hello i am crossdresser from india. i have a little moustache which i shaved to look more girly.Seeing me everybody in my family scolded me and told the moustache will grow harder and indeed the moutache that has grown again is much harder and darker which removes almost all feminine trait from my face.....and everybody has warned me not to shave my moustache again .what shall i do ???? even with make up i look like a pure male with none female traits??what shall i do?
with regards,
anita mann
Quote from: anitamann on December 20, 2007, 01:00:36 AM
hello i am crossdresser from india. i have a little moustache which i shaved to look more girly.Seeing me everybody in my family scolded me and told the moustache will grow harder and indeed the moutache that has grown again is much harder and darker which removes almost all feminine trait from my face.....and everybody has warned me not to shave my moustache again .what shall i do ???? even with make up i look like a pure male with none female traits??what shall i do?
with regards,
anita mann
Hi, Mann,
In my case, fortunately I have little mustache compared with other men. I noticed that most Caucasian women have more fine hairs in their faces and arms than me. Still, my beard needs some care.
My solution is a combination of a home laser hair remover and a pair of tweezers.
http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=433440
http://www.bnbmedical.co.kr/english/product/product_info.htm?no=20
The epila hair laster remover I purchased at ca. $100 through the internet (e.g., ebay) worked well for some areas such as legs and bikini line, but did not work well for my beard. The reason is because hairs are usually far deeply rooted in the jaw area, and the laser hardly penetrates into the base of hair root. Although the epila did not completed removed hairs in the my jaw, regrown hairs became thinner and thinner after repeatedly applying the laser. I sometimes tweeze the hairs burned by the laser, because they may look ugly. Even in my legs, the hairs still regrown, but they are thinner and less noticeable compared with 1 year ago.
Laser and tweezers is time-consuming, but if you are patient and your hairs are black, it could help some. Applying the laser little by little would be better.
The effectiveness of the laser hair remover varies greatly depending on the person.
Barbie~~
im just 15 yrs,,,,,,,,,i cant have a laser remover...........and cant even shave or wax my upper lips bcoz my family will scold me.........what shall i do??????????
Quote from: anitamann on December 22, 2007, 03:12:19 AM
im just 15 yrs,,,,,,,,,i cant have a laser remover...........and cant even shave or wax my upper lips bcoz my family will scold me.........what shall i do??????????
Then tweezers would be enough. There are many kinds of tweezers and you have better get a most expensive one to pluck up fine and short hairs. In my country, it costs about $3. Less expensive ones are coarse k and can not pick up fine hairs. In the case of the U.S., it costs about $4, and its tips are sharp and look very strong. After trial and errors, you may find a best one for you.
Barbie~~