I absolutely adore femboys, despite being a straight female.
I love the way they look so cute and petite and vulnerable.
Most of them are very very good looking people.
I have no attraction at all to tomboys but I enjoy a pretty male though. Especially when he has a soft personality,...
Is this common in cis women too, to be attracted to femboys?
Do femboys fall under the trans umbrella or are they cis men?
I have a lot of female friends who like to praise my beauty and give tips on beauty and fashion. Some of my Facebook female friends also are eager to meet me, and they sometimes did. I do not know exactly what is the motivation of their approach to me. I am married and a dedicated dad of 3 kids, which I guess may discourage any further adventure to me. Anyway I am happy whenever I chat with my female friends, as I assume that they accept me in their inner circles exclusive to women.
barbie~~
Well depends on the femboy. I think a metrosexual guy is feminine in a way but still cis. Or a pretty boy that has "pretty" features but is still seen as a male and identifies as such.
I feel a bit insecure around those types. I usually prefer a guy (yes, like my roommate lol) that's tall, muscular, has a deep voice and plays sports. A dominant and confident personality is what gets me most that's for sure.
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Quote from: barbie on February 25, 2018, 10:32:55 AM
I have a lot of female friends who like to praise my beauty and give tips on beauty and fashion. Some of my Facebook female friends also are eager to meet me, and they sometimes did. I do not know exactly what is the motivation of their approach to me. I am married and a dedicated dad of 3 kids, which I guess may discourage any further adventure to me. Anyway I am happy whenever I chat with my female friends, as I assume that they accept me in their inner circles exclusive to women.
barbie~~
It's no sexual attraction that I cherish towards femboys but admiration rather. I love how delicate and soft they are and it forms a contrast with their male sex.
Many people in the TG / TS community seam offended by drag queens and crossdressers and ->-bleeped-<-s and femboys and I on the other hand support them.
It's so beautiful : a male with a feminine side.
If my husband later would be a femboy, I would accept that. As long as he is a dedicated hubby.
It's just special, you know?
Non-binary people are fascinating in my opinion.
I support them and cherish them.
I guess I'm not all that different from cis females when I hear about your GG friends on Facebook :-D
Quote from: Allison S on February 25, 2018, 10:34:47 AM
Well depends on the femboy. I think a metrosexual guy is feminine in a way but still cis. Or a pretty boy that has "pretty" features but is still seen as a male and identifies as such.
I feel a bit insecure around those types. I usually prefer a guy (yes, like my roommate lol) that's tall, muscular, has a deep voice and plays sports. A dominant and confident personality is what gets me most that's for sure.
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I'm sexually attracted to alpha males but mentally attracted to beta males.
I like men like Simon Baker from the Mentalist who is domi, confident, smart, handsome with beard,...
but I love admiring cute femboys because I'm thinking about how pretty they would be if they transitioned.
Yes that's totally normal!! We're human and wanna just relate on all levels usually. That's why sometimes cis women are friends with gay males/ straight men with lesbians. But then for a partner it's even more complex and deeper I think. Overall I like my roommate's (lol) alpha masculine energy and being but the gentleness of his touch makes me melt... if that makes sense.
I think muscular guys in tight clothing is kinda hot sometimes especially if they have a nice butt.
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I had a similar conversation with the girl I work with she knows everything about me she uses the term pretty boys where they are groomed fully fashionable may wear eyeliner mascara. She knew that I have always and I mean always had a thing for Paul Walker even before I transitioned.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 25, 2018, 11:15:33 AM
I had a similar conversation with the girl I work with she knows everything about me she uses the term pretty boys where they are groomed fully fashionable may wear eyeliner mascara. She knew that I have always and I mean always had a thing for Paul Walker even before I transitioned.
Paul Walker from Fast and Furious?
Isn't that guy dead since 2013 or so?
Quote from: Transfused on February 25, 2018, 11:18:18 AM
Paul Walker from Fast and Furious?
Isn't that guy dead since 2013 or so?
Yes he is unfortunately as that ruined my fantasy but I have always had a crush on him since 99 with the movies varsity blues and shes all that I was only into his type secretly I have never dated a male
I don't admire feminine boys as much as wonder what gender they are. Before transition I was often labeled as a pretty femboy which I totally hated. I was also referred to as a " twink" by gay guys and some Cis people. When I see a " femboy" I just always wonder if they might be trans and want to transition but can't yet for whatever reasons and if they are miserable being stuck as a femboy. As for attraction, I'm only attracted to tall, muscular, masculine guys. I guess I'm shallow that way but I like what I like.
Quote from: Julia1996 on February 25, 2018, 12:29:01 PM
I don't admire feminine boys as much as wonder what gender they are. Before transition I was often labeled as a pretty femboy which I totally hated. I was also referred to as a " twink" by gay guys and some Cis people. When I see a " femboy" I just always wonder if they might be trans and want to transition but can't yet for whatever reasons and if they are miserable being stuck as a femboy. As for attraction, I'm only attracted to tall, muscular, masculine guys. I guess I'm shallow that way but I like what I like.
It's more admiration in a way of " WoW, he would be pretty if he transitioned ".
Sexually I'm into manly men only. The alpha males as we say.
I am one of those women who is around gay guys all the time after transition. They know what to shop for and they give great styling advice haha
Oh and they often know popular cis girls that they can bring me into contact with.
I have always wanted to be popular.
I need attention and I love drama. I'm a Kardashian type of girl when it comes to that.
Gossips, drama and attention are soooo me.
Quote from: Transfused on February 25, 2018, 12:33:47 PM
It's more admiration in a way of " WoW, he would be pretty if he transitioned ".
Sexually I'm into manly men only. The alpha males as we say.
I am one of those women who is around gay guys all the time after transition. They know what to shop for and they give great styling advice haha
Oh and they often know popular cis girls that they can bring me into contact with.
I have always wanted to be popular.
I need attention and I love drama. I'm a Kardashian type of girl when it comes to that.
Gossips, drama and attention are soooo me.
I'm around 2 gay guys at work but I don't associate with them or any gay people on my own time. They are ok as co workers but though they treat me respectfully it's not hard to see that they do not consider me or any transwoman to be a "real" woman. Or as they put it in their ridiculous gay slang, " a real fish". I don't like drama and try to avoid it if possible. I'm sure they probably know some very popular women too but I couldn't care less. I was certainly not popular in school and I totally don't care about being popular now. And one thing I have noticed is how gay guys almost seem to worship the kardashians. I totally hate them and I think they are utterly worthless as people and can't understand why anyone would want to watch them. But after "here comes honey boo-boo" I guess people will watch anything. Just my opinions.
I'm in between you gals- Transfused and Julia, that is. I like gay guys, they're not all gossipy and kardashian types at all.
On the note of being popular, most girls in my HS were fashion or cosmetology majors. But I think the girls in architecture, my major at the time, were much more relateable to me. My point is being popular is relative anyway.
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