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Title: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 29, 2017, 02:00:57 PM
Just ordered my first binder from GC2B I am the happiest guy alive!! I can't believe it I'm so overwhelmed I'm literally crying! I can finally be one step closer to my authentic self...[emoji16]


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: MeTony on December 29, 2017, 02:06:34 PM
Cool. I had the same feeling when I bought mine. It's like magic. :D

Tony
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: Elis on December 29, 2017, 02:32:19 PM
Happy for you  ;D. There's no better feeling than putting on a binder for the first time and feeling how your chest is meant to be  :)

Just try to refrain from touching in public because people will give you strange looks  ::)
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 29, 2017, 02:59:50 PM
Quote from: Elis on December 29, 2017, 02:32:19 PM
Happy for you  ;D. There's no better feeling than putting on a binder for the first time and feeling how your chest is meant to be  :)

Just try to refrain from touching in public because people will give you strange looks  ::)
[emoji23]I'll try not to but GC2B keeps declining my card or saying I need to enter a valid card number[emoji24][emoji24]


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 29, 2017, 03:00:02 PM
Quote from: MeTony on December 29, 2017, 02:06:34 PM
Cool. I had the same feeling when I bought mine. It's like magic. :D

Tony
It's amazing


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: MeTony on December 29, 2017, 11:34:23 PM
Quote from: erintilly14 on December 29, 2017, 02:59:50 PM
[emoji23]I'll try not to but GC2B keeps declining my card or saying I need to enter a valid card number[emoji24][emoji24]


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Can it be so that you need to open up your card to internet on your bank's site?

You need to log in and find somewhere to open up the card. Don't forget to close the card again. It protects you from card theft on internet.


Tony
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 30, 2017, 11:50:09 AM
Quote from: MeTony on December 29, 2017, 11:34:23 PM

Can it be so that you need to open up your card to internet on your bank's site?

You need to log in and find somewhere to open up the card. Don't forget to close the card again. It protects you from card theft on internet.


Tony
Yeah I've opened it up and it still won't work :(. -Ethan


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: MeTony on December 30, 2017, 12:14:17 PM
Quote from: erintilly14 on December 30, 2017, 11:50:09 AM
Yeah I've opened it up and it still won't work :(. -Ethan


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Are you a minor? It might be that your parents need to call the bank and change authoroties on your account. Internet shopping might be blocked on your card.

When I got bank cards to my kids they asked if internet shopping is allowed. I said yes.

Have you bought stuff on internet before?


Tony
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 30, 2017, 03:32:49 PM
Quote from: MeTony on December 30, 2017, 12:14:17 PM

Are you a minor? It might be that your parents need to call the bank and change authoroties on your account. Internet shopping might be blocked on your card.

When I got bank cards to my kids they asked if internet shopping is allowed. I said yes.

Have you bought stuff on internet before?


Tony
I don't think it's that either because I've bought things online before -Ethan


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: MeTony on December 30, 2017, 06:31:51 PM
Quote from: erintilly14 on December 30, 2017, 03:32:49 PM
I don't think it's that either because I've bought things online before -Ethan


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Have you pressed the wrong pin code too many times?

Do you have valid date on the card? The card is not too old?

Call the bank on tuesday and ask them what is going on.

I ordered from c2gb some months ago. I had no problems.


Tony
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 30, 2017, 07:04:43 PM
Quote from: MeTony on December 30, 2017, 06:31:51 PM

Have you pressed the wrong pin code too many times?

Do you have valid date on the card? The card is not too old?

Call the bank on tuesday and ask them what is going on.

I ordered from c2gb some months ago. I had no problems.


Tony
Yes I'm going to call them, I think it's because I am in the UK and GC2B is in dollars so my money is in pounds and I'm trying to order in a different currency but I'm really not sure. -Ethan


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: MeTony on December 30, 2017, 07:23:01 PM
Quote from: erintilly14 on December 30, 2017, 07:04:43 PM
Yes I'm going to call them, I think it's because I am in the UK and GC2B is in dollars so my money is in pounds and I'm trying to order in a different currency but I'm really not sure. -Ethan


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Currencies should not matter.  I live in Sweden and ordered without problems.
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 31, 2017, 06:28:31 AM
Quote from: MeTony on December 30, 2017, 07:23:01 PM

Currencies should not matter.  I live in Sweden and ordered without problems.
Oh.. I don't know why then -Ethan


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: Elis on December 31, 2017, 06:38:45 AM
I would just set up a PayPal account;  it makes buying things online a lot simpler and quicker.
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 31, 2017, 06:49:16 AM
Quote from: Elis on December 31, 2017, 06:38:45 AM
I would just set up a PayPal account;  it makes buying things online a lot simpler and quicker.
IT WORKED!! OH MY GOD IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: Elis on December 31, 2017, 06:51:28 AM
Quote from: erintilly14 on December 31, 2017, 06:49:16 AM
IT WORKED!! OH MY GOD IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!


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Oh really fantastic!!!  :). Did gc2b finally accept your card or did you set up PayPal?
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: MeTony on December 31, 2017, 07:34:01 AM
Quote from: erintilly14 on December 31, 2017, 06:49:16 AM
IT WORKED!! OH MY GOD IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!


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Great! I'm happy for you!
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 31, 2017, 07:40:01 AM
Quote from: Elis on December 31, 2017, 06:51:28 AM
Oh really fantastic!!!  :). Did gc2b finally accept your card or did you set up PayPal?
It finally accepted, I don't know why it wasn't working before but I don't care because I'm so happy!! -Ethan


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on December 31, 2017, 07:40:22 AM
Quote from: MeTony on December 31, 2017, 07:34:01 AM

Great! I'm happy for you!
Thanks so much!! -Ethan


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: Ryuichi13 on January 07, 2018, 11:20:15 AM
Quote from: erintilly14 on December 29, 2017, 02:00:57 PM
Just ordered my first binder from GC2B I am the happiest guy alive!! I can't believe it I'm so overwhelmed I'm literally crying! I can finally be one step closer to my authentic self...[emoji16]


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Congrats!

Just be sure to do your research and learn how to wear it safely, okay?  I'm sure you don't need any broken ribs.

Ryuichi

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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on January 07, 2018, 11:48:05 AM
Quote from: Ryuichi13 on January 07, 2018, 11:20:15 AM
Congrats!

Just be sure to do your research and learn how to wear it safely, okay?  I'm sure you don't need any broken ribs.

Ryuichi

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Thanks bro


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: Just_M on January 07, 2018, 03:58:37 PM
First of all, congrats!! How did you figure out the sizing?
I went shopping yesterday and got some stuff from the female section and 1 item from men's! I felt so great I decided to go out just with my new clothes :D But I also bought something like a sports bra (an XS tank top that is very tight), I wore it for an hour in an attempt to 'bind'. But I got this awful chest pain that hasn't gone away yet even though I've been without that shirt for 24 hours straight. Any ideas guys?
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: Elis on January 07, 2018, 05:17:05 PM
Quote from: Just_M on January 07, 2018, 03:58:37 PM
First of all, congrats!! How did you figure out the sizing?
I went shopping yesterday and got some stuff from the female section and 1 item from men's! I felt so great I decided to go out just with my new clothes :D But I also bought something like a sports bra (an XS tank top that is very tight), I wore it for an hour in an attempt to 'bind'. But I got this awful chest pain that hasn't gone away yet even though I've been without that shirt for 24 hours straight. Any ideas guys?


Had the same problem when trying the sports bra method. Should go away within the next few days; probably just bruised your ribs. Unlikely you caused any permanent damage.

I found with GC2B it caused me no pain whatsoever; even when wearing it all day.

I also found when buying a binder you'll often get it wrong even when measuring your chest carefully. With under works I wondered one too small; with GC2B I ordered one too big
Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: erintilly14 on January 08, 2018, 09:37:33 AM
Quote from: Just_M on January 07, 2018, 03:58:37 PM
First of all, congrats!! How did you figure out the sizing?
I went shopping yesterday and got some stuff from the female section and 1 item from men's! I felt so great I decided to go out just with my new clothes :D But I also bought something like a sports bra (an XS tank top that is very tight), I wore it for an hour in an attempt to 'bind'. But I got this awful chest pain that hasn't gone away yet even though I've been without that shirt for 24 hours straight. Any ideas guys?
I got help with sizing by messaging the staff of the GC2B website and I found them extremely helpful. ;) and I'm sorry I've never bonded before so I'm not sure


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Title: Re: ORDERED MY FIRST BINDER
Post by: CrziCricket on January 11, 2018, 12:45:58 AM
Quote from: Just_M on January 07, 2018, 03:58:37 PM
First of all, congrats!! How did you figure out the sizing?
I went shopping yesterday and got some stuff from the female section and 1 item from men's! I felt so great I decided to go out just with my new clothes :D But I also bought something like a sports bra (an XS tank top that is very tight), I wore it for an hour in an attempt to 'bind'. But I got this awful chest pain that hasn't gone away yet even though I've been without that shirt for 24 hours straight. Any ideas guys?

Is your chest pain worse when you press on the connections of the bones? (Worse when you press in but let's up some after you release pressure?

It could honestly be because your body isn't used to it.
Gc2b makes a big deal about working your body into a binder, start off with an hour or two a day, giving your bod rest days, and then slowly increasing the time.

I had been binding for a few months and suddenly had horrible chest pain that turned out to be costochondritis. Also known as, inflammation of the cartilage of the chest and ribs. I never exceeded the time and was always careful to not overdo it, but my body is prone to inflammation.
It cause massive pains in my chest that had doctors so concerned they wanted to make sure it wasn't my heart.   


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