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Title: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: fleurgirl on February 06, 2018, 10:35:18 PM
I'm not going to disclose my real name for privacy reasons, but my online name is FleurGirl and I have known I was transgender for as long as I can remember. I knew I was transgender before I even knew what the world was, and as a small child I would always sit up in bed and pray that God would "fix" me and put my in the right (female) body.

When I hit puberty, I fell into a deep depression. I struggled more and more with gender dysphoria through middle school and in high school, and at the beginning of my Junior year I had a mental breakdown and was hospitalized. Yep, sounds pretty crappy, right?

However, I found myself. I realized that I was going to live my life how I wanted to, whether people would accept me or not. People like Laverne Cox, Gigi Gorgeous, Stef Sanjati, and forums (like this one) gave me the extra boost of bravery to begin my own transition. So, here I am, 17-years-old and on testosterone blockers. I already feel 100 times better, and I just hope that, as a society, we keep progressing in terms of LGBTQ+ equality and gender equality.

Much love, FleurGirl
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: JulieAllana on February 07, 2018, 12:10:09 AM
Welcome to the party FleurGirl!

         I wish I had known at an early age like you.  Of course, back when I was that age, I would have been locked up.  Congratulations on starting blockers and taking the steps to be happy with yourself and your body.  Like so many of us here, we are on very similar paths and we give each other strength.


              -Julie
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: V M on February 07, 2018, 12:24:16 AM
Hi FleurGirl  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that we offer to all new members to help them along


Things that you should read


Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Cautionary Note (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,82221.0.html)
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
Membership Agreement (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,216851.0.html)

Hugs

V M
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: Charlie Nicki on February 07, 2018, 10:13:31 AM
Welcome!!
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: Janes Groove on February 07, 2018, 12:29:43 PM
Welcome to the site FleurGirl.
Great name. And congratulations on fully embracing your true self.
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: fleurgirl on February 07, 2018, 10:14:32 PM
Quote from: JulieAllana on February 07, 2018, 12:10:09 AM
Welcome to the party FleurGirl!

         I wish I had known at an early age like you.  Of course, back when I was that age, I would have been locked up.  Congratulations on starting blockers and taking the steps to be happy with yourself and your body.  Like so many of us here, we are on very similar paths and we give each other strength.


              -Julie

Thanks, Julie!
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: fleurgirl on February 07, 2018, 10:14:52 PM
Quote from: Janes Groove on February 07, 2018, 12:29:43 PM
Welcome to the site FleurGirl.
Great name. And congratulations on fully embracing your true self.

Why, thank you, Jane!!
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: fleurgirl on February 07, 2018, 10:15:22 PM
Quote from: Charlie Nicki on February 07, 2018, 10:13:31 AM
Welcome!!

Thank you, Charlie! :-)
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: fleurgirl on February 07, 2018, 10:16:13 PM
Quote from: V M on February 07, 2018, 12:24:16 AM
Hi FleurGirl  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that we offer to all new members to help them along


Things that you should read


Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Cautionary Note (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,82221.0.html)
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
Membership Agreement (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,216851.0.html)

Hugs

V M

Thanks for the links! And thank you for welcoming me! xx  :) :P
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: Jessica on February 07, 2018, 10:35:27 PM
Hi Fleurgirl 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to Susan's!  I'm Jessica, very happy to meet you.
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: AnnMarie2017 on February 08, 2018, 01:15:58 AM
Glad to meet you, Fleurgirl. Lovely avatar, by the way.

Thanks for sharing your history. As crappy as it was to go through, there are girls who would trade places with you if they could. And you've emerged from your dark night in one piece and ready to embrace the future. You go, girl! :D
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: fleurgirl on February 08, 2018, 09:36:56 PM
Quote from: AnnMarie2017 on February 08, 2018, 01:15:58 AM
Glad to meet you, Fleurgirl. Lovely avatar, by the way.

Thanks for sharing your history. As crappy as it was to go through, there are girls who would trade places with you if they could. And you've emerged from your dark night in one piece and ready to embrace the future. You go, girl! :D

Thank you, Ann! Very sweet of you.  :)

P.S.: Yes, I LOVE my avatar!! She kinda looks like me.
Title: Re: Hey, I'm FleurGirl
Post by: fleurgirl on February 08, 2018, 09:38:40 PM
Quote from: Jessica on February 07, 2018, 10:35:27 PM
Hi Fleurgirl 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to Susan's!  I'm Jessica, very happy to meet you.

Nice to meet you, too, Jessica!