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Title: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 28, 2018, 10:06:39 AM
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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: stephaniec on January 28, 2018, 11:06:48 AM
looks nice
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: bobbisue on January 28, 2018, 11:10:01 AM
       You look great be careful I think you know the drill tell a friend where you are going etc.


      bobbisue :)
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 28, 2018, 11:29:45 AM
Quote from: bobbisue on January 28, 2018, 11:10:01 AM
       You look great be careful I think you know the drill tell a friend where you are going etc.


      bobbisue :)
Okay thanks will do! All new rules for dating as a girl haha!

You don't think I'm going overboard with the fem though before I can pull it off? Just started hrt and I dunno I don't want to stick out and it be obvious I'm trans, it's a lot easier to hide in a sweater and jeans or something :)


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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: DawnOday on January 28, 2018, 11:40:53 AM
Unless you develop a 5 oclock shadow you should be fine. ;D  Just stay away from politicians and rich guys.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Gertrude on January 28, 2018, 11:48:53 AM
A Little short, but if you like it, go for it.


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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 28, 2018, 12:35:16 PM
Quote from: Gertrude on January 28, 2018, 11:48:53 AM
A Little short, but if you like it, go for it.


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Yeah I'm not sure I've lost enough muscles on my legs to pull it off. That combined with the "guy" tan lines on my legs from gym shorts in the summer it's a little iffy.


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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: DawnOday on January 28, 2018, 12:56:32 PM
Quote from: Courtney.lane408 on January 28, 2018, 12:35:16 PM
Yeah I'm not sure I've lost enough muscles on my legs to pull it off. That combined with the "guy" tan lines on my legs from gym shorts in the summer it's a little iffy.


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Have you ever seen Misty Copeland's calves? Seems out of place in such a beautiful woman than you realize how much work she has put into it and all you can do is admire her.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much?
Post by: Rachel on January 28, 2018, 01:05:25 PM
You look great.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Gertrude on January 28, 2018, 01:17:28 PM
Quote from: Courtney.lane408 on January 28, 2018, 12:35:16 PM
Yeah I'm not sure I've lost enough muscles on my legs to pull it off. That combined with the "guy" tan lines on my legs from gym shorts in the summer it's a little iffy.


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I'm somewhat conservative when it comes to clothes and I don't have the greatest legs. I try to think how would a women my age dress?


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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Stevie on January 28, 2018, 01:20:44 PM
 You look nice, its dependent on where you're going if its too much. 
Going into mom mode now, don't take drinks from strangers and never leave your drink where you can't see it.  But most of all have fun.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Denise on January 28, 2018, 04:37:21 PM
The stares you will get are not clocking.  Nice outfit!

Good luck.

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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Allison S on January 28, 2018, 05:13:29 PM
I love that dress!!! I wouldn't be able to pull it off in the slightest. But you do!! Show your body off girl!

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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Cassi on January 28, 2018, 05:23:33 PM
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I don't think you'll suffer from lack of attention.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Roll on January 28, 2018, 07:03:27 PM
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO JEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALOUS.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Lady Lisandra on January 28, 2018, 08:40:06 PM
I like the dress. Depending on what kind of date you're going to, it's fine.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on January 28, 2018, 08:47:25 PM
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Wow love the dress looks great on you
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: rmaddy on January 28, 2018, 09:00:16 PM
Quote from: Cassi on January 28, 2018, 05:23:33 PM
I don't think you'll suffer from lack of attention.

Except from me.  I've been zooming the pic to try to see what is sticking out of the Amazon box next to the frig. .
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Charlie Nicki on January 28, 2018, 10:02:23 PM
Beautiful!!

Soooo how did the date go?

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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: VickyS on January 29, 2018, 05:52:10 AM
Quote from: Roll on January 28, 2018, 07:03:27 PM
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO JEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALOUS.

Ditto!  :-*
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Kc1058 on January 29, 2018, 07:04:11 AM
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You look fantastic Courtney!!

-Christyn
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: ghost0001 on January 29, 2018, 07:28:19 AM
Love that dress.  Enjoy your night ma'am.  You look stunning.

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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: CallMeKatie on January 29, 2018, 07:37:39 AM
Beautiful smile,  amazing hair, pretty dress and great body.  Envy is not enough  :D :)
Title: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 29, 2018, 04:53:33 PM
Thanks for all the kind words everybody, you all gave me the confidence to wear that dress and it went great!

He was so nice and already texted me about going out again and I think we are gonna go get drinks this weekend!

He could tell it was a wig butttt asked if I had cancer or something lol!! So he had to idea [emoji4] And my natural hair is gonna be so much better and is almost long enough so I was all smiles haha. now the questions how to tell him what's up, but that's a pretty great problem to have!

Thanks again everyone.

Oh and don't be jealous of my boobs haha that's all padding [emoji4] though the ass is all me [emoji12]




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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Cassi on January 29, 2018, 04:56:54 PM
Quote from: Courtney.lane408 on January 29, 2018, 04:53:33 PM
Thanks for all the kind words everybody, you all gave me the confidence to wear that dress and it went great!

He was so nice and already texted me about going out again and I think we are gonna go get drinks this weekend!

He could tell it was a wig butt asked if I had cancer or something lol!! So he had to idea [emoji4] And my natural hair is gonna be so much better and is almost long enough so I was all smiles haha. now the questions how to tell him what's up, but that's a pretty great problem to have!

Thanks again everyone.

Oh and don't be jealous of my boobs haha that's all padding [emoji4] though the ass is all me [emoji12]




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I'm personally delighted that you enjoyed yourself and I hope that you continue to have a good time.  Just be careful both in the physical sense as well as emotional.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Charlie Nicki on January 30, 2018, 07:20:51 AM
Quote from: Courtney.lane408 on January 29, 2018, 04:53:33 PM
He could tell it was a wig butttt asked if I had cancer or something lol!! So he had to idea [emoji4] And my natural hair is gonna be so much better and is almost long enough so I was all smiles haha. now the questions how to tell him what's up, but that's a pretty great problem to have!

I don't have any advice besides being honest, but let us know how it goes.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 30, 2018, 06:46:58 PM
Quote from: Charlie Nicki on January 30, 2018, 07:20:51 AM
I don't have any advice besides being honest, but let us know how it goes.
Yeah I'm sure it will be fine I know he's lgbt friendly being bi and a friend of a friend.




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Title: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 30, 2018, 06:50:00 PM
Just posted this on ->-bleeped-<- transtimelines let's hope I don't get outed by a friend who goes on ->-bleeped-<- haha! What do you guys think hotter as a guy or girl lol? These are all from the same day.

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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: HappyMoni on January 30, 2018, 06:52:14 PM
Are you kidding? GIRL all the way! :)
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Laurie on January 30, 2018, 06:58:57 PM
 Uggggh  I have to agree with ummm That Woman whats her name? All girl all the way.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Cassi on January 30, 2018, 07:26:47 PM
Looking female in all pictures, but dressing hot should have included having nails done. :)
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 30, 2018, 07:29:10 PM
Quote from: Cassi on January 30, 2018, 07:26:47 PM
Looking female in all pictures, but dressing hot should have included having nails done. :)
Haha you got me there. This is from like 3 months ago before I started hrt when I was not out to anyone but like 3 or 4 people so no nails lol


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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Cassi on January 30, 2018, 07:32:28 PM
Quote from: Courtney.lane408 on January 30, 2018, 07:29:10 PM
Haha you got me there. This is from like 3 months ago before I started hrt when I was not out to anyone but like 3 or 4 people so no nails lol


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Charming my dear, absolutely charming!
Title: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Courtney.lane408 on January 30, 2018, 08:23:33 PM
Quote from: Cassi on January 30, 2018, 07:32:28 PM
Charming my dear, absolutely charming!

For sure happy these days! I male failed for the first time ever at work today when I used my girl voice with someone lol! It was awesome. This is what I looked like today 20 days into hrt unshaven with no makeup on in guy mode  not really sure how they read me as female but I'll take it! Long journey ahead but I'm super excited!!(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180131/f808f6786addc5943a3760af40222ea6.jpg)


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Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Cassi on January 30, 2018, 08:41:08 PM
Quote from: Courtney.lane408 on January 30, 2018, 08:23:33 PM
For sure happy these days! I male failed for the first time ever at work today when I used my girl voice with someone lol! It was awesome. This is what I looked like today 20 days into hrt unshaven with no makeup on in guy mode  not really sure how they read me as female but I'll take it! Long journey ahead but I'm super excited!!(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180131/f808f6786addc5943a3760af40222ea6.jpg)


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I see a woman who just woke up.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Colleen_definitely on January 31, 2018, 06:48:46 AM
Honestly I'm surprised you haven't had a lifetime of male fails so far.  You look great and it's only going to get better as HRT takes hold.
Title: Re: Going on a date tonight! You think this dress is too much? Don’t want to overdo it
Post by: Jin on January 31, 2018, 09:40:05 AM
Depends on what your desired outcome is.
If you want to get laid, you are perfect!

If you just want to have fun, you may be a bit too short.