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Title: The usual hello :)
Post by: vickijonesuk on January 15, 2018, 04:37:04 AM
Hi Everyone,

I've been lurking for ages so I thought it would be best to finally say hello.

I'm Vicki, actually my name that I'm planning is Bobbi Charlotte Victoria but I've been going out for the last few years (decades!) as Vicki so I'll stick to that for the moment. Bobbi is a special name to my family so I want to keep that too.

Anyway, after years struggling I've finally decided its time for me to do something about me and for me - I'm 48 now - so I have an appt with GenderCare (I'm UK based - South London/Surrey) in March and I'm hoping to get started on HRT while I wait the two years for the GIC in Charing Cross.

I've started some counselling/therapy, have also started getting my face lasered (electrolysis to follow) and voice coaching with an amazing lady called Louise Milner-Smith in Woking.

I'm at the stage of dressing in androgynous female clothes and its making me feel better already - nerve wracking already though but slowly getting used to it - I think that's the key for me, take it slow and feel ok - it will take 2 years to grow my hair out anyway!

Anyway lovely to be here & hope to chat loads more, make some friends (ping me if you're in and around Surrey or London - love to hear from you)

all the best Vicki
Title: Re: The usual hello :)
Post by: Charlotte F on January 15, 2018, 06:33:16 AM
Hi Vicki - welcome to Susan's

I'm Charlotte MTF from Essex/East London and have also going down the private route.  Well done getting that first appointment booked

I look forward to seeing you around the forums

Charlotte x
Title: Re: The usual hello :)
Post by: Jessica on January 15, 2018, 07:48:42 AM
Hi Vicki 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to Susan's!  I'm glad you've joined us from the lurking zone.
I see your new here, so I'll post some links that may help you get better acquainted with the site. 


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Title: Re: The usual hello :)
Post by: V M on January 15, 2018, 06:09:32 PM
Hi Vicky  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
Title: Re: The usual hello :)
Post by: pamelatransuk on February 02, 2018, 05:21:19 AM
Hello Vicki

I have also just joined Susan's, I am 62 and like you and Charlotte have decided to go down the private route.

I live in the North West of England.

Therapy HRT and Electrolysis are the first 3 important matters for me.

Welcome and very best wishes on your journey.

Pamela
Title: Re: The usual hello :)
Post by: Cindy on February 02, 2018, 05:37:15 AM
Hi Vicki,

Lovely to have you on board.

I know the UK system can be drawn out and tiresome but there are many members here who have got through and can give advice.

Oh and yes start electrolysis/laser last year! It can take ages.

Do join in and let us know how you are going.

Cindy
Title: Re: The usual hello :)
Post by: big kim on February 02, 2018, 08:11:30 AM
Welcome from a Blackpool girl