I'm confused.
But on the other hand I feel my thoughts are becoming clearer. In my daily life, I feel that I am a man. And I'm even looking to pursue gender reassignment. How ever there is one aspect of my life when I feel like dressing like a woman sometimes, and that's in my sex life.
I feel like I do it because to me, women have a sexiness and a beauty that a man can never truly replicate. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel like a bit of a pervert. Because Im a trans man and I still feel like a man and only have the urge to dress like a woman sexually, I feel like I'm doing something wrong even though when I think about it I know I'm not.
Sometimes I question whether I make myself feel like a woman during sex to lessen my dysphoria. But I don't know if that makes any sense.
Indulging in a kink is all about crossing boundaries, and doing something taboo. I think feeling like a pervert is a large part of the experience.
If you're ready, let your freak flag fly! :)
Hugs, Devlyn
A LOT of cis men have this kink. Go on any gay app/forum and you'd find loads. If cis men can have this kink why not a trans man? Everybody has some sort of kinky; from the unusual to the bizarre. Just part of the wonderful weirdness of people ;D
Normally people have some features of the opposite gender. The macho man might be into cooking, nurturing or some other feminine activity. In addition, society defines what is masculine and feminine. Not long ago, it was acceptable for the properly dressed man to wear short skirts and tights. You wouldn't be uncomfortable wearing this type of dress if you you were acting in a play and script called for it so why should you feel uncomfortable with it in the privacy of your own home?
This site is about discovering who you are and if you are a little into the non binary, does it really matter?