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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: Miss Zoey on February 14, 2018, 07:38:59 PM

Title: Saw my dad today and defended myself
Post by: Miss Zoey on February 14, 2018, 07:38:59 PM
I saw my dad today for the first time and defended myself very well.He wanted to see me as my male side whom I don't dress as anymore and was being very pushy to me.It hurt me,I held my head up high.Told him stay out of my life if he continues to be the way he was the last time I saw him when I was 7 years old.He never saw I am happy as a fulltime  crossdresser.My dad was mean and cruel to me in the past,he thought I was a sissy boy 2 days later after finding out mom put make up on me.Mom was amazed I stood up for myself also proud of me doing this.I don't want him in my life if he still does not accept this to this day.My mom agrees,he is being ignorant and that is wrong.I am happy being Zoey more comfortable dressed as her.
Title: Re: Saw my dad today and defended myself
Post by: Devlyn on February 14, 2018, 07:46:56 PM
Big hug! There's no reason to keep toxic people around, family or not. You put a shot across the bow, maybe it can be a teaching moment. Best wishes with him.

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Saw my dad today and defended myself
Post by: Miss Zoey on February 14, 2018, 08:07:48 PM
I knew he would stay this way and my relationship with him was toxic.
Title: Re: Saw my dad today and defended myself
Post by: HappyMoni on February 14, 2018, 08:12:20 PM
Proud of you Zoey!
Title: Re: Saw my dad today and defended myself
Post by: biannne on February 18, 2018, 04:31:13 PM
I am so proud of you for standing up for who you are.

Big hug from me for that,