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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Facial feminization surgery => Topic started by: Aurorasky on December 02, 2017, 06:31:47 AM

Title: obsessing about FFS, help
Post by: Aurorasky on December 02, 2017, 06:31:47 AM
Hi everyone,

Even though I have transitioned and feel really good about SRS and BA results, I still feel like my face can look too masculine or weird at times because of my huge nose and my brow. I can't help but feel ugly all the time. I need help. I want to have FFS but my parents don't think it's needed, but I really, really want. I would just feel so much better. How did you girls fund it? What cheap, good options are there in the market for students like myself?

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I really wish dysphoria would stop. I feel ugly all the time.
Title: Re: obsessing about FFS, help
Post by: Jessica Lynne on December 02, 2017, 09:26:13 AM
With proper Rhinoplasty, you'll look like a model. That's about a 4000 dollar proposition. Start saving. Unless your on your folks Insurance and it may or may not pay, that's your options.
But frankly, it's just the dysphoria making you think you need it and your folks are right...I could shave off your hair and put you in jeans and A t-shirt and I'd just see a bald chick in jeans and t shirt. You're gorgeous. LUCKY YOU!
Title: Re: obsessing about FFS, help
Post by: amandam on December 02, 2017, 11:36:07 AM
You look female. If it bothers you, start with a nose job. Then think some more. Don't pick a nose type like some people who mess up their noses, try to find a nose shape that balances your face.
Title: Re: obsessing about FFS, help
Post by: anjaq on December 02, 2017, 02:08:43 PM
I am obsession as well. Its hard to get away from it once one started obessiong about it :(

If you can, try obsessing only about the nose - this is a part that really would make you more beautiful if you get it done - its not that expensive, so I would not try bargain solutions there as nose size reduction and reshaping is one of the most difficult facial surgery procedures.

I dont see something esle wrong, also not the brow - check out some actresses on TV shows and look at their brows, you will see some of them have a lot more brow bossing than you have and still are beautiful. It can even be a bit of a individual facial feature for them. Sours is not prominent at all. If it does give you dysphoria though and you cannot stop obsessing about it, I dont know what can be done though. As I said, I am also obsessed with it even though people say I dont need it, but its rather hard to stop obsessing. Looking at other women who have it and are not trans helps a bit.
Title: Re: obsessing about FFS, help
Post by: Julia1996 on December 02, 2017, 05:39:49 PM
As I already told you in PM you don't need ffs or a nose job. You're a beautiful girl. Nothing about you looks male or ugly.
Title: Re: obsessing about FFS, help
Post by: Drexy/Drex on December 02, 2017, 10:44:46 PM
Indeed as has been pointed out you are very pretty you could overseas thailand and have a holiday get a nosejob
Or even bossing done as well,
I do know how you feel though