms of feminine specific features, my butt and hips aren't a bad starting place, I'm looking forward to see how they develop. I don't love my hands, but I don't hate them either, as they are actually a bit below the male average and in the female range for length (though average male width, so does create a "stubby" look, they don't look large/masculine).
If you have a few hours, I'll list the features I hate next. ;D
My chest and my dick and everything else down there. At least I have a nice one even though ideally I'd like it reconfigured ::). And my hair. Took me a gruelling 6 months but finally got it to reach past my ear just about ;D
I used to like my arms and back. When I used to lift weights, those were my strong points. Now, not so much. After getting cervical fusion, Doc said no more lifting. Not what would normally do, so I skip it. I'm also stealth big. I don't look as big as I am. When I weighed 350, most people would guess 270. Even when working out, my arms were 19" and chest 57", but I didn't look huge at all. Now that I'm losing weight and thinning out, I'm still bigger than the average bear, but I like being less big.
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I like my hands and feet.
I would like my breasts if they were female-shaped rather than the moobs they obviously are, or possibly if my chest were smaller. I've come to terms with my big bum now that I'm no longer trying to publicly pretend I'm a man.
Eyelashes [emoji4]. My Ex was jealous of them, no extensions required; bit of mascara and bamm!
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My left hand. It reminds me of my mother, who had lovely hands despite working in a hospital her entire life. I like my feet too - not sure why :)
Id say my nails. To anyone else they look normal for me.but theres a little growth to them and not bitten down so they feel quite feminie. Although did think god you have big thumbs today when was filling them down lol
Despite hating it at times i would have to say my nose. Everything else is pretty boring and even that (nose) i want surgery on... self acceptance is a journey!
As everyone says it's a marathon not a race lol
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I like my lips and though I don't like the snow white color of my hair I do like the length and thickness of it. I'm also very happy with my size now but I was self conscious about it before transition. People would point out how small I was compared to the rest of my family. My dad is 6'2, my brother is 6'4 and my mom is 5'11. I did once ask my dad if I was adopted. He said no I wasn't and he had video of me being born if I wanted to see it. God no! Ewww.
Love my boobs. Always a reminder of who I am.
I've always liked my hands. Ironically enough they're pretty dainty. I've had compliments on the damn things. It's weird. But I do like them. They always look healthy and as if they've been looked after by someone (I don't look after them tbh. The best maintenance they're getting from me is a nail clip every couple of weeks).
And I like my teeth. They're in good shape.
And I like my shoulders/traps. Quite masculine and solid. I build/keep muscle with very little effort, even before T.
Liking the beard that's coming in too.
I actually don't hate my body so much, except for "down there". But for favorites, would probably be my eyes, leads to weird conversations/interactions, but still love them(also still can't decide if they are green, blue, or grey.. I will never know I guess).
Second favorite would be my hands, followed by my hair, which grows pretty fast(sometimes a disadvantage, like when trying to maintain an undercut).
My legs I think
I like my arms a lot cause I feel sexy when I look at them also when I wear cute clothes I love all my body but I like my back usually It's nicely put (I think)
My butt, my legs and my boobs.
Ever since my SRS the choice seems obvious! :D
But out of my 'default parts' I think my eyes, they are very bright blue in direct daylight and by far what people compliment the most about me.. People like shiny eyes :)
What part I like the most. My focus has always been what I hate. This was a good question. Thinking about this made me realize I don't hate my body all through.
I love that my hips aren't huge. I easily fit into mens pants. They even fit me better than womens pants because I have no butt.
I like my hair and sometimes my eyes. People say my eyes are special. I have one half eye brown and the other half blue.
I like my feet. But I hate the pain in my feet.
I have learned to like my reflection in the mirror. I hated watching myself in the mirror before. But not as much anymore. The hair has a lot to do with it. It makes me look like a guy. I try to see what I could become instead of what has been.
Tony
Quote from: MeTony on December 02, 2017, 05:24:51 AM
I like my hair and sometimes my eyes. People say my eyes are special. I have one half eye brown and the other half blue.
TWINSIES!
Honestly my chest is one of my favorite parts of my body. That, and my hands!
Of the visible parts I'd say my eyes. They always look like bedroom eyes, long dark lashes, naturally dark like eyeshadow too. Of the non visible, I'd say my brain. Despite being broken and trans it fires in random and creative ways that have served me well.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 10, 2017, 03:01:03 PM
Of the non visible, I'd say my brain. Despite being broken and trans it fires in random and creative says that have served me well.
That's cool :D!
Id say my legs (as for some reason I have no hair on them at all) and I was never able to get OP on muscle despite gym and rugby - 2nd row ... and my hands as they are quite small for AMAB and have digit ratio of 1.04 for look feminine. And of course my eyelashes as despite pulling them out for years (GD issue) they are long and curly naturally (pain for lining and mascara though).
Hugz Katie J
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