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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Tamika Olivia on January 29, 2018, 05:04:52 PM

Title: Legally... me!
Post by: Tamika Olivia on January 29, 2018, 05:04:52 PM
So today I finally went to court and had my name changed to Tamika Olivia! I'm no longer living under am assumed name, and awkwardly pretending that deadname is a separate human when I talk to people outside of the know. I've been living as Tamika for so long that I didn't expect to feel this good, but it's a huge relief!

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Title: Re: Legally... me!
Post by: ChrissyRyan on January 29, 2018, 05:23:00 PM
Congratulations Tamika!


Title: Re: Legally... me!
Post by: Jessica_Rose on January 29, 2018, 05:43:17 PM
That is awesome news Tamika! To some it may just be a piece of paper, but being able to use your real name on everything must feel pretty good.
Title: Re: Legally... me!
Post by: Geeker on January 29, 2018, 08:20:36 PM
Congratulations!  :eusa_clap:
Title: Re: Legally... me!
Post by: Devlyn on January 29, 2018, 08:24:33 PM
Big hug! That is a great piece of paper, isn't it?  ;D

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Legally... me!
Post by: StacyRenee on January 29, 2018, 10:11:03 PM
Yay! Such a huge relief, isn't it? Now the arduous task of changing it everywhere else. Seems to take forever. From legal name change to receiving my new birth certificate was four months for me. But now everything is squared away. Just my old records that need to be changed (my college degree/transcripts and military DD214). My VA letters are addressed to Mr. Stacy Renée xxxxx because my DD214 is still male.