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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: Miss Zoey on January 21, 2018, 10:06:20 PM

Title: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Miss Zoey on January 21, 2018, 10:06:20 PM
Something is up with my step brother Austin and I see it in his face.We talk and get along,he is ok about me being a fulltime crossdresser and does call me Zoey.I get a phone call from him tonight and said he wants to talk about something sometime,wants to make things right.I told him we can meet up at my place and talk about it tomorrow afternoon.Was surprised he said yes to this,he is one year younger than me.Called my mom and she said that is good telling me this.Said good luck on this and said thanks.
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Laurie on January 22, 2018, 01:10:38 AM
It beats me Zoey. I guess you will just have to meet with him and see what is going on. It doesn't sound bad though.

Hugs,
   Laurie
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Miss Zoey on January 22, 2018, 05:24:01 PM
Said he was thinking about accepting that I am happy as a fulltime crossdresser finally.He does now and I was glad he said it
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: HappyMoni on January 22, 2018, 09:16:23 PM
That's fantastic. He really put effort into it too. Sometimes it takes people a while.
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Miss Zoey on January 22, 2018, 09:32:18 PM
Quote from: HappyMoni on January 22, 2018, 09:16:23 PM
That's fantastic. He really put effort into it too. Sometimes it takes people a while.
He did and things look a whole lot better now.He said 20 years of not accepting it was way too long and it had to end
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: HappyMoni on January 22, 2018, 09:45:14 PM
20 years is a lot of sad wasted time, but at least it ended well. Some people think if they put up enough fuss that it will change our reality. Newsflash, they have no control to make us different. Happy for you Zoey.
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Miss Zoey on January 23, 2018, 05:05:39 PM
I am happy now it's over,Austin and I can look towards the future putting the past behind us.
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: KathyLauren on January 23, 2018, 05:49:37 PM
I guess that, just like some of us take longer to come out or to transition, others take longer to accept.  It's all right if it ends well.  It sounds like this one has a happy ending! :)
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Laurie on January 23, 2018, 06:02:02 PM
Hey Zoey

  I want to get on that happy train with the others, Congrats on your brother making an effort to tell you he is sorry for not accepting you before and wanting to settle it with you. It likely was not an easy thing for him to do.

Hugs,
   Laurie
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Miss Zoey on January 23, 2018, 09:43:25 PM
My step brother said it was not easy and had guilty feelings not accepting it at all.
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Miss Zoey on January 30, 2018, 05:48:41 PM
Here is an update,Austin is been great and I am amazed by the positive changes he has made.He is learning very well and told him how it all started how it all started.Austin is learning everyone is different in a good way,he knows I always felt as a feminine male all my life loving to wear feminine clothing now.He is also getting to know me more,one is I am like any genetic woman.He seen my shoe collection,said I am a shoeaholic and told him this is true.
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: HappyMoni on January 30, 2018, 06:02:36 PM
Zoey,
   There is something special about someone coming around to be supportive after not being that way earlier. I am happy it is going well. I am experiencing a little of the opposite right now. A friend who seemed supportive has now drifted away. I guess my change was too much for him. Sad!
Moni
Title: Re: Something is up with my step brother
Post by: Miss Zoey on January 30, 2018, 08:32:53 PM
Quote from: HappyMoni on January 30, 2018, 06:02:36 PM
Zoey,
   There is something special about someone coming around to be supportive after not being that way earlier. I am happy it is going well. I am experiencing a little of the opposite right now. A friend who seemed supportive has now drifted away. I guess my change was too much for him. Sad!
Moni
Austin has learned very well this is me,I have always been happy dressed as Zoey.My mom and step dad are also glad he is supportive now including my step sister.