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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: PurpleWolf on December 17, 2017, 09:29:50 PM

Title: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: PurpleWolf on December 17, 2017, 09:29:50 PM

Yay! I'm copying the girls coz thought that's such a great post & we can't participate!!! So thought that we guys might need one too,  ;)!

After all - nothing's better than to hear positive things from everyone!

Feel free - anything! What made you smile or happy today?

Feel free to post every single day if you like!

You girls go fill your own thread down there in the mtf section,  ;)! This is for guys only - or any transmasculine whatever person there is!
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 17, 2017, 09:32:51 PM

I'll start:

You awesome people here again, as always  ;).

Been referred to by guy terms today again!

I'm just so much at peace now you can't believe!!! I feel normal again.
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Post by: Kylo on December 17, 2017, 11:11:38 PM
Looks like I'll get all my orders for work done by Xmas. Not my favorite time of year for work but at least I'll be able to give myself a few days off over Xmas. (when I'll have to catch up on uni work but it's fun in comparison)
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Post by: Hughie on December 17, 2017, 11:46:56 PM
Being able to talk with my best friend today about my new name and pen name and that kind of good stuff. That was cool. I'll be submitting the legal name change stuff after Christmas.
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Post by: Roll on December 18, 2017, 12:15:18 AM
(Jumping in with a general comment rather than a "happy today" reply...  :P) Honestly, I've always wondered why the other thread was limited to mtf. Half or more of it is not even transition related. It's important to celebrate everyone being happy without boundaries, so glad you guys now have this thread! Kudos to Herr Wolf! I look forward to reading your tribulations. ;D
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Post by: Pao on December 18, 2017, 02:33:23 PM
Meeting up with my trans friend Amy, who I haven't seen in months.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 18, 2017, 02:44:05 PM
Hanging out here with you guys.... again,  ;)

Viktor - your posts,  ;)!

Helping others here,  ;) as always.

This:
You're waiting to be yourself, and you want the world to see only yourself. I get that, totally. And when you do, you will be free.

Do it. Whenever is right for you. Do it and be free. I believe in you.  :)


Thanks, Sephirah!!!

All your PMs,  ;)!

Got called 'brother' by Ashley  ;D ;D ;D!!! Gender euphoria!!!!!
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Post by: Elis on December 18, 2017, 03:30:44 PM
This happened Saturday. Spending time with my cuddle buddy. I really needed it as wasn't feeling good lately
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 18, 2017, 03:37:49 PM
Quote from: Elis on December 18, 2017, 03:30:44 PM
This happened Saturday. Spending time with my cuddle buddy. I really needed it as wasn't feeling good lately

And who is this cuddle buddy again,  ;)?! I'd like to hear about him,  ;)! Sounds awesome.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 18, 2017, 04:26:51 PM

What's the place below Heaven? - Susan's Place,  :D!
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on December 18, 2017, 07:01:52 PM
Yesterday, I drove from Cleveland to Connecticut the inexpensive yet well, maintained Honda Civic I bought from my Mom for super-cheap! 

After three years of not having a car of my own, I feel like I got my wings back! [emoji2]

Ryuichi

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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 18, 2017, 07:03:25 PM
Quote from: Ryuichi13 on December 18, 2017, 07:01:52 PM
Yesterday, I drove from Cleveland to Connecticut the inexpensive yet well, maintained Honda Civic I bought from my Mom for super-cheap! 

After three years of not having a car of my own, I feel like I got my wings back! [emoji2]

Awesome,  :D! So, you're back?
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on December 18, 2017, 07:09:15 PM
Quote from: PurpleWolf on December 18, 2017, 07:03:25 PM
Awesome,  :D! So, you're back?
Yeah, I'm back on the East Coast...unless you mean Susan's Place.  Happy about being back here too! [emoji2]

Ryuichi

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Post by: TransAm on December 18, 2017, 08:04:08 PM
I found out I have several powerful individuals backing me up from not having my company yank my job of twelve years out from under me.

Also, I've made the concrete decision to pursue a career in either welding, pipefitting, or HVAC moving forward. The new sense of direction feels nice.
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Post by: Sawney1000000 on December 18, 2017, 09:57:46 PM
My brother came to visit today!! I dont get to see him often
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Post by: meatwagon on December 19, 2017, 03:02:35 PM
today?  not much, but it was nice to feel rested when waking up for once, even if i did wake up extremely late.  good thing i didn't have work today...
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 20, 2017, 10:49:46 PM

Emailing with three special people,  ;)

- THE MOST PERFECT DAY OF MY LIFE -
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 23, 2017, 01:00:07 PM

All the Christmas Wishes I've got on this site,  :D!
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Post by: MeTony on December 23, 2017, 01:45:33 PM
I can train with small weight with my shoulder - without pain! Been two months since the injury. That made me happy.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 23, 2017, 01:56:37 PM
Quote from: MeTony on December 23, 2017, 01:45:33 PM
I can train with small weight with my shoulder - without pain! Been two months since the injury. That made me happy.

Cool! Just working out myself, right now,  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: BT04 on December 27, 2017, 09:24:34 PM
Several things:

1. Getting the $350 kilt we got my husband for xmas exchanged and seeing him finally be able to put it on. He looks SO GOOD in a utilikilt.

2. Killing time in a Target with him, browsing the men's section and me being able to tell him "I'm seeing a lot of stuff I want lol" and have him go "It's been that way for years, dear".

3. Spotting a sexy-effin' XJ while around town. It was all black with a single red pinstripe along the side, had a good few inches of lift and 33s or something. Clean and classy. I love it.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on December 27, 2017, 09:49:06 PM

New friends,  ;)

And a surprise message from an old acquaintance  :D!
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Post by: Kylo on January 23, 2018, 06:56:26 PM
Well I have a surgical consultation coming up, but I'm not sure if they know what payment bracket I'm in so that's something to sort out. But that's sooner than I anticipated. Much sooner.
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Post by: KarlMars on January 23, 2018, 10:54:22 PM
Buying some craft supplies. Talking to the admissions lady at my desired college.
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Post by: meatwagon on January 25, 2018, 01:43:29 PM
after almost a month, i finally got around to scheduling my next appointment with the therapist.  haven't had any time with the current work schedule and also being sick. 
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Post by: KarlMars on January 25, 2018, 02:40:02 PM
Visiting my grandmother in the nursing home. Getting a note in the mail so I can get an emotional therapy cat.
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Post by: Kylo on January 25, 2018, 03:02:27 PM
Got a new phone. Now I will be able to speak to the therapist for my 20 mins check  up session without it running down on battery I  hope.
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Post by: tomgaffgames on January 29, 2018, 05:53:13 PM
I didn't have a good day today, but yesterday was my birthday and I came out to a conservative friend who I've known since second grade. She and her mom reacted great!  ;D
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Post by: Cassi on January 29, 2018, 06:21:33 PM
Quote from: tomgaffgames on January 29, 2018, 05:53:13 PM
I didn't have a good day today, but yesterday was my birthday and I came out to a conservative friend who I've known since second grade. She and her mom reacted great!  ;D

Good for you and a belated Happy Birthday!
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Post by: Morgan78 on January 29, 2018, 07:02:23 PM
I scheduled my HRT consult with the clinic today! They provide therapy at the clinic so I do not need a referral from a separate therapist first. The appointment was actually supposed to be this afternoon (!!!), until she went to set the appointment up in the doctor's calendar and saw the doctor is on vacation this week. It was a bit of a letdown, but I'm still thrilled they have an opening next Monday that actually doesn't conflict with my crazy work schedule, so I only have to wait a week!
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Post by: KarlMars on January 30, 2018, 09:41:33 PM
A fast food meal, and a good phone call with my Mom.
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Post by: King Malachite on February 02, 2018, 04:46:01 PM
Getting paid
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Post by: RainCrow on February 06, 2018, 12:47:53 PM
I got to work on my new sculpture project, set up a terrarium, and try a new bread recipe!
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Post by: lee_the_tree on February 06, 2018, 01:46:53 PM
Finished a book then went for a long walk in a beautiful park. Maybe I'll get back to doing weights soon, but for now, cardio is where it's at and that's ok.
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Post by: Hughie on February 07, 2018, 03:32:31 PM
The arrival of my legal name change certificate. That was awesome.

Now starting to come out officially... that's more nerve-wracking. Off to notify HR today to being steps for my 'official' transition at work.
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Post by: AJ3721 on February 08, 2018, 01:18:25 AM
Came out for the first time. To an old ex that is now one of my most solid friends. He was awesome!
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Post by: Kylo on February 08, 2018, 08:50:07 AM
I'm not sure how, but I managed to get a private surgeon and private hospital for chest surgery via the NHS. Looks like it will all be sorted by the end of this month, and I'll have the surgery in March. Think I'll make it down to my ideal weight by then, or won't be far off it. Glad the uncertainty's over. Had my first consult chest photos taken and some discussion with the surgeon, so that's a weight off. Also managed to drive to the place and back without being stuck behind a farm vehicle or at roadworks.
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Post by: AquaWhatever on February 09, 2018, 10:12:16 AM
My first top surgery consultation! AND HE TAKES MY INSURANCE :D I'm literally in his office right now.
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Post by: Nbj on February 11, 2018, 02:36:22 PM
My best friend accidantly (I'm not even out to her yet) calling me "him". Of course everybody laughed, nevertheless it just felt great  8)
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Post by: Morgan78 on February 11, 2018, 03:43:31 PM
Quote from: Nbj on February 11, 2018, 02:36:22 PM
My best friend accidantly (I'm not even out to her yet) calling me "him". Of course everybody laughed, nevertheless it just felt great  8)

Yes, those accidental misgenders before coming out are quite possibly the best feeling ever! :)
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Post by: Degenderate on February 15, 2018, 04:56:15 PM
Quote from: Morgan78 on February 11, 2018, 03:43:31 PM
Yes, those accidental misgenders before coming out are quite possibly the best feeling ever! :)

A little kid in a restaurant recently said, "Is that a boy?!" about me and his parents were mortified, but it secretly made me feel amazing, hahaha    :D


Today I finally joined this forum, so that's a good thing for today! And I ate cheesecake.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on February 26, 2018, 02:00:37 PM
Getting my first letter addressed with my new name  :D!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Plus reading this thread,  ;)

Good luck to all you guys!!!!!
And especially those who are able to have top surgery!!!
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on February 26, 2018, 02:09:45 PM
I'm starting to hear birdsong when I got outside!  Summer's coming! 

I should start looking for swim trunks! 

Ryuichi

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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 01, 2018, 09:57:21 PM

Received the third letter addressed to ME today  :D
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Post by: Kylo on March 01, 2018, 10:31:25 PM
First few times I got my mail in the new name someone in the building or maybe the mail guy kept sending it back. I think they've figured out it's me now but it was annoying for a while.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 01, 2018, 11:33:12 PM
Quote from: Kylo on March 01, 2018, 10:31:25 PM
First few times I got my mail in the new name someone in the building or maybe the mail guy kept sending it back. I think they've figured out it's me now but it was annoying for a while.

Unbelievable...!
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Post by: meatwagon on March 02, 2018, 03:01:21 PM
more mindblown than anything, but i had to record my name to set up my voicemail (still annoyed that it makes you do that instead of just having an option to have it state your phone number) and heard my voice for the first time since before starting T.  i was aware it was changing, but i had never heard a recording of it and what you hear in your own head when you talk is always a bit different.  i was expecting it to sound worse, more feminine than what i hear when i talk, since that's always been the case beforehand when i heard recordings of me.  today i found out it was the opposite.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 02, 2018, 03:33:00 PM
Quote from: meatwagon on March 02, 2018, 03:01:21 PM
more mindblown than anything, but i had to record my name to set up my voicemail (still annoyed that it makes you do that instead of just having an option to have it state your phone number) and heard my voice for the first time since before starting T.  i was aware it was changing, but i had never heard a recording of it and what you hear in your own head when you talk is always a bit different.  i was expecting it to sound worse, more feminine than what i hear when i talk, since that's always been the case beforehand when i heard recordings of me.  today i found out it was the opposite.

COOOOOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Must feel amazing  :)!
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Post by: BT04 on March 02, 2018, 05:32:39 PM
It's payday :P
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Post by: meatwagon on March 02, 2018, 05:53:34 PM
Quote from: PurpleWolf on March 02, 2018, 03:33:00 PM
COOOOOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Must feel amazing  :)!
was pretty cool.  funny enough, I apparently sound a bit like one of the younger guys at my work.  I wonder if he's noticed...
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 02, 2018, 06:24:46 PM
Quote from: meatwagon on March 02, 2018, 05:53:34 PM
was pretty cool.  funny enough, I apparently sound a bit like one of the younger guys at my work.  I wonder if he's noticed...

Hey that reminded me... :D
Once in school (I was around 15-16 I think) I answered some question in class. I always sat in the middle between the girls & boys  :P
And then this one boy asked his friend, 'was that ---?' [one of the guys] And he was like, 'no! it was ---' [my girl name]; followed by an awkward silence...!  >:-) That was damn funny!!! You know the boys had pretty low voices by that time & I was consciously lowering my voice so that felt pretty good! I guess I did a decent job then,  ;)
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 06, 2018, 11:30:39 AM

Got the referral for the gender clinic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HAPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
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Post by: The Flying Lemur on March 06, 2018, 04:42:58 PM
Congrats, PurpleWolf! 

I got a new haircut today--it's a fade on the sides and back and longer on top.  The sides are shorter than I've ever had it before, and it feels great when I run my hand over it. 
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 18, 2018, 04:25:52 AM

The 500th post on this site,  ;)!
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Post by: KarlMars on March 18, 2018, 06:26:36 AM
It will finally be 57 degrees today and sunny. My mother comes over to visit today.
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on March 18, 2018, 10:56:05 AM
The sun is out...even if its 27F outside. [emoji295]

Ryuichi

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Post by: The Flying Lemur on March 19, 2018, 01:19:20 PM
I think I may be seeing someone, for the first time in ages.  I don't want to jinx things by calling him my boyfriend, but I think I can call him "someone I'm going out with."  At least he's made allusions to us seeing each other on an ongoing basis.  Usually one date with me is all it takes for a guy to head for the hills.  :p
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 19, 2018, 02:29:18 PM
Quote from: The Flying Lemur on March 19, 2018, 01:19:20 PM
I think I may be seeing someone, for the first time in ages.  I don't want to jinx things by calling him my boyfriend, but I think I can call him "someone I'm going out with."  At least he's made allusions to us seeing each other on an ongoing basis.  Usually one date with me is all it takes for a guy to head for the hills.  :p

Ben, cool!!! That's great news!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mine: Seeing people  :) (went to an LGBT group)
It's starting to dawn on me not everyone hates me or what I represent... I've had some baaad experiences in the past. Now I'm not sure if it was the right thing to do to socially isolate myself like that... At least making friends seems to be as easy as ever for me! Always been pretty social so...! Okay have made one new irl friend so far... but being optimistic  :)! Despite not seeing anyone for years talking to people seems to be as easy as it used to be - if not a lot easier!!! I've had difficulties in the past to get my voice heard in a group, now not so much.
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Post by: KarlMars on March 19, 2018, 08:23:07 PM
Coming home and taking a nap.
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on March 20, 2018, 04:17:39 AM
Levelling up my favorite character in my video game. [emoji16]

Ryuichi

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Post by: KarlMars on March 20, 2018, 09:22:28 PM
Seeing some friends, meeting someone new.
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Post by: Kylo on March 21, 2018, 04:14:28 PM
Finally I can take a proper shower.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 21, 2018, 11:22:37 PM
Quote from: Kylo on March 21, 2018, 04:14:28 PM
Finally I can take a proper shower.
Yay xD!

Mine: trying to desperately help people out...
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Post by: Liam_Robin on March 22, 2018, 12:37:14 PM
I heard from a guy I care a lot about, after not talking to him for a couple weeks.
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Post by: BT04 on March 22, 2018, 01:41:21 PM
Broke down and finally bought my Jeep a set of 30" BF Goodrich KO2 tires after getting a flat. They were expensive as hell and I'll be eating ramen for a while, but I'm SO happy. Only nice thing that's happened to me in a few weeks.
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Post by: arice on March 24, 2018, 02:24:32 PM
Got called "sir" at a restaurant by a woman looking directly at me... and she didn't correct herself after hearing me talk.

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Post by: MeTony on March 24, 2018, 03:19:35 PM
I finished planning a scout meeting a month before it is time.

It's a water activity. They will build a water track with toiletpaper rolls up a small hill. All help is accepted and they get to use anything they find to rise the track enough for the water to pour into a bottle at the end of the track.

If it rains the will build a marble track indoors.
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on March 24, 2018, 03:57:07 PM
Watching shows and movies on Netflix on a sunny but cold Saturday with my partner. [emoji7]

Ryuichi

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Post by: Degenderate on March 24, 2018, 05:19:56 PM
Ordered my first STP device through the local university's Pride Society! They provide it by donation for people in need, so I'm getting the STP and a harness for only $20. So amazing!!

They take clothing donations for the ladies, too, so I can still give back with some shoes I'll never wear again.   :)
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Post by: arice on March 24, 2018, 05:21:27 PM
Quote from: Degenderate on March 24, 2018, 05:19:56 PM
Ordered my first STP device through the local university's Pride Society! They provide it by donation for people in need, so I'm getting the STP and a harness for only $20. So amazing!!

They take clothing donations for the ladies, too, so I can still give back with some shoes I'll never wear again.   :)
Awesome!

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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 25, 2018, 04:48:32 PM

Practicing my new signature  ;)
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on March 25, 2018, 08:57:59 PM
Played Pokemon Go with the partner for the first time in MONTHS! ☺  And there was two special events going on today as well! [emoji106]

Ryuichi

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Post by: chance on March 27, 2018, 04:17:45 AM
Quote from: Ryuichi13 on December 18, 2017, 07:01:52 PM
Yesterday, I drove from Cleveland to Connecticut the inexpensive yet well, maintained Honda Civic I bought from my Mom for super-cheap! 

After three years of not having a car of my own, I feel like I got my wings back! [emoji2]

Ryuichi

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I had a civic. Those things take a beating and keep on ticking!!  Congrats!!  Great feeling to get/have wheels.  That freedom.


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Post by: chance on March 27, 2018, 04:20:59 AM
Getting health issues taken care of and discussing when and where I'll be able to go shirtless with my wife


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Post by: Kylo on March 27, 2018, 08:44:55 AM
Still can't push full arm mobility yet which is bothering me (pulls on the scars) but at least the healing's coming along good. There's some power in movement again, I can get out of bed normally instead of having to climb out, or avoid reaching high stuff. Won't be long before I feel myself again.

Really makes you appreciate good health. And strength.   
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Post by: Corrina on March 27, 2018, 10:19:02 AM
Being feminine without HRT and choosing which lace panties to wear to work!
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Post by: Robert. on March 27, 2018, 11:28:40 AM
Passing yesterday, even after I'd spoken to the person. I have quite a high voice (not yet on T) but somehow I still pulled it off.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 28, 2018, 11:09:06 PM
Quote from: Robert. on March 27, 2018, 11:28:40 AM
Passing yesterday, even after I'd spoken to the person. I have quite a high voice (not yet on T) but somehow I still pulled it off.

Cool  :D!
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 28, 2018, 11:09:55 PM

Had a great day today  :laugh:!!! Everything seemed to go just smoothly and perfectly!
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Post by: MeTony on March 29, 2018, 05:34:07 AM
I was at the psychiatry waitingroom today. Was to meet a new nurse. (Checking blood pressure, pulse etc because of medication)

The nurse walked into the waiting room and looked at me for a half second and continued further into the waiting room. She called out my female name and I stood up and walked to her. She looked confused.

I told her I'm tg later when we were in her office.

Yesss! I was gendered right today. This happens 50/50.
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Post by: sarah1972 on March 29, 2018, 06:34:59 AM
Quote from: MeTony on March 29, 2018, 05:34:07 AM
I was at the psychiatry waitingroom today. Was to meet a new nurse. (Checking blood pressure, pulse etc because of medication)

The nurse walked into the waiting room and looked at me for a half second and continued further into the waiting room. She called out my female name and I stood up and walked to her. She looked confused.

I told her I'm tg later when we were in her office.

Yesss! I was gendered right today. This happens 50/50.
So happy for you! What a change from the shy little boy just a few month ago! These are the happy moments we all strive for.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 30, 2018, 12:46:23 AM
Quote from: MeTony on March 29, 2018, 05:34:07 AM
I was at the psychiatry waitingroom today. Was to meet a new nurse. (Checking blood pressure, pulse etc because of medication)

The nurse walked into the waiting room and looked at me for a half second and continued further into the waiting room. She called out my female name and I stood up and walked to her. She looked confused.

I told her I'm tg later when we were in her office.

Yesss! I was gendered right today. This happens 50/50.

Damn awesome.....  ;D!!!!!!!!!!! Must've felt GREAT!
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 30, 2018, 12:47:15 AM
Quote from: sarah1972 on March 29, 2018, 06:34:59 AM
What a change from the shy little boy just a few month ago!
Tony, did you use to be a shy little boy  ;D?!!
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 30, 2018, 12:49:44 AM

Getting compliments on my threads  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Plus did one major cleaning thing today (emptied a full wardrobe that was filled with stuff ie garbage so I could use it for other purposes!!!) So happy about that!!!
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Post by: MeTony on March 30, 2018, 01:42:49 PM
Quote from: PurpleWolf on March 30, 2018, 12:49:44 AM
Getting compliments on my threads  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Plus did one major cleaning thing today (emptied a full wardrobe that was filled with stuff ie garbage so I could use it for other purposes!!!) So happy about that!!!

That's great. I should do the same. I have a bad habit of stuffing things away and forgetting about them.


Tony
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Post by: MeTony on March 30, 2018, 01:43:36 PM
Quote from: PurpleWolf on March 30, 2018, 12:47:15 AM
Tony, did you use to be a shy little boy  ;D?!!

Maybe not shy. More like careful. :D
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Post by: Cassi on March 30, 2018, 02:20:47 PM
Quote from: MeTony on March 30, 2018, 01:42:49 PM
That's great. I should do the same. I have a bad habit of stuffing things away and forgetting about them.


Tony

Me too!  I do that will all my exes.  Just kidding.  Don't want the popo's after me.
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Post by: Degenderate on March 30, 2018, 07:42:31 PM
Had to go incognito to lunch with some friends today, and somehow it ended up be my first "sir" from a waitress?!   

Played it cool on the outside, did not play it cool on the inside.    ;D
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Post by: KarlMars on March 30, 2018, 09:15:54 PM
I bought Yuri on Ice on dvd. I bought a few new pieces of clothing.
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Post by: MeTony on March 30, 2018, 09:54:53 PM
Quote from: Degenderate on March 30, 2018, 07:42:31 PM
Had to go incognito to lunch with some friends today, and somehow it ended up be my first "sir" from a waitress?!   

Played it cool on the outside, did not play it cool on the inside.    ;D

Congratulations! I also feel that urge to make a funny dance when people sir me. But I play cool. Haha
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Post by: Degenderate on March 30, 2018, 10:28:28 PM
Quote from: MeTony on March 30, 2018, 09:54:53 PM
Congratulations! I also feel that urge to make a funny dance when people sir me. But I play cool. Haha

Hahaha! *high five*    8)
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Post by: Robert. on March 31, 2018, 11:11:10 AM
I passed two days in a row, which is incredible for me. At the corner shop today, I didn't, but that's just because they know me, via my dad, under my birth name and sex.
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Post by: MeTony on March 31, 2018, 11:23:06 AM
Quote from: Robert. on March 31, 2018, 11:11:10 AM
I passed two days in a row, which is incredible for me. At the corner shop today, I didn't, but that's just because they know me, via my dad, under my birth name and sex.


Way to go Robert! It's easier to pass when people don't know me too.
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Post by: PurpleWolf on March 31, 2018, 04:05:04 PM

Quote from: Degenderate on March 30, 2018, 07:42:31 PM
Had to go incognito to lunch with some friends today, and somehow it ended up be my first "sir" from a waitress?!   

Played it cool on the outside, did not play it cool on the inside.    ;D

Quote from: Robert. on March 31, 2018, 11:11:10 AM
I passed two days in a row, which is incredible for me. At the corner shop today, I didn't, but that's just because they know me, via my dad, under my birth name and sex.

CONGRATS on the passing both of you  ;D!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nothing beats that feeling  ;D!!! Except, maybe... let's not talk about it  ;D
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Post by: KarlMars on March 31, 2018, 09:34:20 PM
A long walk in the sun.
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Post by: MeTony on April 02, 2018, 01:22:16 PM
A girl checked me out at a restaurant. Tried to get eye contact with me several times. Flirty feelings in the spring.... :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: PurpleWolf on April 02, 2018, 02:13:48 PM
Quote from: MeTony on April 02, 2018, 01:22:16 PM
A girl checked me out at a restaurant. Tried to get eye contact with me several times. Flirty feelings in the spring.... :)

Well that's cool  :D! How did you respond  ;D?!
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: MeTony on April 02, 2018, 02:28:16 PM
I panicked. Wasn't ready for that. Haha

I glanced some times at her but then I focused on my company at the table. :D
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Post by: KarlMars on April 02, 2018, 07:50:55 PM
Sleeping in this morning.
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Post by: Degenderate on April 03, 2018, 12:15:22 AM
First time visiting my Mom since a slightly rocky experience coming out to her, and it went great! She's had some time to process, and now everything feels right back to normal, but even better because she knows me fully. So happy.
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Post by: TranzformingYou on April 03, 2018, 02:28:57 PM
I have not been active on the forums for quite some time (so long I forgot my email I used with the account  ???) But I am super happy today because I've finally started a blog about my FTM transition journey! I have been wanting to do it for a long time but never got around to creating it.

I have been on HRT for 7 years and had my top surgery completed 5 years ago and have gained so much knowledge and experience that I'd love to share with you guys.

I wish all of you the best of luck with all of your future endeavors!
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: PurpleWolf on April 03, 2018, 06:06:24 PM
Quote from: TranzformingYou on April 03, 2018, 02:28:57 PM
I have not been active on the forums for quite some time (so long I forgot my email I used with the account  ???) But I am super happy today because I've finally started a blog about my FTM transition journey! I have been wanting to do it for a long time but never got around to creating it.

I have been on HRT for 7 years and had my top surgery completed 5 years ago and have gained so much knowledge and experience that I'd love to share with you guys.

I wish all of you the best of luck with all of your future endeavors!

Cool  :D!!! Welcome back whoever you are!
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: PurpleWolf on April 03, 2018, 06:14:40 PM

Had an absolutely great day today  :D!!!!!

After cleaning & organizing for 5 days straight I finally invited the first friend over in like forever  :D!!! We had a great time!!!!!!
And managed to fix their laptop sound problem (had been without sound for a full year!)! So happy!

After that we ordered pizza with SO and watched Zootopia together for the first time! Absolutely love that film  :D! And identified with the fox character (Nick)!

And I love looking around the clean house  :D!!!
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Post by: chance on April 04, 2018, 12:09:01 AM
I got the call that my letter came through and I'll be scheduling top surgery for sometime in May!!!!!! Woooooooooooooh


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Post by: PurpleWolf on April 04, 2018, 12:43:07 AM
Quote from: chance on April 04, 2018, 12:09:01 AM
I got the call that my letter came through and I'll be scheduling top surgery for sometime in May!!!!!! Woooooooooooooh

CONGRATS  :laugh:!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: chance on April 04, 2018, 03:05:37 AM
Quote from: PurpleWolf on April 04, 2018, 12:43:07 AM
CONGRATS  :laugh:!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks!!!


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Post by: KarlMars on April 04, 2018, 11:52:09 AM
A nice talk with my minister.
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on April 13, 2018, 03:16:02 AM
Working on getting my Paramedic recertification, something that I have to do every three years. 

I may be disabled, but I'm STILL a licensed Paramedic!  8)

Ryuichi
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Post by: Kylo on April 15, 2018, 10:43:22 AM
There's a ton of stuff I'm sitting on that's probably worth a few grand, loads of books, tools, unopened model kits, etc. I decided to let go of and sell up. The things you own end up owning you as they say. Gonna have a clear out and buy a leather jacket and some diving gear I want with the dough.
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Post by: Degenderate on April 15, 2018, 03:33:52 PM
My man Ricciardo won the Chinese GP!!    :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: PurpleWolf on April 17, 2018, 04:46:52 PM

Seeing new avatars of Jailyn & Roll,  ;)!

Continuing massive clean-up; went through a bunch of old clothes and reorganized the closets!!!
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Post by: arice on July 06, 2018, 03:34:26 PM
I had my top surgery consult yesterday and should have top surgery August 15.
Today I heard from my gender psychiatrist and I have my first endocrinologist appointment later this month...
Almost 2 years since I came out to my GP and things are happening almost all at once...

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Post by: Ryuichi13 on July 07, 2018, 12:12:04 AM
My Cards Against Humanity Pride deck (WITH glitter) came in the mail today! 

Enough glitter was included so that I can start planning my glitter calming jar!  ^-^

Ryuichi
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Post by: Sleepydf on July 14, 2018, 05:36:38 PM
 Gonna have a good night at work with people who support me
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Ryuichi13 on July 15, 2018, 12:29:55 AM
Sounds like fun, Sleepydf!  Hope it was!

I'm at a anime convention and I've been referred to with male pronouns all weekend! [emoji16]

Ryuichi

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Post by: PurpleWolf on July 21, 2018, 08:07:06 PM

Got BROTHERED by my mom and sister for the VERY FIRST TIME EVER  :angel:!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: AlexanderDS on July 22, 2018, 02:15:52 AM
Quote from: PurpleWolf on July 21, 2018, 08:07:06 PM
Got BROTHERED by my mom and sister for the VERY FIRST TIME EVER  :angel:!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is awesome! That would make me so happy I'd probably cry a little  ;D

What made me happy today was waking up to a message from the woman of my dreams to say she's going to spin class later - so, quite unexpectedly, I'm seeing her later today instead of next Thursday!
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: PurpleWolf on July 22, 2018, 01:13:30 PM
Quote from: AlexanderDS on July 22, 2018, 02:15:52 AM
That is awesome! That would make me so happy I'd probably cry a little  ;D

What made me happy today was waking up to a message from the woman of my dreams to say she's going to spin class later - so, quite unexpectedly, I'm seeing her later today instead of next Thursday!

Wow that sure sounds cool, ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: arice on July 24, 2018, 12:25:07 AM
I have a prescription for T in my hand and top surgery in less than a month...


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Post by: SallyChoasAura on July 24, 2018, 12:35:12 AM
My day was pretty mediocre, but being here with all you nice people makes me happy! 😄
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Post by: Ryuichi13 on July 24, 2018, 12:37:13 AM
Congrats arice!  Lucky you! :)

I just bought a pair of Tuk tennis shoes/sneakers on ebay!  I've wanted these particular shoes for well over a year and I found some money that I forgot I had stashed to buy them with!  WOOT!

Ryuichi
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: arice on August 16, 2018, 10:56:11 PM
Had top surgery yesterday. Tonight I am at home trying to get some sleep.

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Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Ryuichi13 on September 23, 2018, 12:25:02 PM
Well, technically this happened yesterday.

I co-hosted a party with members of my local anime club, and all evening, I was referred to as he/him/his, even by the one guy that used to constantly misgender me!

FINALLY!!! [emoji2]

Ryuichi

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Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: arice on September 23, 2018, 12:28:26 PM
Quote from: Ryuichi13 on September 23, 2018, 12:25:02 PM
Well, technically this happened yesterday.

I co-hosted a party with members of my local anime club, and all evening, I was referred to as he/him/his, even by the one guy that used to constantly misgender me!

FINALLY!!! [emoji2]

Ryuichi

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That's great!

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Post by: Ryuichi13 on September 23, 2018, 03:52:32 PM
Quote from: arice on September 23, 2018, 12:28:26 PM
That's great!

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I know, right?  :D

And today, a boot sole that I repaired with epoxy, seems to have repaired right!  My first time using epoxy! 

I feel so manly!  ;D

Ryuichi
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: chance on October 03, 2018, 02:50:37 AM
Got my top surgery done on 9/19/2018 and chest is starting to look like a chest.  It's too cold here to go shirtless but I'll be ready for next summer [emoji1340]‍♂️



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Post by: Ryuichi13 on October 03, 2018, 02:55:42 AM
Lucky you, chance!  I bet it'll be great to go swimming the first time!

I am helping to start a transmasculine support group near me.  Tonight I emailed everyone that was interested, and there were over twenty emails!  If six of those that are interested show up for the first meeting, I'll be thrilled! 

Ryuichi
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Post by: ehrhyse on October 07, 2018, 01:18:54 PM
I caught myself in the mirror earlier and felt really good about the way my baby beard looked, even if it's still thin and patchy! It's more than I ever thought I would have and that makes me happy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Northern Star Girl on October 07, 2018, 02:36:35 PM
Quote from: chance on October 03, 2018, 02:50:37 AM
Got my top surgery done on 9/19/2018 and chest is starting to look like a chest.  It's too cold here to go shirtless but I'll be ready for next summer [emoji1340]‍♂️

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@chance
Dear Chance, this is wonderful and terrific news.... as the healing continues and perhaps some more chest hair... you can finally go shirtless and be your real self with more confidence than ever.
I will be eagerly looking for any followup reports that you may want to post.

Again, thanks for your good news update,
Best wishes to you,
Danielle
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Post by: Northern Star Girl on October 07, 2018, 02:40:24 PM
Quote from: ehrhyse on October 07, 2018, 01:18:54 PM
I caught myself in the mirror earlier and felt really good about the way my baby beard looked, even if it's still thin and patchy! It's more than I ever thought I would have and that makes me happy.

@ehrhyse 
Dear Ehrhyse:
    Thank you for coming to the Forums and joining Susan's Place, and wiriting your very first posting with the good news about your new beard.  As your journey continues we will all be eager to read any update postings that you care to share with us.

This is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
     Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with your situation as you feel free to share it.

    Please allow me to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you will soon be aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
    I have included information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle


Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:

Things that you should read


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Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Northern Star Girl on October 07, 2018, 02:50:00 PM
Quote from: ehrhyse on October 07, 2018, 01:18:54 PM
I caught myself in the mirror earlier and felt really good about the way my baby beard looked, even if it's still thin and patchy! It's more than I ever thought I would have and that makes me happy.
@ehrhyse
Dear Ehrhyse:
Just before I let you have your posting back so that other members will know that you are new here and can comment on your posted thoughts.....   

So that more members here on the Susan's Place forums will be aware of your arrival... please find your way to the  Introductions Forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,8.0.html) and write an informative introductions post that tells a little more about yourself.

If you are a younger member can also introduce yourself at the Youth Introductions Forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,544.0.html) and be more able to find other younger members that you might more easily identify with.

Enjoy your time here on the Forums, I trust that you will find this an enjoyable and informative experience.
Best wishes to you.... and again, Welcome to Susan's Place
Danielle

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Post by: Ryuichi13 on October 07, 2018, 10:18:45 PM
Today was (hopefully!) the last day my partner will have his bad hip!  Tomorrow, hip replacement surgery! 

I'll get my Pokemon Go walking partner back!  (And many other things as well! [emoji6])

Ryuichi
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Post by: smithers 70 on November 17, 2018, 04:34:20 PM
I landed a job today  that I think I'm going to really enjoy [emoji16][emoji312]

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Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Ryuichi13 on November 18, 2018, 01:16:15 PM
Quote from: smithers 70 on November 17, 2018, 04:34:20 PM
I landed a job today  that I think I'm going to really enjoy [emoji16][emoji312]

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Congrats!

Well, this happened yesterday, but I'm posting this today since I'm just waking up. [emoji12]

I went to a very informative panel on understanding your legal rights as a Transperson.  Even though we were late (I picked up a friend), we still arrived in time to learn some very important information. 

Ryuichi

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Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: smithers 70 on November 19, 2018, 06:46:23 AM
Quote from: Ryuichi13 on November 18, 2018, 01:16:15 PM
Congrats!

Well, this happened yesterday, but I'm posting this today since I'm just waking up. [emoji12]

I went to a very informative panel on understanding your legal rights as a Transperson.  Even though we were late (I picked up a friend), we still arrived in time to learn some very important information. 

Ryuichi

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That's excellent

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Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Adrian26 on April 02, 2025, 02:41:47 PM
My girlfriend called my by my preferred masc pronouns and got called dude by one of my guy friends!! I even got the dude fist bump thing from him! And my gf's daughter has officially called me daddy!! I have so much euphoria it's insane
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Post by: Lori Dee on April 02, 2025, 03:38:03 PM
That is awesome!

It's little wins like that that keep us motivated to keep going.  :)
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Post by: Northern Star Girl on April 02, 2025, 03:42:38 PM
@Adrian26
Dear Adrian:
Thank you for sharing your very affirming report regarding being addressed by your desired pronouns...
... including a "dude fist bump" ... maybe the next level might be a "belly bump" like young guys in
high school do or good guy friends do :)

Keep your updates coming all around the various topics and threads around the Forum.

I am wishing for you happiness and success in your journey...
My best regards, Danielle
[Northern Star Girl]
Quote from: Adrian26 on April 02, 2025, 02:41:47 PMMy girlfriend called my by my preferred masc pronouns and got called dude by one of my guy friends!! I even got the dude fist bump thing from him! And my gf's daughter has officially called me daddy!! I have so much euphoria it's insane
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Post by: Adrian26 on April 03, 2025, 02:55:53 PM
Today I decided to wear a sock as a packer for the first time and I absolutely love it. ;D It was nice to feel something there, like a physical reminder that no matter what I was gendered throughout the day I'm still a guy. I also used a sports bra as a binder which helped a lot with my chest dysphoria quite a bit. I know I still have a lot of work to do before I have my ideal body, but it's a start and I couldn't be happier about it.
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Post by: Sephirah on April 03, 2025, 05:54:11 PM
Quote from: Adrian26 on April 03, 2025, 02:55:53 PMToday I decided to wear a sock as a packer for the first time and I absolutely love it. ;D It was nice to feel something there, like a physical reminder that no matter what I was gendered throughout the day I'm still a guy. I also used a sports bra as a binder which helped a lot with my chest dysphoria quite a bit. I know I still have a lot of work to do before I have my ideal body, but it's a start and I couldn't be happier about it.

That's awesome. Whatever works for you, dude. It's the little things that have the largest impact. Psychological wins are bigger than physical wins. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Lori Dee on April 03, 2025, 08:57:13 PM
Quote from: Adrian26 on April 03, 2025, 02:55:53 PMToday I decided to wear a sock as a packer for the first time and I absolutely love it. ;D It was nice to feel something there, like a physical reminder that no matter what I was gendered throughout the day I'm still a guy. I also used a sports bra as a binder which helped a lot with my chest dysphoria quite a bit. I know I still have a lot of work to do before I have my ideal body, but it's a start and I couldn't be happier about it.

You could do that under a Prom dress.  ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Adrian26 on April 04, 2025, 08:56:45 AM
Quote from: Lori Dee on April 03, 2025, 08:57:13 PMYou could do that under a Prom dress.  ;)
You're right! You are a lifesaver
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Adrian26 on April 12, 2025, 09:24:48 AM
I made my abuela's cheese enchiladas with her! It was very nostalgic and tasted delicious 😋
Title: Re: What made you happy today? (ftm only, ;), please!)
Post by: Adrian26 on May 05, 2025, 07:22:49 AM
I'm finally wearing the most dude outfit I own: an oversized T-shirt, my sweats, and boxers
Gotta say this is pretty comfortable