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Title: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 13, 2018, 10:30:18 AM
I tend to be a modest person, always have been, even back in my male college days.
I almost never wear a lot of skin exposing outfits.  I have cleavage, very happy about that, but I don't usually wear clothes that show a lot of that... It's just me.
Here is the kind of dress that I like to wear, modest but definitely feminine.

Question:  What kinds of female clothes do you prefer to wear.  Please post a photo if you can.


Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Laurel D on February 13, 2018, 11:17:59 AM
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 13, 2018, 10:30:18 AM
I tend to be a modest person, always have been, even back in my male college days.
I almost never wear a lot of skin exposing outfits.  I have cleavage, very happy about that, but I don't usually wear clothes that show a lot of that... It's just me.
Here is the kind of dress that I like to wear, modest but definitely feminine.

Question:  What kinds of female clothes do you prefer to wear.  Please post a photo if you can.


I'm was the kind of person that wore a shirt in the swimming pool. So I always wanted to be covered up.

I wear jeans and a sweater most of the time. ( Still winter in the PNW).

I occasionally wear a jean skirt, or a long black dress. ( But always with leggings, until I lose more weight and it warms up.)

   

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Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 13, 2018, 12:49:09 PM
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Quote from: lds98498 on February 13, 2018, 11:17:59 AM
I'm was the kind of person that wore a shirt in the swimming pool. So I always wanted to be covered up.

I wear jeans and a sweater most of the time. ( Still winter in the PNW).

I occasionally wear a jean skirt, or a long black dress. ( But always with leggings, until I lose more weight and it warms up.)


@ lds98498:  Thanks for your reply... your current pic shows nice progress, keep the progress pics coming.  :)

My personal feelings are that unless a trans-woman has it all in the way of a feminine build and appearance, and can pass without question, I think it is best, at least for me, to not be too flashy and bring attention to myself.  Don't get me wrong, I love attention but it can be way too easy to attract the wrong kind of attention from homophobic people watchers.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: krobinson103 on February 13, 2018, 01:08:21 PM
Skinny jeans and a blouse are my favourite. Feminine enough to be gendered right, but not so out there my wife melts down too much.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: ChrissyRyan on February 13, 2018, 01:14:48 PM
T-Shirt (or some weather appropriate top), dark blue classic straight cut jeans, and sneakers.


Chrissy

Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Colleen_definitely on February 13, 2018, 01:17:26 PM
Jeans and whatever top I have handy.  I absolutely adore the duluth trading company firehose cargo pants I bought for work.

As for tops, I like t-shirts, am currently wearing a semi low cut blouse here on the job, and sometimes I'll even go full lez and rock flannel over a cami or something.  (while driving a subaru, who doesn't love a good stereotype? lol)
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Cassi on February 13, 2018, 01:28:19 PM
Who says we have to wear clothes???

Just kidding - jeans blouse/shirt, camisol, etc.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: KathyLauren on February 13, 2018, 01:29:18 PM
This time of year, it's skinny jeans and a sweater.  Unless it's cold enough that I need to wear long johns (long janes?) underneath, in which case I'll wear cords.  In summer, it's skirts for me, though I'll often wear capris for variety.

Variety in clothes: there's a concept that I couldn't enjoy as my old self!  Now I love it.

My avatar pic is a typical spring/summer outfit for me.  One day last spring, I caught a glimpse of myself in the patio doors and had my wife grab the camera and take some pics.  I just looked so darned good, I needed to preserve the evidence.  Here's the uncropped version:

(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4560/37699081515_6ff82a4ae0_b.jpg)
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Cassi on February 13, 2018, 01:32:25 PM
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 13, 2018, 01:17:26 PM
Jeans and whatever top I have handy.  I absolutely adore the duluth trading company firehose cargo pants I bought for work.

As for tops, I like t-shirts, am currently wearing a semi low cut blouse here on the job, and sometimes I'll even go full lez and rock flannel over a cami or something.  (while driving a subaru, who doesn't love a good stereotype? lol)

Is that the Eerie Indiana crow in your avatar?
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Jin on February 13, 2018, 02:02:30 PM
Here is what I have on today. It may be winter outside, but is cozy warm in the office. I have a parka for in between.
This is typical of my work outfits, my play outfits are a bit spicier.
(https://i.imgur.com/Rv0lqUG.jpg)
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Colleen_definitely on February 13, 2018, 02:03:54 PM
Quote from: Cassi on February 13, 2018, 01:32:25 PM
Is that the Eerie Indiana crow in your avatar?

It's a pic I took last July at the Cliffs of Moher.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: DawnOday on February 13, 2018, 02:44:50 PM
I actually thought I would make a good runway model. Maybe 40 years ago but today I'm a bit more discerning in public, wearing jeans, boots and colored tops. But in private I still wear my bodycons and short dresses. Oh and dangly earrings. I am wearing my bodycon in my profile. I got a new webcam so hopefully I will be able to take pictures that are capable of getting my whole body into it.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Allison S on February 13, 2018, 04:50:48 PM
I like crop tops, blouses/light sweaters, light jackets, and cardigans with skirts/leggings. Also form fitting dresses, I love showing my back or legs.

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Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 13, 2018, 04:58:11 PM
Quote from: Allison S on February 13, 2018, 04:50:48 PM
I like crop tops, blouses/light sweaters, light jackets, and cardigans with skirts/leggings. Also form fitting dresses, I love showing my back or legs.

@Allison S:  I am not much into crop tops although I have a fairly slim waist and curves so they look fine on me, and I love form fitting tops and dresses too like the one in my first picture in my original posting on this thread.  I like form fitting tank tops, and tops with a racer back. I have a C-cup bust so I like showing that but not exposing too much skin with plunge necklines and such.   Showing my back.. not so much, but I am told that my legs are a good asset for me.  I love heels.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Cassi on February 13, 2018, 05:33:05 PM
I would love to be able to fit and wear those outfits that Diana Rigg worn in the BBC Avengers series.  Loved it when she kick the C outta those evil doers!
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: I Am Jess on February 13, 2018, 05:51:18 PM
I typically wear dresses or a blouse with slacks or a skirt to work.  Things like this-

(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4744/39541729374_bb759608a5_c.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/23-%3E-bleeped-%3C-wJ)(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4620/25382382897_2794621e85_c.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/EEXm8k)(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4310/35859856572_453ef7c0d9_c.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/WCP92b)


When I go out I can be a little bit more wild -

(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4574/38709373271_4d89e9e3d0_c.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/21YBE4r)(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4672/40253090501_34e82c37c0_b.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/24k2BpK)(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4662/26380774888_1dc54f650f_c.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/Gcbnhm)

Weekends are jeans and a t-shirt or workout clothes.  Bikini's at the pool or beach.

Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 13, 2018, 05:56:01 PM
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Quote from: I Am Jess on February 13, 2018, 05:51:18 PM
I typically wear dresses or a blouse with slacks or a skirt to work.  Things like this-
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When I go out I can be a little bit more wild -
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Weekends are jeans and a t-shirt or workout clothes.  Bikini's at the pool or beach.

What else can I say, you look absolutely terrific in all of those outfits.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: KathyLauren on February 13, 2018, 06:01:12 PM
Jess, I am so envious!
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: I Am Jess on February 13, 2018, 06:16:30 PM
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 13, 2018, 05:56:01 PM
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What else can I say, you look absolutely terrific in all of those outfits.

Thanks girlfriend.

Quote from: KathyLauren on February 13, 2018, 06:01:12 PM
Jess, I am so envious!

Don't be.  You are beautiful girl.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on February 13, 2018, 07:40:54 PM
Right now these are my favorite outfits for winter.

(https://i.imgur.com/GFwRUEW.jpg)(https://i.imgur.com/QSkVIfw.jpg)
(https://i.imgur.com/CnXKEJv.jpg)(https://i.imgur.com/2G2j3iK.jpg)
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Cassi on February 13, 2018, 07:42:39 PM
some of my fav colours
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 13, 2018, 08:20:57 PM
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Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 13, 2018, 07:40:54 PM
Right now these are my favorite outfits for winter.

@ natalie.ashlyne:  You look terrific in all of those outfits.   It appears that your HRT is progressing well. :)
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on February 13, 2018, 08:31:33 PM
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 13, 2018, 08:20:57 PM
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@ natalie.ashlyne:  You look terrific in all of those outfits.   It appears that your HRT is progressing well. :)

Thank you, yes I just wish it would work faster but so does everyone else I think my clothing style is helped by working with 95 percent females and learning what looks good on them and what does not and matching stuff I never used to match anything before now everything has to match
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: esphoria on February 14, 2018, 04:22:10 AM
Oooh One of my favorites is the one I have on in my avatar with a bold makeup look, but I love wearing my hoodie and leggings for casual (or my fancy jeans), its cute and comfy

(https://scontent.ffcm1-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t31.0-8/28061494_347290199120000_7422582675691413006_o.jpg?oh=bcce00f46dc2b029854c6be24ff2b231&oe=5B2663A3)

don't mind the bed I just did laundry and couldn't find my rosin before rehearsal (It was in my case hehe)
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: esphoria on February 14, 2018, 04:28:13 AM
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 13, 2018, 10:30:18 AM
I tend to be a modest person, always have been, even back in my male college days.
I almost never wear a lot of skin exposing outfits.  I have cleavage, very happy about that, but I don't usually wear clothes that show a lot of that... It's just me.
Here is the kind of dress that I like to wear, modest but definitely feminine.

Question:  What kinds of female clothes do you prefer to wear.  Please post a photo if you can.

(https://i.imgur.com/y4pT4hE.jpg)

You look so cute in that dress I totally get why you like I sorta love it :P
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on February 14, 2018, 04:37:12 AM
Quote from: esphoria on February 14, 2018, 04:22:10 AM
Oooh One of my favorites is the one I have on in my avatar with a bold makeup look, but I love wearing my hoodie and leggings for casual (or my fancy jeans), its cute and comfy

(https://scontent.ffcm1-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t31.0-8/28061494_347290199120000_7422582675691413006_o.jpg?oh=bcce00f46dc2b029854c6be24ff2b231&oe=5B2663A3)

don't mind the bed I just did laundry and couldn't find my rosin before rehearsal (It was in my case hehe)

Love the pink looks good on you
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 14, 2018, 10:38:05 AM
Quote from: esphoria on February 14, 2018, 04:22:10 AM
Oooh One of my favorites is the one I have on in my avatar with a bold makeup look, but I love wearing my hoodie and leggings for casual (or my fancy jeans), its cute and comfy

(https://scontent.ffcm1-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t31.0-8/28061494_347290199120000_7422582675691413006_o.jpg?oh=bcce00f46dc2b029854c6be24ff2b231&oe=5B2663A3)

don't mind the bed I just did laundry and couldn't find my rosin before rehearsal (It was in my case hehe)

@ esphoria:  Very cute casual outfit... I love your hair in this picture...  you look very pretty for sure.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: RobynTx on February 14, 2018, 02:03:39 PM
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 13, 2018, 02:03:54 PM
It's a pic I took last July at the Cliffs of Moher.

Beautiful place.  We were very upset we didn't see any puffins when we visited.  Maybe next time.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: RobynTx on February 14, 2018, 02:06:56 PM
I thought at first that I would wear skirts and dresses as much as possible.  I find that skinny jeans is more comfortable.  Around the house it's mostly yoga pants that I wear.  As I get further along I'll spread out into other clothes.  I already can't wait for swimsuit season.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Cassi on February 14, 2018, 02:16:02 PM
Quote from: RobynTx on February 14, 2018, 02:06:56 PM
I thought at first that I would wear skirts and dresses as much as possible.  I find that skinny jeans is more comfortable.  Around the house it's mostly yoga pants that I wear.  As I get further along I'll spread out into other clothes.  I already can't wait for swimsuit season.

And you've forgotten your bra already??????
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Anne Blake on February 14, 2018, 03:52:25 PM
I live in comfy conservative skirts and tops, leaning towards the boho look from old hippy days. My avatar shows a typical outfit. I do own a couple pair of skinny jeans but I have only been able to force myself to wear them a couple of times.....

Tia Anne
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: RobynTx on February 14, 2018, 06:27:10 PM
Quote from: Cassi on February 14, 2018, 02:16:02 PM
And you've forgotten your bra already??????

Nope, haven't forgotten that. Just need to sneak out to the mall.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Cassi on February 15, 2018, 09:29:52 AM
Quote from: RobynTx on February 14, 2018, 06:27:10 PM
Nope, haven't forgotten that. Just need to sneak out to the mall.

Good for you.  BTW, what's the TX mean in your name Robyn?
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Jin on February 15, 2018, 10:38:36 AM
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 14, 2018, 03:52:25 PM
I do own a couple pair of skinny jeans but I have only been able to force myself to wear them a couple of times.....

Tia Anne

I love my skinny jeans. Now if I just had a skinny ass to go with them!
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: RobynTx on February 15, 2018, 10:41:17 AM
Quote from: Cassi on February 15, 2018, 09:29:52 AM
Good for you.  BTW, what's the TX mean in your name Robyn?

Texas.  I was born and raised in Texas.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Cassi on February 16, 2018, 01:06:18 PM
Quote from: RobynTx on February 15, 2018, 10:41:17 AM
Texas.  I was born and raised in Texas.

That's totally cool Robyn!  I became a Born Again Texan or "BAT" back in 2013 when I moved from California to the Houston area.  Cost of living was 1/3rd less than CA, Bacon could be purchased for 1.99/Pound - not 12 ounces, 16. And jumbo eggs for .99 cents - I was in chicken and hog heaven :)
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: barbie on February 16, 2018, 08:39:02 PM
In my case, there is a trade-off between beauty and comfort in choosing outfits. As I am getting old, I tend to shift to the comfort. Usually I wear one-piece wrap dress, which can look fashionable and very comfortable as much as sleeping gown. In winter, I do not care about beauty at all, just any warming-up jacket with some leggings, and of course, long boots.

(https://c1.staticflickr.com/9/8718/29524060112_3c2bc87cd5.jpg) (https://c1.staticflickr.com/5/4711/40309595221_f3217e36c5_c.jpg)

barbie~~
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 16, 2018, 11:32:30 PM
Quote from: barbie on February 16, 2018, 08:39:02 PM
In my case, there is a trade-off between beauty and comfort in choosing outfits. As I am getting old, I tend to shift to the comfort. Usually I wear one-piece wrap dress, which can look fashionable and very comfortable as much as sleeping gown. In winter, I do not care about beauty at all, just any warming-up jacket with some leggings, and of course, long boots.

(https://c1.staticflickr.com/9/8718/29524060112_3c2bc87cd5.jpg) (https://c1.staticflickr.com/5/4711/40309595221_f3217e36c5_c.jpg)

barbie~~

@ barbie: You look great in your new outfit...  I love you legs!  Your avatar photo is terrific also.
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Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: RobynTx on February 17, 2018, 09:35:00 PM
Quote from: Cassi on February 16, 2018, 01:06:18 PM
That's totally cool Robyn!  I became a Born Again Texan or "BAT" back in 2013 when I moved from California to the Houston area.  Cost of living was 1/3rd less than CA, Bacon could be purchased for 1.99/Pound - not 12 ounces, 16. And jumbo eggs for .99 cents - I was in chicken and hog heaven :)

Cost of living is great here.  That does spoil me into not leaving any time soon.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 18, 2018, 07:43:17 AM
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 16, 2018, 11:32:30 PM
@ barbie: You look great in your new outfit...  I love your legs!  Your avatar photo is terrific also.
Title: Re: Favorite outfits to wear
Post by: barbie on February 18, 2018, 09:34:47 AM
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 18, 2018, 07:43:17 AM
@ barbie: You look great in your new outfit...  I love your legs!  Your avatar photo is terrific also.

Thanks! My little daughter is curios about my legs, sometimes touching them. When spring comes, I will look for new outfits!

barbie~~